FIT MOMS WITH BIG BUTS?

FIT MOMMAS🦋💕 I know to each it’s own, but idk why pregnancy made me lose my butt, my butt wasn’t super big but it was getting there and now I have a small booty. This is just an example of my goal, BUT I don’t know if I should just get lipo and fat transferred to my gluteus. Is it hard getting your big booty back once you’re a mom? I don’t know if it’s more difficult to put on muscle but agh; I love the big bum look and I want mine big and round! HELP 🥴
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  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    Girl I’m asking because many of my friends who are moms told me they never got their old booty back and I have no support or anyone else to talk to about fitness.
    Again?!?

    Yes, just get the lipo. You obviously aren't willing to do the work and be patient.
    Again?!?

    Yes, just get the lipo. You obviously aren't willing to do the work and be patient.

  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    My booty is way better now, than before pregnancy. But it has taken SIX YEARS of heavy lifting and patience. You obviously aren't willing to put in that work, based on your continuous posts with no progress.

    Six years is a lot by six years I won’t be young anymore 🥴 But congrats! I’ll see how I do once I have access to a gym again.
  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    Well it was really hard for me because where I live no one really knows a lot about gaining muscle etc. I would post questions here and I would do the work but it didn’t work :( My butt never grew and I’m Apple shape so that makes everything worse. I accepted the fact I’ll never have the shape I want because my hips are narrowed. Surgery is so popular right now it gets me questioning if I want it, something mild of course but still, it sucks not liking your shape at all. Sorry if I was being annoying I just don’t have anyone else to vent to about this.
    harper16 wrote: »
    Just get the surgery and move on. I agree you keep posting this over and over again, but you never seem to want to put in any time or effort to get any results you'd like to see.

  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    harper16 wrote: »
    JanetReyna wrote: »
    Well it was really hard for me because where I live no one really knows a lot about gaining muscle etc. I would post questions here and I would do the work but it didn’t work :( My butt never grew and I’m Apple shape so that makes everything worse. I accepted the fact I’ll never have the shape I want because my hips are narrowed. Surgery is so popular right now it gets me questioning if I want it, something mild of course but still, it sucks not liking your shape at all. Sorry if I was being annoying I just don’t have anyone else to vent to about this.
    harper16 wrote: »
    Just get the surgery and move on. I agree you keep posting this over and over again, but you never seem to want to put in any time or effort to get any results you'd like to see.

    It can take months or years to see the results you are wanting. If they can be accomplished at all. You can't expect to see results in a couple months. That's a drastic change. It's like me getting upset that I haven't lost 50 lbs in 2 months. It's not going to happen that quickly.

    And, in my opinion the girl in the picture doesn't look muscular.

    I don’t like the muscular look, I like the natural fat booty look. But tbh; I don’t know it my goals match the goal weight training gives you. I want it big round and jiggly. Not super hard like a rock, so I don’t even know what to do.
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    But I mean...we got a pic out of the deal. Everyone is happy and got what they needed at the end of the day 💁🏿‍♀️
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    harper16 wrote: »
    JanetReyna wrote: »
    Well it was really hard for me because where I live no one really knows a lot about gaining muscle etc. I would post questions here and I would do the work but it didn’t work :( My butt never grew and I’m Apple shape so that makes everything worse. I accepted the fact I’ll never have the shape I want because my hips are narrowed. Surgery is so popular right now it gets me questioning if I want it, something mild of course but still, it sucks not liking your shape at all. Sorry if I was being annoying I just don’t have anyone else to vent to about this.
    harper16 wrote: »
    Just get the surgery and move on. I agree you keep posting this over and over again, but you never seem to want to put in any time or effort to get any results you'd like to see.

    It can take months or years to see the results you are wanting. If they can be accomplished at all. You can't expect to see results in a couple months. That's a drastic change. It's like me getting upset that I haven't lost 50 lbs in 2 months. It's not going to happen that quickly.

    And, in my opinion the girl in the picture doesn't look muscular.

    I agree with you, @harper16. That isn't a look I'd be chasing.
  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    But I mean...we got a pic out of the deal. Everyone is happy and got what they needed at the end of the day 💁🏿‍♀️

    HUH?
  • harper16
    harper16 Posts: 2,564 Member
    JanetReyna wrote: »
    harper16 wrote: »
    JanetReyna wrote: »
    Well it was really hard for me because where I live no one really knows a lot about gaining muscle etc. I would post questions here and I would do the work but it didn’t work :( My butt never grew and I’m Apple shape so that makes everything worse. I accepted the fact I’ll never have the shape I want because my hips are narrowed. Surgery is so popular right now it gets me questioning if I want it, something mild of course but still, it sucks not liking your shape at all. Sorry if I was being annoying I just don’t have anyone else to vent to about this.
    harper16 wrote: »
    Just get the surgery and move on. I agree you keep posting this over and over again, but you never seem to want to put in any time or effort to get any results you'd like to see.

    It can take months or years to see the results you are wanting. If they can be accomplished at all. You can't expect to see results in a couple months. That's a drastic change. It's like me getting upset that I haven't lost 50 lbs in 2 months. It's not going to happen that quickly.

    And, in my opinion the girl in the picture doesn't look muscular.

    I don’t like the muscular look, I like the natural fat booty look. But tbh; I don’t know it my goals match the goal weight training gives you. I want it big round and jiggly. Not super hard like a rock, so I don’t even know what to do.

