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springlering62 wrote: »Reenie, if anyone’s got this, you do.
You were one of my motivating crew when I started, when I was doing a lot of lurking.
Would return the favor tenfold, if I can.
2020 has flat out sucked. I’ve had nine months of “not a problem, I can deal with this”, and one of gloom. I think it’s the insistent politics here in Georgia- ads, mailers, texts, calls, doorhangers, random strangers at the door.
Whatever is weighing your heart down right now, I hope it lifts and you find yourself light as a feather and able to find your way again.
Wow thank you!! I don't recall ever being part of anything remotely motivating.
Sunday's looking better all the time. I'm actually getting sick of Christmas junk food and looking forward to some plain fruits/veggies.
There is always going to be something that stresses us or weighs us down; I just need to come up with totally different stress-busters.8 -
springlering62 wrote: »Reenie, if anyone’s got this, you do.
You were one of my motivating crew when I started, when I was doing a lot of lurking.
Would return the favor tenfold, if I can.
2020 has flat out sucked. I’ve had nine months of “not a problem, I can deal with this”, and one of gloom. I think it’s the insistent politics here in Georgia- ads, mailers, texts, calls, doorhangers, random strangers at the door.
Whatever is weighing your heart down right now, I hope it lifts and you find yourself light as a feather and able to find your way again.
I'm a texter - sowwie!
Here's a tip - do whatever the text says to optout and do not otherwise engage. That should be the last text from that organization. Unfortunately for you, there are multiple orgs. But a handful of STOP2QUIT or whatever they are looking for should put an end to texts. However, doing anything other than opting out will only prolong the agony.
You Georgians are way nicer than Floridians and I often get a lot of "please stop texting me" and lots of other words but just STOP2QUIT and that org should indeed stop2 -
I would like to add good for you for starting again Sunday instead of waiting until January. Even if you are not perfect, just start getting back into some of those habits that worked for you before. Be careful of the "all or nothing" mentality.
But we have all been there. I was so good and hit goal and maintained for about 8 months, and then I went on like a 3 week binge. I've been back on track for about a month and am about 3 pounds above where I want to be (but still in my goal range) and I'm trying to be proud of myself for not letting the slide last longer (which would have happened in the past). But I was really beating myself up for a while, and I told myself I had to be kinder to myself if I was going to get back on track. So be kind to yourself - you can do this!!5 -
Knowing that things “didn’t count” during the holidays wouldn’t be good for me. Consistency is key for me. I do have a few days at maintenance (and a little over) these few weeks as opposed to my usual small deficit for a recomp.
This year has been hard for so many of us. And I think for my area (Southern California), things will get even worse before they get better. 😞
All you can do is what you think is best for you. If starting now would be too much stress, then wait. When I start to beat myself up over eating too much, I do the math—it takes 3500 calories to make a pound (over maintenance). Well, that’s pretty hard for me to do in a day. Even with the pint of Cheesecake Factory ice cream I have in my freezer for tomorrow. 😃
Logging and working out helps maintain what’s left of my sanity. My routines have been a blessing for me with the lack of stability in the rest of the world.5 -
Maybe it sounds like just another excuse but I've never been one to say start and make it immediate. I have to psyche myself for it, such as pick a day, stock the fridge, that sort of thing.
My low weight for 2020 was 132ish(can't remember exactly? )but now I'm looking at losing at least 25#. Yes, it's been a he!!uva year for stress eating. I feel slobbish, slothful, old, unmotivated, lazy, all those depressing negative adjectives. So I'm picking Sunday to start once again with logging calories, working up to an exercise routine I can stick with. By then all the enticing foods will be gone and I can do my grocery shopping on Sunday, like I always do. Restock with healthy stuff. (Ashamed to tell you how many veggies I'm skimping on now)
So....that's where I'm at in this process. It makes me angry that I let it go so much this year but being not able to take it back I can only look forward and make changes.
Wishing all of you strength and good luck getting through the holidays, leaving you with continued and renewed motivation.
i hear ya sweetie. i lost (originally) 130ish pounds. over the past 2 years, and mostly over THIS year, I've gained back 50. things are not looking good. But, I did it before, I can do it again, and so can you ((((hugs))))11 -
callsitlikeiseeit wrote: »Maybe it sounds like just another excuse but I've never been one to say start and make it immediate. I have to psyche myself for it, such as pick a day, stock the fridge, that sort of thing.
My low weight for 2020 was 132ish(can't remember exactly? )but now I'm looking at losing at least 25#. Yes, it's been a he!!uva year for stress eating. I feel slobbish, slothful, old, unmotivated, lazy, all those depressing negative adjectives. So I'm picking Sunday to start once again with logging calories, working up to an exercise routine I can stick with. By then all the enticing foods will be gone and I can do my grocery shopping on Sunday, like I always do. Restock with healthy stuff. (Ashamed to tell you how many veggies I'm skimping on now)
So....that's where I'm at in this process. It makes me angry that I let it go so much this year but being not able to take it back I can only look forward and make changes.
