How would you react if..

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  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    ButterIsGood wrote: »
    Diatonic12 wrote: »
    @ButterIsGood Seems like an eternity but it's only been 7 days. Thinking about you and I remembered this from my dear sweet mother.

    If they like you, you'll know. If they don't you will always be confused. That's it in a nutshell and not the whole bushel. ;) How are you. We gotta know.

    Hey, I'm okay. Just today he unfriended and unfollowed me on all social media. He was posting about " love" and " relationship" on his Snapchat this whole past week. And also posts about how women have bad taste in men.. And how they reject good men and prefer bad men in their lives. All bs. I'm still kinda hurt about the whole situation because I thought he'd at least attempt an apology but that didn't happen. I wanted closure. I wanted to straight up tell him why he's the most shittiest person ever. But I'm sure he'll be back one day. They always come back.

    He didn’t care that you were sick, what makes you think he cares that you think he’s the most horrible person ever, don’t waste your time.

    Ex couples always play those subliminal games on social media, that’s why I said block and delete- although they may not be directed to you, it wouldn’t surprise me if he’s in a new situation already. If he comes back it’s just to see if he’s still got it, it’s an ego thing.. not like he actually cares.

    Glad you’re ok people like that are not worth it.
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    @ButterIsGood
    It's so easy for all of us to tell you these things because we aren't the ones who were emotionally invested in him. :( But, at least, maybe our outside opinions help to support you in some way. I bet many of us have sort of been where you are. I know I have. Feelings weren't reciprocated. And it hurt like he!!. Took awhile to get over it and even some days I don't feel like I'm there yet but in my mind, know it's for the better. Give yourself time and (watch out here comes a cliche)when you least expect it and aren't even looking, someone better will come along.
    He might, in time, realize how wrong he was. But for your own sake, don't let him back into your life. :( My dd's 1st love lasted a couple years, then he broke up with her only to come crawling back 6 months later. We all tried to warn her the best we could because the 1st time destroyed her. Then he did it again. :( She was devastated and I hope he rots in he!!.

    You're worth so much more than that; he doesn't deserve anything else from you.

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