Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,249 Member
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

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  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

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    i wouldn't say men are "able to" fully function,
    so much as men still "have to" fully function
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

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    Nah. Also, I can't help but wonder how a soldering iron could be worked into this analogy somehow. Just nerd stuff, carry on.
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

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    oh and then prolly girl’s problems are like contaminants within the bulk silicon or crystal defects, and guys are like triboelectricity issues
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

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    oh and then prolly girl’s problems are like contaminants within the bulk silicon or crystal defects, and guys are like triboelectricity issues

    We're connected, psychically, at the hip. If brains had hips 🤷🏾‍♀️
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,249 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

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    i wouldn't say men are "able to" fully function,
    so much as men still "have to" fully function

    See. That’s what I mean! I feel like men and women both have to do that! Something happens you still get that shot done. Right? A cousin sent this to me and asked me what I thought. I told her I didn’t really like it and she thought I was crazy!
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    hrichts wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

    cx0jpjejkl0k.jpeg

    i wouldn't say men are "able to" fully function,
    so much as men still "have to" fully function

    See. That’s what I mean! I feel like men and women both have to do that! Something happens you still get that shot done. Right? A cousin sent this to me and asked me what I thought. I told her I didn’t really like it and she thought I was crazy!

    Maybe it’s not gender specific so much as some people can compartmentalize and some can’t. I wish I could say that I’m the type to get my *kitten* done when something goes wrong but even though I’m not very emotional, if one thing falls apart, it’s comin a flood

    i fall apart for a day and squish it all down with squasher downer and go live life the same
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,249 Member
    hrichts wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

    cx0jpjejkl0k.jpeg

    i wouldn't say men are "able to" fully function,
    so much as men still "have to" fully function

    See. That’s what I mean! I feel like men and women both have to do that! Something happens you still get that shot done. Right? A cousin sent this to me and asked me what I thought. I told her I didn’t really like it and she thought I was crazy!

    Maybe it’s not gender specific so much as some people can compartmentalize and some can’t. I wish I could say that I’m the type to get my *kitten* done when something goes wrong but even though I’m not very emotional, if one thing falls apart, it’s comin a flood

    Yes. I definitely agree with that. I think that’s a better way to look at it. If I don’t just keep going nothing would get done. I have a lot of people depending on me. It’s not to say things don’t bother me. They deeply do. But I don’t feel like it “affects all areas of my life” like the writing stated. I can put things on the back burner until I’m alone and can quietly deal with it on my own. Or whatever.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    edited September 2020
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

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    I think it's situational and dependent on the person and their mood... Everyone tries to claim to be a certain way but we are always of multiple minds...

    Get me around a group of people and I may decide to put myself on stage and perform but then put me around someone else and I could be totally shy and awkward...

    As for women, I don't think they are absolutely one way or the other... I want to say yeah, one light goes out and the all go out... Sometimes I suppose

    But I remember just last week, her and I argued about something in the morning and I literally had no clue that anything was wrong all day until late at night, when we were lying and bed... Then boom, she hits me with it 😂...

    Wtf do women do this? 😂
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    What's it really mean when you say "I'm fine"...
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Ladies...

    What's it really mean when you say "I'm fine"...

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  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    hrichts wrote: »
    hrichts wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

    cx0jpjejkl0k.jpeg

    i wouldn't say men are "able to" fully function,
    so much as men still "have to" fully function

    See. That’s what I mean! I feel like men and women both have to do that! Something happens you still get that shot done. Right? A cousin sent this to me and asked me what I thought. I told her I didn’t really like it and she thought I was crazy!

    Maybe it’s not gender specific so much as some people can compartmentalize and some can’t. I wish I could say that I’m the type to get my *kitten* done when something goes wrong but even though I’m not very emotional, if one thing falls apart, it’s comin a flood

    i fall apart for a day and squish it all down with squasher downer and go live life the same

    I prefer to just ignore my problems and hope they go away but also I haven’t been able to find a squasher downer since the pandemic began

    u know, twice this week i legit forgot we had the whole pandemic thing happening, like just... i forgot

    it even happened, was happening

    idk if this is some brain damage poor memory *kitten* like i messed with my head too much and now i just dont retain some things, or maybe it weird coping mechanism i grew into idk





  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    *snip* Wtf do women do this? 😂

    I know a guy like this.

    "Don't let the sun go down on your anger" is a saying, yes (or something similar)? And, in this instance, your darling may have also wanted to you to figure out how to resolve the argument without her needing to be proactive.

    Like you said, it's a situational thing. I may do this at times (avoidance conflict resolution style) but I'd much rather be proactive about it without adding fuel to a disagreement with someone I care about.
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    Ladies...

    What's it really mean when you say "I'm fine"...

    That depends on what is her face doing when saying this phrase.
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    what does it mean when a boy says hes fine
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    what does it mean when a boy says hes fine

    I'm fine.
  • CacoEther
    CacoEther Posts: 2,465 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    hrichts wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    In general do you agree with these analogies or naw?

    cx0jpjejkl0k.jpeg

    i wouldn't say men are "able to" fully function,
    so much as men still "have to" fully function

    See. That’s what I mean! I feel like men and women both have to do that! Something happens you still get that shot done. Right? A cousin sent this to me and asked me what I thought. I told her I didn’t really like it and she thought I was crazy!

    Maybe it’s not gender specific so much as some people can compartmentalize and some can’t. I wish I could say that I’m the type to get my *kitten* done when something goes wrong but even though I’m not very emotional, if one thing falls apart, it’s comin a flood

    Yes. I definitely agree with that. I think that’s a better way to look at it. If I don’t just keep going nothing would get done. I have a lot of people depending on me. It’s not to say things don’t bother me. They deeply do. But I don’t feel like it “affects all areas of my life” like the writing stated. I can put things on the back burner until I’m alone and can quietly deal with it on my own. Or whatever.

    Teach me your ways 😅
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Ladies...

    What's it really mean when you say "I'm fine"...

    It means 'I don't want to talk about it' so I don't burn this bridge/totally wreck whatever the relationship is

    ...so in other words it means I give a *kitten* I guess
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    hrichts wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    what does it mean when a boy says hes fine

    I'm fine.

    Sheesh no reason to get hostile

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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    what does it mean when a boy says hes fine

    It means he's being a girl 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    Forward and direct guy, or vague and mysterious guy?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    What's it really mean when you say "I'm fine"...

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    So not fine is better than fine? 😬
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    what does it mean when a boy says hes fine

    I'm fine.

    i think u might be right
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    what does it mean when a boy says hes fine

    I think it means hes feeling melancholic

    I do tend to 'write my own script' tho
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    what does it mean when a boy says hes fine

    I think it means hes feeling melancholic

    I do tend to 'write my own script' tho

    well *kitten*