Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Homey don't play high maintenance.

    What if she looks high maintenance but she's not. Will that still throw you off?

    @R3d_butt3rfly

    nope.



    .... did you have anyone in mind ?? B)
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Homey don't play high maintenance.

    Isn't one is only high maintence when their standard of living is drastically different than yours?

    Like what if someone was all outdoorsy and into camping, hikes, parks, etc, but the other person is the opposite into fancy clothes, cars, foods, places, etc?

    Cuz I think people automatically assume the latter is more high maintenance. 🤷‍♀️



    I could be completely wrong though. I don't know. 5 mimosas and I shouldn't be allowed to chat in these places.... 😬😬
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Homey don't play high maintenance.

    Isn't one is only high maintence when their standard of living is drastically different than yours?

    Like what if someone was all outdoorsy and into camping, hikes, parks, etc, but the other person is the opposite into fancy clothes, cars, foods, places, etc?

    Cuz I think people automatically assume the latter is more high maintenance. 🤷‍♀️



    I could be completely wrong though. I don't know. 5 mimosas and I shouldn't be allowed to chat in these places.... 😬😬

    I think it's a combination of factors. Expectations. $. Time. Mentality that your needs and/or wants take priority.

    I know. Cause...high maintenance
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Homey don't play high maintenance.

    Isn't one is only high maintence when their standard of living is drastically different than yours?

    Like what if someone was all outdoorsy and into camping, hikes, parks, etc, but the other person is the opposite into fancy clothes, cars, foods, places, etc?

    Cuz I think people automatically assume the latter is more high maintenance. 🤷‍♀️



    I could be completely wrong though. I don't know. 5 mimosas and I shouldn't be allowed to chat in these places.... 😬😬

    I think it's a combination of factors. Expectations. $. Time. Mentality that your needs and/or wants take priority.

    I know. Cause...high maintenance

    Lmao
    People think I am pretty easy going and I generally am. But I think I am high maintenance.
    However, if someone's way of life and their needs are same or similar to mine..... guess that makes both of us "low maintenance" to each other?

    I am more inclined to put others needs before mine. Too many years of being a doormat and people pleaser... So I feel I give a more low maintenance vibe from that..... till people really get to know me and I become more vocal. 🤣🤣
    Then its like "um.... ok, princess 🙄"

    😂😬🙈
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Guys/girls......how would you describe someone that is “high maintenance”?
    What does that really mean in your opinion?

    I have been thinking about this.....
    I think its someone who has a specific way of life and is expecting others to conform to their ways.
    Or is just uninterested in venturing outside their comfort bubble.

    Or just anyone who doesn't get along with what I want. They are clearly high maintenance...... 😂
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Guys/girls......how would you describe someone that is “high maintenance”?
    What does that really mean in your opinion?

    I tried to answer this but the list of *kitten* I do every day got kinda ridiculous so I'll just say yeah 😂

    waiting. 🤨
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?

    Ladies:

    Would you prefer an honest man or one who lies to protect your delicate ego?

    Honest. But hopefully with a bit of a filter so he's not just blurting out every truth that pops in his head. "Wow, I've definitely had better sex than that with other women." "You work out? I'd never know by your appearance." Etc.
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  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?

    Ladies:

    Would you prefer an honest man or one who lies to protect your delicate ego?

    Honest.
    But with tact.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?

    Ladies:

    Would you prefer an honest man or one who lies to protect your delicate ego?

    Honest.
    But with tact.

    Drat.

    ..... two strikes already
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Homey don't play high maintenance.

    Isn't one is only high maintence when their standard of living is drastically different than yours?

    Like what if someone was all outdoorsy and into camping, hikes, parks, etc, but the other person is the opposite into fancy clothes, cars, foods, places, etc?

    Cuz I think people automatically assume the latter is more high maintenance. 🤷‍♀️



    I could be completely wrong though. I don't know. 5 mimosas and I shouldn't be allowed to chat in these places.... 😬😬

    @tinak33

    high maintenance = a diminishing return on investment

    investment being, time, money and/or emotional energy
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    The whether is heating up so...
    Dudes in shorts, below the knee or above?

    I hear below the knee is like a big no, but that's how I wear all my shorts so... Really?
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Ladies...