    Just like you can't spot reduce where you lose weight. You also can't determine where your fat ends up.
  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    I mean everyone has different goals and likings, I don’t like super muscular butts I prefer more the jiggly look but with not too much cellulite. I’m just wondering if weight training will actually get me to that goal, or a fat transfer.
  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    harper16 wrote: »
    JanetReyna wrote: »
    harper16 wrote: »
    JanetReyna wrote: »
    Well it was really hard for me because where I live no one really knows a lot about gaining muscle etc. I would post questions here and I would do the work but it didn’t work :( My butt never grew and I’m Apple shape so that makes everything worse. I accepted the fact I’ll never have the shape I want because my hips are narrowed. Surgery is so popular right now it gets me questioning if I want it, something mild of course but still, it sucks not liking your shape at all. Sorry if I was being annoying I just don’t have anyone else to vent to about this.
    harper16 wrote: »
    Just get the surgery and move on. I agree you keep posting this over and over again, but you never seem to want to put in any time or effort to get any results you'd like to see.

    It can take months or years to see the results you are wanting. If they can be accomplished at all. You can't expect to see results in a couple months. That's a drastic change. It's like me getting upset that I haven't lost 50 lbs in 2 months. It's not going to happen that quickly.

    And, in my opinion the girl in the picture doesn't look muscular.

    I don’t like the muscular look, I like the natural fat booty look. But tbh; I don’t know it my goals match the goal weight training gives you. I want it big round and jiggly. Not super hard like a rock, so I don’t even know what to do.

    Just like you can't spot reduce where you lose weight. You also can't determine where your fat ends up.

    That’s why I’m saying, fat transfer will get me the big booty so idk if I should weight train or just get fat transfer it’s hard 😞
  • harper16
    harper16 Posts: 2,564 Member
    JanetReyna wrote: »
    harper16 wrote: »
    JanetReyna wrote: »
    harper16 wrote: »
    JanetReyna wrote: »
    Well it was really hard for me because where I live no one really knows a lot about gaining muscle etc. I would post questions here and I would do the work but it didn’t work :( My butt never grew and I’m Apple shape so that makes everything worse. I accepted the fact I’ll never have the shape I want because my hips are narrowed. Surgery is so popular right now it gets me questioning if I want it, something mild of course but still, it sucks not liking your shape at all. Sorry if I was being annoying I just don’t have anyone else to vent to about this.
    harper16 wrote: »
    Just get the surgery and move on. I agree you keep posting this over and over again, but you never seem to want to put in any time or effort to get any results you'd like to see.

    It can take months or years to see the results you are wanting. If they can be accomplished at all. You can't expect to see results in a couple months. That's a drastic change. It's like me getting upset that I haven't lost 50 lbs in 2 months. It's not going to happen that quickly.

    And, in my opinion the girl in the picture doesn't look muscular.

    I don’t like the muscular look, I like the natural fat booty look. But tbh; I don’t know it my goals match the goal weight training gives you. I want it big round and jiggly. Not super hard like a rock, so I don’t even know what to do.

    Just like you can't spot reduce where you lose weight. You also can't determine where your fat ends up.

    That’s why I’m saying, fat transfer will get me the big booty so idk if I should weight train or just get fat transfer it’s hard 😞

    That's really up to you, and the time and money you are willing to spend to see results.
  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    Girl I can do the work the thing is I don’t know it it’ll get me the results I want. Thick phatt booty. Not a hard rock muscular one.
  • brittanystebbins95
    brittanystebbins95 Posts: 567 Member
    "Phatt booty" is genetics.
    And "muscular" booties behave pretty similarly to fat ones when they aren't flexed, only difference is they typically are rounder and less flabby. Not saying non-muscular booties are gonna be flabby in a gross way, but if they're primarily fat...well, that's just how fat is.
    If you're not 100% committed to the work, you absolutely won't get the results you want. And it sounds like you want a quick fix, so no, I don't think working towards a bigger butt will work for you at all. Just based on what everyone else is saying about you getting the same answers and continuously asking.
  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    I know it sucks 😞 but I don’t wanna be unhappy forever with my booty lol
  • JanetReyna
    JanetReyna Posts: 291 Member
    Girl I like working out and lifting weights, the thing is I have friends who have had a BBL and I like the look and it sucks to wait for results that long, I don’t mind waiting the thing is that I don’t know if it’ll actually get me the look I’m striving for.
    "Phatt booty" is genetics.
    And "muscular" booties behave pretty similarly to fat ones when they aren't flexed, only difference is they typically are rounder and less flabby. Not saying non-muscular booties are gonna be flabby in a gross way, but if they're primarily fat...well, that's just how fat is.
    If you're not 100% committed to the work, you absolutely won't get the results you want. And it sounds like you want a quick fix, so no, I don't think working towards a bigger butt will work for you at all. Just based on what everyone else is saying about you getting the same answers and continuously asking.

  • rdulco
    rdulco Posts: 12 Member
    Food for thought... having surgery to change our bodies is a topic that is controversial, like politics or religion... it’s each person’s own choice. I challenge you to research the process, side effects, and personal beliefs. When we adjust our bodies surgically, the fat will appear elsewhere; therefore, one problem you never had before is a problem you have now. It is also something that requires life long maintenance because if you don’t, then the weight gain/loss can ruin the look you were going for in the first place. So, with that said... both takes time and effort and both need to be maintained daily.
  • snowflake954
    snowflake954 Posts: 8,399 Member
    edited May 2020
    OP: try and be happy with what you have. What if the liposuction goes wrong?

    I was formerly a medical negligence solicitor. I specialised in boob jobs gone wrong. I have seen some awful pictures. I’d never run the risk personally.

    THIS is what I think too. Surgery can go very wrong and then you can have problems for life. Is this fixation worth it? Really worth it? Then just do it. However, I have a sneaking hunch that after surgery you won't be happy and will have something new that you want to fix.