Wishing all of you strength and good luck getting through the holidays, leaving you with continued and renewed motivation.
i hear ya sweetie. i lost (originally) 130ish pounds. over the past 2 years, and mostly over THIS year, I've gained back 50. things are not looking good. But, I did it before, I can do it again, and so can you ((((hugs))))
YOU WILL!! No time like a new year to make it happen. You certainly don't want all that hard work to go to waste. You had the will and mindset before, you will find it again. Good luck!! Best thing for me to get back to it is the logging. It seems like once I get that under my belt for a few days it's easier to stay on track.5 -
I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.3 -
PROCRASTINATION IS THE ASSASSINATION OF MOTIVATION
Basically, this is an out because one isn't motivated enough to do it now. EVERYONE has great intentions at the beginning of the year. How many usually stick to their resolution? About 5%.
Just start now. Even if it's not the best start, the point of just taking on the responsibility now sets you up better for when you're "more serious".
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Given that she said the plan was to start Sunday and it's Sunday, a lecture isn't really needed.
Plus, I actually don't think there's anything wrong with not starting on Christmas or immediately before, that just seems unrealistic, and not "not being motivated enough." (I also think motivation is less the issue than discipline and creating habits and for some of us planning helps with that a lot.)
I started back (mostly with a focus on exercise and logging again) in mid November, but I also knew I was not going to bother having a deficit or logging on Thanksgiving (I know some like to log every day no matter what, but personally I don't tend to eat some crazy number of cals on holidays but do hate having to estimate a bunch of different dishes when I normally make logging easy and fun by actually weighing when I cook, something that I don't do if cooking for a holiday feast, even apart from there being dishes others prepare).7 -
I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.
Your dentist may have already given you a guard but if not, after I lost the one my dentist made for me, I bought this:
https://www.amazon.com/DenTek-Comfort-Fit-Protection-Nightime-Grinding/dp/B002WTCK4Q/3 -
kshama2001 wrote: »I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.
Your dentist may have already given you a guard but if not, after I lost the one my dentist made for me, I bought this:
https://www.amazon.com/DenTek-Comfort-Fit-Protection-Nightime-Grinding/dp/B002WTCK4Q/
Thank you for the recommendation. I am supposed to be picking up the one my dentist fitted me for on Wednesday. Fingers crossed that it fits properly.1 -
kshama2001 wrote: »I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.
Your dentist may have already given you a guard but if not, after I lost the one my dentist made for me, I bought this:
https://www.amazon.com/DenTek-Comfort-Fit-Protection-Nightime-Grinding/dp/B002WTCK4Q/
Oh wow! Thanks for the tip. I started grinding mine due to issues with extended family and family business. I’ve tried everything from sacrocranial massage to hypnosis to stop. I chewed right through the expensive mouthguard, and the kind you had to boil hurt so stinking bad when I tried to size it while hot, as instructed. It felt like I had burnt my brain. This one says “no boil”! Oh sweet relief.
I tell ya, between the weighted blanket, the knee pillows, joint relief creams and mouth guard, preparing for bedtime is a real production. Old age sucks.8 -
springlering62 wrote: »kshama2001 wrote: »I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.
Your dentist may have already given you a guard but if not, after I lost the one my dentist made for me, I bought this:
https://www.amazon.com/DenTek-Comfort-Fit-Protection-Nightime-Grinding/dp/B002WTCK4Q/
Oh wow! Thanks for the tip. I started grinding mine due to issues with extended family and family business. I’ve tried everything from sacrocranial massage to hypnosis to stop. I chewed right through the expensive mouthguard, and the kind you had to boil hurt so stinking bad when I tried to size it while hot, as instructed. It felt like I had burnt my brain. This one says “no boil”! Oh sweet relief.
I tell ya, between the weighted blanket, the knee pillows, joint relief creams and mouth guard, preparing for bedtime is a real production. Old age sucks.
The kind you have to boil tasted SO nasty to me so I was really happy to find these. I got mine at Walmart. It's been almost a year and I haven't chewed through it yet.
I LOVE my weighted blanket, especially this time of year when it's cold.0 -
kshama2001 wrote: »I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.
Your dentist may have already given you a guard but if not, after I lost the one my dentist made for me, I bought this:
https://www.amazon.com/DenTek-Comfort-Fit-Protection-Nightime-Grinding/dp/B002WTCK4Q/
Thank you for the recommendation. I am supposed to be picking up the one my dentist fitted me for on Wednesday. Fingers crossed that it fits properly.
I trimmed the back 1/4" off the one I got from my dentist to make it more comfortable.2 -
springlering62 wrote: »kshama2001 wrote: »I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.
Your dentist may have already given you a guard but if not, after I lost the one my dentist made for me, I bought this:
https://www.amazon.com/DenTek-Comfort-Fit-Protection-Nightime-Grinding/dp/B002WTCK4Q/
Oh wow! Thanks for the tip. I started grinding mine due to issues with extended family and family business. I’ve tried everything from sacrocranial massage to hypnosis to stop. I chewed right through the expensive mouthguard, and the kind you had to boil hurt so stinking bad when I tried to size it while hot, as instructed. It felt like I had burnt my brain. This one says “no boil”! Oh sweet relief.
