The zero effs given thread

Just_Mel_
Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
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When was a time in your life when you realized that you just had no fvcks left to give?
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  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    Right now. Selling/buying a new home and then the subsequent moving is a losing battle.
  • CacoEther
    CacoEther Posts: 2,465 Member
    Just_Mel_ wrote: »
    My guy bestie texted me this morning a pic of an engagement ring. He met his chick 2 months ago and they are already planning on getting married.
    I started a long reply about how dumb they are, then deleted everything and just replied "congrats".
    I guess I just don't care anymore what others do with their life. If it doesn't directly affect me, why waste any energy on the matter?

    Ack

    That’s a tough one
  • tmantwo
    tmantwo Posts: 2,181 Member
    I was trying to think back that far but said eff it.

    So, that long ago.
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    tams_89 {{HUGS}}

    I still give to many effs; should've lived and learned by now but....
  • Miz_Owl
    Miz_Owl Posts: 3,026 Member
    tams_89 wrote: »
    July this year after having a panic attack at a family party. Things managed to esculate into a huge row then my cousin and his gf strangled me 😢 the police came and my Mom took me home. I have struggled since with my mental health and not My Nan, Grandad, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins etc have once asked how I am. Instead have been making everything about them as usual and talking about me behind my back. It's took me this long to come to terms with everything and it hurts that they don't care about my feelings. But now is the time I don't have any f***s left to give. I don't need "family" like that in mine or my kids lives.

    That is horrible .
    :'(
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    tams_89 wrote: »
    July this year after having a panic attack at a family party. Things managed to esculate into a huge row then my cousin and his gf strangled me 😢 the police came and my Mom took me home. I have struggled since with my mental health and not My Nan, Grandad, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins etc have once asked how I am. Instead have been making everything about them as usual and talking about me behind my back. It's took me this long to come to terms with everything and it hurts that they don't care about my feelings. But now is the time I don't have any f***s left to give. I don't need "family" like that in mine or my kids lives.

    That's terrible Tams and my apologies you went through that.. That's a helluva lot to try and let go of, I hope things get easier for you, and I know you're already stronger 💕
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    My phone battery died the other day as I was getting off work yesterday 🤷🏽‍♂️... It was a rare forced opportunity to just be alone with my thoughts, and no other outside influences, just me and my thoughts and I... I guess I just dgaf at the moment... Just watched them to see where they went 🤷🏽‍♂️... I need to do that more often...
  • CacoEther
    CacoEther Posts: 2,465 Member
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    They’re dwindling
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    tams_89 wrote: »
    July this year after having a panic attack at a family party. Things managed to esculate into a huge row then my cousin and his gf strangled me 😢 the police came and my Mom took me home. I have struggled since with my mental health and not My Nan, Grandad, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins etc have once asked how I am. Instead have been making everything about them as usual and talking about me behind my back. It's took me this long to come to terms with everything and it hurts that they don't care about my feelings. But now is the time I don't have any f***s left to give. I don't need "family" like that in mine or my kids lives.

    I'm sorry your family seem to be self-absorbed shitheads, That must be difficult to deal with.

    I've used up most of my effs but still have a few left. I've saved them for the important stuff.
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,035 Member
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »
    I tend to agree with @revolu7 on this and I think all y'all still got F's to give, just like me. Thing is, we've grown selective on when and where we give em.

    Okay, this I'll concede. I no longer waste energy caring about random strangers or what they think about me (most of the time they aren't thinking about me at all, so it works out). I'd much rather spend my few remaining *kitten* on caring about the planet, my immediate family, cats, etc.

    I like this.

    P.s. i know im a just stranger, but i find your last selfie pic sexy as hell 😁
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »
    I tend to agree with @revolu7 on this and I think all y'all still got F's to give, just like me. Thing is, we've grown selective on when and where we give em.

    Okay, this I'll concede. I no longer waste energy caring about random strangers or what they think about me (most of the time they aren't thinking about me at all, so it works out). I'd much rather spend my few remaining *kitten* on caring about the planet, my immediate family, cats, etc.

    I like this.

    P.s. i know im a just stranger, but i find your last selfie pic sexy as hell 😁

    :blush: Aww, thank you.
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »
    I tend to agree with @revolu7 on this and I think all y'all still got F's to give, just like me. Thing is, we've grown selective on when and where we give em.

    I would agree to that.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »
    I tend to agree with @revolu7 on this and I think all y'all still got F's to give, just like me. Thing is, we've grown selective on when and where we give em.

    Okay, this I'll concede. I no longer waste energy caring about random strangers or what they think about me (most of the time they aren't thinking about me at all, so it works out). I'd much rather spend my few remaining *kitten* on caring about the planet, my immediate family, cats, etc.

    which planet ?
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »
    I tend to agree with @revolu7 on this and I think all y'all still got F's to give, just like me. Thing is, we've grown selective on when and where we give em.

    Okay, this I'll concede. I no longer waste energy caring about random strangers or what they think about me (most of the time they aren't thinking about me at all, so it works out). I'd much rather spend my few remaining *kitten* on caring about the planet, my immediate family, cats, etc.

    which planet ?

    The only one I can live on currently.

    I mean, I do have a soft spot for Jupiter and Saturn, but last I looked, I'd die of asphyxiation by trying to live on either, so...

    maybe Europa someday at least
  • Danw586
    Danw586 Posts: 237 Member
    The subtle art...
  • CacoEther
    CacoEther Posts: 2,465 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »
    I tend to agree with @revolu7 on this and I think all y'all still got F's to give, just like me. Thing is, we've grown selective on when and where we give em.

    Okay, this I'll concede. I no longer waste energy caring about random strangers or what they think about me (most of the time they aren't thinking about me at all, so it works out). I'd much rather spend my few remaining *kitten* on caring about the planet, my immediate family, cats, etc.

    which planet ?

    The only one I can live on currently.

    I mean, I do have a soft spot for Jupiter and Saturn, but last I looked, I'd die of asphyxiation by trying to live on either, so...

    maybe Europa someday at least

    Exactly what i was thinking 🤔

    Although Io would be way more exciting
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    CacoEther wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »
    I tend to agree with @revolu7 on this and I think all y'all still got F's to give, just like me. Thing is, we've grown selective on when and where we give em.

    Okay, this I'll concede. I no longer waste energy caring about random strangers or what they think about me (most of the time they aren't thinking about me at all, so it works out). I'd much rather spend my few remaining *kitten* on caring about the planet, my immediate family, cats, etc.

    which planet ?

    The only one I can live on currently.

    I mean, I do have a soft spot for Jupiter and Saturn, but last I looked, I'd die of asphyxiation by trying to live on either, so...

    maybe Europa someday at least

    Exactly what i was thinking 🤔

    Although Io would be way more exciting

    yeah plus the whole

    q89w90agv3e7.jpg

    thing

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