Is it normal to believe the person you are in love with is the most attractive person in the world?
cyaneverfat
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Or am I just weird.
I found him more attractive than every celebrity, model or guy on the street I met, by 10 times at least.
I found him more attractive than every celebrity, model or guy on the street I met, by 10 times at least.
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Well yes. If you know them personally it’s not just a skin deep attraction but a connection with them and what makes them, them. It’s real, in other words...not just a fantasy which is a lot of celebrity.3
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I think it’s common with the children we love but idk about romantic love.2
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Yes. I don't find men actually attractive unless I feel a strong mental connection with them. Sure there are actors that are aesthetically pleasing but I find them to be on the same level of attraction as say a nice mountain range or car.3
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Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Perhaps it's your normal. I can't say I've ever experienced such a feeling. If I did, it was fleeting.
I agree with @twitchandshout, my children have only sparked such a constant flame. Never did I believe in love at first sight until my child looked at me for the very first time. They are still the most beautiful creatures on the planet.
Yes, I think I’d say that ideally the partner you choose would be your first choice, but that physical appearance is only a small part of that.
Then again, when I love someone, even a little, I like looking at them.1 -
MadMaxMFP01 wrote: »
That's about equivalent to Steve Buscemi1 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Perhaps it's your normal. I can't say I've ever experienced such a feeling. If I did, it was fleeting.
I agree with @twitchandshout, my children have only sparked such a constant flame. Never did I believe in love at first sight until my child looked at me for the very first time. They are still the most beautiful creatures on the planet.
Yes, I think I’d say that ideally the partner you choose would be your first choice, but that physical appearance is only a small part of that.
Then again, when I love someone, even a little, I like looking at them.
Until they've done something to crush your soul. I've never looked at a man that had done me wrong and thought...."you so fkn smokin hot." 😂
I’ve never had my soul crushed but I can see how that would be true.2 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Perhaps it's your normal. I can't say I've ever experienced such a feeling. If I did, it was fleeting.
I agree with @twitchandshout, my children have only sparked such a constant flame. Never did I believe in love at first sight until my child looked at me for the very first time. They are still the most beautiful creatures on the planet.
Yes, I think I’d say that ideally the partner you choose would be your first choice, but that physical appearance is only a small part of that.
Then again, when I love someone, even a little, I like looking at them.
Until they've done something to crush your soul. I've never looked at a man that had done me wrong and thought...."you so fkn smokin hot." 😂
I’ve never had my soul crushed but I can see how that would be true.
Well...you crush my soul every time you disappear. Let's not do that anymore. 💋
I'm not even sure if guilt even works with you, but its worth a shot. Next is empty threats! 😂
I can’t take the pressure! 😂1 -
Also, I don’t understand “most attractive” the same way I don’t understand favorite book or favorite food. There’s too much beauty of too many kinds to have a favorite.3
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Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Also, I don’t understand “most attractive” the same way I don’t understand favorite book or favorite food. There’s too much beauty of too many kinds to have a favorite.
Have you even heard "Kashmir?"
BTW - I also have a favorite child. 😯😂
Me to each of my children: You’re my favorite. Don’t tell your brothers.
Me to the cat: I love you best. Don’t tell the dog.
Me to the dog: I love you best. Don’t tell the cat.3 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Also, I don’t understand “most attractive” the same way I don’t understand favorite book or favorite food. There’s too much beauty of too many kinds to have a favorite.
Have you even heard "Kashmir?"
BTW - I also have a favorite child. 😯😂
Me to each of my children: You’re my favorite. Don’t tell your brothers.
Me to the cat: I love you best. Don’t tell the dog.
Me to the dog: I love you best. Don’t tell the cat.
You are absolutely correct! She's also my baby.
I'll usually wait til they're in the same room and hug them really tight...while I whisper (out loud) "you're my favorite, but don't tell your sister."
Me to the dog - I'm not really sure how I feel about you right now considering the stunt you pulled this morning don't look at me with those cute puppy dog eyes either cuz I don't even like you atm but you are absolutely my favorite don't tell the bearded drsgon
Btw, My dog did the same thing on my bed yesterday. It was time to wash the bedding anyway, but still1 -
At one time this was 100% true for me. Don't think I'll ever feel that way again.2
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »At one time this was 100% true for me. Don't think I'll ever feel that way again.
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chuckle_bunny wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »At one time this was 100% true for me. Don't think I'll ever feel that way again.
Lol. Not sure how much of this is a joke😜...but I agree to some degree. Its not that I'll never love again...I think I was young, naive, and unaware. Now🤷♀️im not3 -
chuckle_bunny wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »At one time this was 100% true for me. Don't think I'll ever feel that way again.
Sometimes. Sometimes when love has been destroyed there is nothing in this world or any other that can bring it back. It may be possible to love again, but not the same person. Sometimes things are gone for good2 -
Versicolour wrote: »chuckle_bunny wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »At one time this was 100% true for me. Don't think I'll ever feel that way again.
Sometimes. Sometimes when love has been destroyed there is nothing in this world or any other that can bring it back. It may be possible to love again, but not the same person. Sometimes things are gone for good
Yes, to this as well.1 -
Of course. When you look at a celebrity and don't personally know them, you're just looking at features. With the person you're in love with, you've likely learned their personality on a personal level, learned about their character, what their goals are and also they are likely feeling the same about you, unlike a celebrity.
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There's no two ways about it: by spouse is one goofy looking guy- tall and thin with a slightly irregular gait, long skinny arms like a car lot air dancer, and somewhat flattened face like a persian cat except for a nose slightly too big for his other features.
But when we've separated a crowd or even in the grocery store for just a few minutes I turn around and see him again, my eyes dilate, and every other person in the room disappears into a cheesy vaseline-on-a-camera blur, and he's the most handsome man on the planet (and has been for the 35 years my eyes have been dialating for him) :-)14 -
i think its rare, because the person youre with is never the person you imagined being with
also when i open instagram, theres way more attractive people than the one i love0
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