I tell ya, between the weighted blanket, the knee pillows, joint relief creams and mouth guard, preparing for bedtime is a real production. Old age sucks.
I've got those *and* the CPAP (sleep apnea machine), and have found I do better (despite full mask for the CPAP, i.e. covers mouth and nose, and despite included humidfier and heated tubing) if I put a piece of medical tape on my mouth (vertical, just one strip) so my mouth stays shut & doesn't dry out. In some ways, this stuff feels like being assimilated into the borg, I swear.
Well, all but the weighted blanket . . . and I *do* have the mouthguard. The latest prescription one I got, the dentist makes in her office, and can adjust any parts that don't fit comfortably, and even repair later if it wears, or if I get a new crown (🙄) or something.2 -
I woke up to my cat sitting on my chest and thought “this feels kinda nice” so I had the bright idea of getting a weighted blanket to simulate said cat who can never be relied to lay on one place.
I haven’t had to take painkillers at night since I got the it. I still can’t believe it. I don’t know what I expected, but pain relief wasn’t it. And no tossing and turning.
I had the full CPAP for about a year. Quit using it as the weight came off. Thank heavens. I’d lay awake terrified I’d toss and turn into a knot and be strangled to death.7 -
I made this year a positive for me. For the past few years I've focused on the success of my clients. Well with my gym shut down and no clients, I decided to focus on me. And after 3 months of honey do list at home, the next few I focused on eating less and working out more intense. And since June I have missed a workout and am now down over 40lbs. And looking much leaner like I did in my mid 30's. But again, I'm an optimist in bad times or situations. I look for opportunities where people might think something is bad, and make good out of it somehow. It's why I'm never stressed.
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IDEA Fitness member
Kickboxing Certified Instructor
Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
A picture is worth a thousand words. One look is worth ten thousand words = ancient proverb.
Congratulations on your continued success.3 -
kshama2001 wrote: »kshama2001 wrote: »I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.
Your dentist may have already given you a guard but if not, after I lost the one my dentist made for me, I bought this:
https://www.amazon.com/DenTek-Comfort-Fit-Protection-Nightime-Grinding/dp/B002WTCK4Q/
Thank you for the recommendation. I am supposed to be picking up the one my dentist fitted me for on Wednesday. Fingers crossed that it fits properly.
I trimmed the back 1/4" off the one I got from my dentist to make it more comfortable.
Thank you for this tip. Did you just cut it with scissors or a knife? Or ask the dentist office to trim it for you?0 -
springlering62 wrote: »kshama2001 wrote: »I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.
Your dentist may have already given you a guard but if not, after I lost the one my dentist made for me, I bought this:
https://www.amazon.com/DenTek-Comfort-Fit-Protection-Nightime-Grinding/dp/B002WTCK4Q/
Oh wow! Thanks for the tip. I started grinding mine due to issues with extended family and family business. I’ve tried everything from sacrocranial massage to hypnosis to stop. I chewed right through the expensive mouthguard, and the kind you had to boil hurt so stinking bad when I tried to size it while hot, as instructed. It felt like I had burnt my brain. This one says “no boil”! Oh sweet relief.
I tell ya, between the weighted blanket, the knee pillows, joint relief creams and mouth guard, preparing for bedtime is a real production. Old age sucks.
Yeah, the boil ones hurt too much to bite through bc my mouth is already super sore from all of the clenching, so I made an appointment with my dentist and they custom fit me for one since the over the counter one wasn’t working. I honestly hope it works bc the goop they make you bite into is so disgusting that I need it to be worth it I have put that junk into my mouth.1 -
kshama2001 wrote: »kshama2001 wrote: »I feel you. I did really well for the most part, still lost but these last 2 months I needed a break from counting and logging. That break put me up about 5-6 pounds and I want to get a hold of this before it puts me right back where I started in Dec. 2019.
I also need to get my veggie game back up, I need to stop eating out/eating TV dinners and cooking 99% of my meals again. I canceled my gym membership mid-Summer and I just purchased a spin bike, and I’ll join the peloton app so I can take classes once it’s put together on Tuesday. My exercise has mostly stayed on point, except for when my body and mind made the winter blues transition (thank God, I’ve finally crossed that bridge). So now I have something to do when I don’t have zoom dance classes.
I think 2020 was a beast to most people. I lost my job and started grinding/clenching my teeth in my sleep which has caused some dental issues. Thankfully, I’ve found a new job and I’m slowly working on getting my dental issues under control. I think if you survived 2020, that’s a huge win and something to be proud of.
Your dentist may have already given you a guard but if not, after I lost the one my dentist made for me, I bought this:
https://www.amazon.com/DenTek-Comfort-Fit-Protection-Nightime-Grinding/dp/B002WTCK4Q/
Thank you for the recommendation. I am supposed to be picking up the one my dentist fitted me for on Wednesday. Fingers crossed that it fits properly.
I trimmed the back 1/4" off the one I got from my dentist to make it more comfortable.
Thank you for this tip. Did you just cut it with scissors or a knife? Or ask the dentist office to trim it for you?
I suspect you should ask the dentist's office. There are different materials/types. Even once you get their advice, you can choose to ignore it, if you want to. 😉1
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