The zero effs given thread

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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    I've been listening to a great courses lecture on the meaning of life and it's changed my perspective on so many different ways...

    I think when people say no *kitten* given, what they really mean is, no attachments or desires for things beyond their control...

    And fundamentally... I don't even believe we can control our own thoughts, let alone much else...

    That's not to say that experiences and influences won't come into your life that may change your perspective from time to time...
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    tams_89 wrote: »
    July this year after having a panic attack at a family party. Things managed to esculate into a huge row then my cousin and his gf strangled me 😢 the police came and my Mom took me home. I have struggled since with my mental health and not My Nan, Grandad, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins etc have once asked how I am. Instead have been making everything about them as usual and talking about me behind my back. It's took me this long to come to terms with everything and it hurts that they don't care about my feelings. But now is the time I don't have any f***s left to give. I don't need "family" like that in mine or my kids lives.

    This gave me shivers

    I wish you peace
    In your mind and heart

    You deserve it

    panic attacks are no joke, and I'm sorry you were treated (and are still being) treated so heartlessly by those who should gaf

    Im feeling all momma bear like right now and wish I could have a (shaming) "chat" with your family

    Take care Tams - you are a bright light ❤

  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    I lke giving a fvck. It makes problems go away quicker, opportunities appear more often, and luck seems to follow those out there giving a fvck. Sure you may take some lumps....so what, life is hard. Meh, is not in my vocabulary. Just my 2 cents.
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    tams_89 wrote: »
    July this year after having a panic attack at a family party. Things managed to esculate into a huge row then my cousin and his gf strangled me 😢 the police came and my Mom took me home. I have struggled since with my mental health and not My Nan, Grandad, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins etc have once asked how I am. Instead have been making everything about them as usual and talking about me behind my back. It's took me this long to come to terms with everything and it hurts that they don't care about my feelings. But now is the time I don't have any f***s left to give. I don't need "family" like that in mine or my kids lives.

    You see, you have fvcks to give. Its just not worth wasting them on those that add nothing but toxicity to your life. You actually got some awesome little ones that could use your strength. You obviously have some.....you made it through that ordeal. File that it in the i give a fvck about me and my kids dept, and feel good about it 👍

    Agreeing. Ive learned when to give my energy into caring. Certain people and life situations definitely call for me giving fcks...
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    However, when it comes to how my work position will turn out in January...done stressing it
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    No f*cks for toxic self serving peoples
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    This ridiculousness with Politics! 🙄

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