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Want Muscle but scared I'll just get Fat

SaucyLife
SaucyLife Posts: 1 Member
edited December 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
I've been watching videos, and obviously eating is always a big part of gaining muscle. One of the videos talked about a TDEE (Total Daily Energy Expenditure). The thing is, I feel like anytime I try bulking while lifting weights, I just get chunky and flabby. I'll admit that most of what I eat is carbs, even when I try to cut them out. Any advice for me?

Here's my specific TDEE: https://tdeecalculator.net/result.php?s=imperial&g=male&age=23&lbs=170&in=74&act=1.55&f=1

Replies

  • threewins
    threewins Posts: 1,455 Member
    If you want to build muscle, you need to eat protein. That's because muscles contain nitrogen. Carbs don't contain nitrogen, protein does.
  • Geneveremfp
    Geneveremfp Posts: 504 Member
    It is a bit inevitable. It's why a lot of people do bulk and cut cycles.
  • sardelsa
    sardelsa Posts: 9,812 Member
    Make sure you are not aiming too high above maintenance, keep it 250-500cals per day or less (0.5-1lb per week gain), make sure you get adequate protein, 0.8-1g per lb bodyweight minimum, also a good amount of carbs actually boosts workout performance and help the muscle building process so don't cut them out when bulking. You will gain some fat but gaining slowly will help keep it minimal.

    See this link for more info on bulking

    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10226536/bulking-for-beginners/p1

    Also make sure you are following a progressive lifting program which is very important.

    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10332083/which-lifting-program-is-the-best-for-you/p1

    Also head over to the gaining section of you have any other questions!


  • heybales
    heybales Posts: 18,842 Member
    Of course that site does NOT know your specific TDEE.
    It's estimating it off your body stats and your selection of activity level.
    You may have guessed wrong - or you are between levels.

    How about using the TDEE and for a month nail accurate logging of what you eat.

    Then above advice about adding on 250.
    See if weight increases over 2 weeks on valid weigh-in days. may have to go a month since 1 lb outside of water weight could be hard to see.

    What many find when starting to bulk is they had a TDEE figure, but the mere act of adding a small amount of calories made their workouts so much better - they burned more and were no longer in a bulk.
    Gotta increase eating goals again.

    It'll take awhile, get used to testing and logging results.
  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,438 MFP Moderator
    What are your current stats? Do you even lift right now? Do you have a current photo.
  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,438 MFP Moderator
    threewins wrote: »
    If you want to build muscle, you need to eat protein. That's because muscles contain nitrogen. Carbs don't contain nitrogen, protein does.

    Carbs are protein sparring and they help with performance through muscle glycogen replenishment and recovery.
  • Theoldguy1
    Theoldguy1 Posts: 2,516 Member
    What's your bodyfat level? Most sources will suggest a male not bulk if over 15% BF.
  • Mellouk89
    Mellouk89 Posts: 469 Member
    edited August 2020
    I'm on the same boat as you, I just got done cutting and started lifting weights very recently. The last thing I want is to put on fat.

    Try a minimal calorie surplus like mentionned above, and weigh yourself frequently in the morning. You don't want to gain weight too quickly.
  • ahoy_m8
    ahoy_m8 Posts: 3,053 Member
    You can always try a recomp (TDEE+0) or very slow bulk (TDEE+50-100 kcal).
  • Dogmom1978
    Dogmom1978 Posts: 1,580 Member
    Again, as mentioned above, you need to increase the protein and decrease the carbs. You don’t have to do anything drastic like cut carbs out, BUT there’s a reason body builders eat more protein than any other macro.

    Also, you need to push yourself during your lifting programs. Track your reps, sets, weight. When one weight gets too easy (day 10-12 reps), increase. Rinse and repeat for many months and you will gain muscle.
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