Intimacy Schedule

rheddmobile

Just waiting for the OP to come back and let us know how things are going.

I’m not a morning person either but if it were me I would just learn to get up at 3:30 am and do something useful with the extra time in my day, even if not working out. I can’t sleep through my husband getting up and ready anyway, it’s easier to be on the same schedule. OP has not mentioned what her own schedule is like apart from sex - job? Any particular hours?

Regardless of what she does, I agree that he needs to be told he isn’t entitled to sex whenever he wants it even if it’s wrecking her life. So he’s not a night person by preference, would that still be the case if the other option were doing without?

Diatonic12

@xbowhunter

'Basically just talk to your partner and let him know hands off if I'm sleeping.'

Simple and direct. We need to be treated as humans and not as a B & B. One out of two marriages hit the skids.

mockchoc

Ummm doesn't he have a hand and some lube so he can not disturb her? Otherwise he can ask her to be intimate at a better time of day.