How to be popular?

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  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,035 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    I think posting in the back thread seems to be a great popularity booster!

    Nah...bumped me down a few

    This is false!
  • Danw586
    Danw586 Posts: 237 Member
    Dale Carnegie might know something about this
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    LaneaJ wrote: »
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    I think posting in the back thread seems to be a great popularity booster!

    Nah...bumped me down a few

    No, don't say that! As someone new to MFP (and for the most part at the beginning of her journey) I can tell you that seeing you get in there and flex with the big boys was awesome! You look great, and I hope you keep posting.

    Thanks! ❤ we are all at difference parts of our journey. I am motivated by seeing and reading about everyone's progress.
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    ughh! That was one of the stupidest posts I made in 2020, dont remind me 😅
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    I've only ever been good at being popular for the wrong reasons... 😂😏

    Liar. I’ve seen your motivational progress pics Jesse. 😌

    Awww 🥰🤗
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    I've only ever been good at being popular for the wrong reasons... 😂😏

    Liar. I’ve seen your motivational progress pics Jesse. 😌

    Awww 🥰🤗

    me too. You should consider making another post in the success story thread, J
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    ughh! That was one of the stupidest posts I made in 2020, dont remind me 😅

    Are you referring to my comment. If so. My bad Happi. 🤣

    haha no worries, all good🤗
  • KickassAmazon76
    KickassAmazon76 Posts: 4,678 Member
    I guess it depends on how you define popular? Does it = a lot of friends?

    Well, on a fitness site, one way is to be in great shape, or smash some crazy fitness goals and share on here about it. If your pics show progress and your posts show a half decency about them... Then you'll likely get some friend requests.

    Visibility + decency + sense of humour often = friend requests. Showing the goods doesn't hurt, either. Lol

    What is more important, is whether any of those turn into lasting friendships... That's where consistency comes in.

    But really... Popular isn't as important as quality. If you are lucky to make some good, true friends out of it all... Then that's more than you ever need.

    There are some truly amazing people on here... Look for them.
  • Yoshiboobs
    Yoshiboobs Posts: 1,090 Member
    Well, I guess you start by posting a “woe is me” post ✅
    Then watch the responses pour in ✅

    Idk 🤔 doesn’t work for me
    I think to be popular you just have to actually interact with people
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
    "popular" watz dat?

    (Hides back under a rock)

    *lifts rock* hey you 😄
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    I've only ever been good at being popular for the wrong reasons... 😂😏

    Liar. I’ve seen your motivational progress pics Jesse. 😌

    Awww 🥰🤗

    me too. You should consider making another post in the success story thread, J
    I've only ever been good at being popular for the wrong reasons... 😂😏

    Liar. I’ve seen your motivational progress pics Jesse. 😌

    Awww 🥰🤗

    me too. You should consider making another post in the success story thread, J

    Yesssss

    Thanks you guys 🤗...
    I'll probably do that soon... Been a while since I've posted a genuine transformation photo 😂
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    ...like what’s your real life looking like- I think that’s more important.

    Ut Oh.
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    Well, I guess you start by posting a “woe is me” post ✅
    Then watch the responses pour in ✅

    Aww what a sweet thing to say :neutral:
    I wasn't even posting my comment and bringing this back to life for attention. It was because of others' feelings in regards to replies that they get. The main point was and still is, we all need to be mindful of what we say and how it could be taken because behind the words real people exist.
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,274 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    best way to become popular is to start a new thread called "hi!!!!" and post a selfie in the first comment without anything else.

    then when people start asking why you didn't just post it in the selfie thread, make sure to say "oops I thought I did sorry guys!"

    bonus points if your selfie is a Snapchat screenshot so then everyone knows you have Snapchat 😎

    You sound like you’ve been around awhile😂
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    start a "has anybody taken one of these personality tests???" thread with a link to said personality test.
    works every time.
  • chuckle_bunny
    chuckle_bunny Posts: 496 Member
    Maybe implement some sort of gimmick into all of your posts, like the flag of Equatorial Guinea 🇬🇶
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    Have an animal/pet as your pp...its a good conversation starter
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    Yoshiboobs wrote: »
    Well, I guess you start by posting a “woe is me” post ✅
    Then watch the responses pour in ✅

    Idk 🤔 doesn’t work for me
    I think to be popular you just have to actually interact with people

    Its kinda hard to do that when you're shy 🙈
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    Re:shyness, I'm wondering if people who are shy in their daily lives tend to open up a lot more on forums? Does remaining anonymous help you open up easier?
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,274 Member
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    Re:shyness, I'm wondering if people who are shy in their daily lives tend to open up a lot more on forums? Does remaining anonymous help you open up easier?

    Mfp allows me to be playful and laid back.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    The key is to always take a contrarian viewpoint but send lots of PMs clarifying that you are just playing Devil’s advocate. And send lots of unsolicited nudes. Everybody loves to open a message and find a super closeup of naughty bits. Oh and report anyone who disagrees with you.

    What did I miss?
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    Don't ask me: I'm as awkward and socially inept as they come. Introverts of the world unite!

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    I can't like this enough. :)