    The whether is heating up so...
    Dudes in shorts, below the knee or above?

    I hear below the knee is like a big no, but that's how I wear all my shorts so... Really?
    I like it like this
    h5bib0smht4y.jpeg

  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Ladies...

    The whether is heating up so...
    Dudes in shorts, below the knee or above?

    I hear below the knee is like a big no, but that's how I wear all my shorts so... Really?
    I like it like this
    h5bib0smht4y.jpeg
    Ladies...

    The whether is heating up so...
    Dudes in shorts, below the knee or above?

    I hear below the knee is like a big no, but that's how I wear all my shorts so... Really?
    I like it like this
    h5bib0smht4y.jpeg

    hot fashion tip:

    always tuck-in the wife beater into the cutoff jean shorts

    (extra points if the jeans are frayed & the undershirt is stained with yellow mustard.)
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    Ladies...

    The whether is heating up so...
    Dudes in shorts, below the knee or above?

    I hear below the knee is like a big no, but that's how I wear all my shorts so... Really?

    I like them just a little above the knee or right on the knee. I also like khaki shorts. Jean shorts is a nope for me. My dad ruined that for me 😆
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    The whether is heating up so...
    Dudes in shorts, below the knee or above?

    I hear below the knee is like a big no, but that's how I wear all my shorts so... Really?
    I like it like this
    h5bib0smht4y.jpeg

    I'm calling meatloaf on this one...
    Because I won't do that 😬...

    Well, most likely not 😏
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Ladies...

    The whether is heating up so...
    Dudes in shorts, below the knee or above?

    I hear below the knee is like a big no, but that's how I wear all my shorts so... Really?
    I like it like this
    h5bib0smht4y.jpeg

    I'm calling meatloaf on this one...
    Because I won't do that 😬...

    Well, most likely not 😏

    In the days of my youth this is what it meant to be a man.

    All the cool boys dressed like that
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    Guys how do you feel about ponytails (hair up) vs hair down
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    spade117 wrote: »
    ponytails

    I prefer to call them grips.

    Hmm, maybe I'm not quite understanding. You're going to have to be super detailed...and graphic 😜
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Guys how do you feel about ponytails (hair up) vs hair down

    Well... Which ones... Nvm 😂

    I guess it depends honestly, but I like ponytails...
    It's like the male equivalent of rolled up sleeves 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,426 Member
    Ladies...

    The whether is heating up so...
    Dudes in shorts, below the knee or above?

    I hear below the knee is like a big no, but that's how I wear all my shorts so... Really?

    Right above the knee. Optical illusion involving kneecaps showing making you look taller. I use the same trick for myself. ;)
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,426 Member
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?

    Ladies:

    Would you prefer an honest man or one who lies to protect your delicate ego?

    I don't know that I have a honest/liar paradigm, so much as a sarcastic *kitten*/painfully sincere paradigm. If sarcasm is lying, I would like a man to lie his *kitten* off.

    Not so much for my ego purposes, but more for things not being boring purposes.
  • XxFunctionalStrengthxX
    XxFunctionalStrengthxX Posts: 2,466 Member
    Ladies...

    The whether is heating up so...
    Dudes in shorts, below the knee or above?

    I hear below the knee is like a big no, but that's how I wear all my shorts so... Really?

    Not a lady by any means. But, it really depends on the kind of shorts you wear. My running shorts are slightly mid thigh, while my MTB shorts are just above the knee.


    Now, for those of us who wear kilts, there is a proper length (warning language):

    https://youtu.be/AJ_fFLaljY0
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    Guys how do you feel about ponytails (hair up) vs hair down

    Well... Which ones... Nvm 😂

    I guess it depends honestly, but I like ponytails...
    It's like the male equivalent of rolled up sleeves 🤷🏽‍♂️

    I see what you did here and am fully onboard with what you're sayin.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    Guys how do you feel about ponytails (hair up) vs hair down

    Well... Which ones... Nvm 😂

    I guess it depends honestly, but I like ponytails...
    It's like the male equivalent of rolled up sleeves 🤷🏽‍♂️

    I see what you did here and am fully onboard with what you're sayin.

    I feel like this is the wrong answer

    @Mr_Healthy_Habits does level of hotness matter here?!?

    What if said girl looks like a boy with hair back...like hypothetically 😬