perky boobs with weight loss

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  • cerolo1405
    cerolo1405 Posts: 17 Member
    IMHO the most you can do is wear nice supportive bras, care for your skin and work on your posture which can make a world of difference not just for your chest but for your entire body, it certainly has for me. Best of luck to you! :)

    I have to wear a back brace on and off as my spines curved thanks to posture (my boobs appeared at 7 years old, I learnt to slump forward to disguise them)
    When I have the brace on, girl where did those boobs pop out from 😂

    Honestly I’m so dumb, don’t even know what a back brace is lol
  • coffee_n_weights
    coffee_n_weights Posts: 115 Member
    Often, when boobs increase, they stretch out. When they decrease, they rarely return back to shape.

    One of the hardest things for me to come to terms with was having great boobs, then having babies. They got huge (for me) during nursing, and when that was done... Looked (to me) like deflated water balloons.

    But you know... As much as I have had a mostly hate relationship with my boobs.. NOT ONE MAN who has gotten to play with them has ever complained. The problem is in MY head.

    It's hard to come to terms with change, and as a young adult, this can be even harder to cope with... But change happens. As we age, things sag more, and stretch, and wrinkle. It's life and wisdom and years added to our skin suits. We can work out and do lifts, exercises, sit up straight, pick a nice bra... All things to help us feel better... But in the end.. There are just some things we cannot control.

    It is my hope that you (and I) will see our sexiness and appeal as more than needing a perfect body. Our appeal comes from within... And like I said earlier... They rarely complain once the fun begins. Haha

    This. Is. Awesome. - and so spot on.🙌
  • cerolo1405
    cerolo1405 Posts: 17 Member
    Often, when boobs increase, they stretch out. When they decrease, they rarely return back to shape.

    One of the hardest things for me to come to terms with was having great boobs, then having babies. They got huge (for me) during nursing, and when that was done... Looked (to me) like deflated water balloons.

    But you know... As much as I have had a mostly hate relationship with my boobs.. NOT ONE MAN who has gotten to play with them has ever complained. The problem is in MY head.

    It's hard to come to terms with change, and as a young adult, this can be even harder to cope with... But change happens. As we age, things sag more, and stretch, and wrinkle. It's life and wisdom and years added to our skin suits. We can work out and do lifts, exercises, sit up straight, pick a nice bra... All things to help us feel better... But in the end.. There are just some things we cannot control.

    It is my hope that you (and I) will see our sexiness and appeal as more than needing a perfect body. Our appeal comes from within... And like I said earlier... They rarely complain once the fun begins. Haha

    This. Is. Awesome. - and so spot on.🙌

    I agree ❤️

  • cerolo1405
    cerolo1405 Posts: 17 Member
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    IMHO the most you can do is wear nice supportive bras, care for your skin and work on your posture which can make a world of difference not just for your chest but for your entire body, it certainly has for me. Best of luck to you! :)

    I have to wear a back brace on and off as my spines curved thanks to posture (my boobs appeared at 7 years old, I learnt to slump forward to disguise them)
    When I have the brace on, girl where did those boobs pop out from 😂

    Honestly I’m so dumb, don’t even know what a back brace is lol

    I've you've never needed one it's understandable you wouldn't know what it is

    Mine is rigid over my back with a wide strap that comes round the front from under bust down to my stomach with additional straps to move my shoulders back to a better position

    I also have braces for my feet as my joints are lax
    My daughter grew up wearing leg braces to bring her feet and ankles into the right position
    Hypermobility syndrome runs in my family so keeping good posture is so important



    Ahh that makes sense!! Thanks for clearing up hahah
  • cerolo1405
    cerolo1405 Posts: 17 Member
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    IMHO the most you can do is wear nice supportive bras, care for your skin and work on your posture which can make a world of difference not just for your chest but for your entire body, it certainly has for me. Best of luck to you! :)

    I have to wear a back brace on and off as my spines curved thanks to posture (my boobs appeared at 7 years old, I learnt to slump forward to disguise them)
    When I have the brace on, girl where did those boobs pop out from 😂

    Honestly I’m so dumb, don’t even know what a back brace is lol

    I've you've never needed one it's understandable you wouldn't know what it is

    Mine is rigid over my back with a wide strap that comes round the front from under bust down to my stomach with additional straps to move my shoulders back to a better position

    I also have braces for my feet as my joints are lax
    My daughter grew up wearing leg braces to bring her feet and ankles into the right position
    Hypermobility syndrome runs in my family so keeping good posture is so important



    Ahh that makes sense!! Thanks for clearing up hahah

  • ExistingFish
    ExistingFish Posts: 1,259 Member
    What makes the biggest impact is pregnancy (regardless of whether you breastfeed or not) and genetics.

    I unfortunately never had perky breasts, even as a teen. Genetics. 3 pregnancies, breastfeeding (which does change your nipples)...well let's just say they are at the other end of the spectrum than perky.

    I was up to a 32N, now I am a 30DD/32D.
  • cerolo1405
    cerolo1405 Posts: 17 Member
    What makes the biggest impact is pregnancy (regardless of whether you breastfeed or not) and genetics.

    I unfortunately never had perky breasts, even as a teen. Genetics. 3 pregnancies, breastfeeding (which does change your nipples)...well let's just say they are at the other end of the spectrum than perky.

    I was up to a 32N, now I am a 30DD/32D.

    I hope you’re okay and doing good and the most important thing is that you have given both to babies
  • ExistingFish
    ExistingFish Posts: 1,259 Member
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    What makes the biggest impact is pregnancy (regardless of whether you breastfeed or not) and genetics.

    I unfortunately never had perky breasts, even as a teen. Genetics. 3 pregnancies, breastfeeding (which does change your nipples)...well let's just say they are at the other end of the spectrum than perky.

    I was up to a 32N, now I am a 30DD/32D.

    I hope you’re okay and doing good and the most important thing is that you have given both to babies

    Thanks - I'm doing fantastic! I was obese when I had N-cups, they were BIG and heavy. I was able to carry all my children, and breastfed them all - it's good for both their health and mine. Now I've lost weight and I'm maintaining a healthy weight and an active lifestyle. I know that without surgery I'll never have perky boobs, but that is what they make bras for! Not that many people have perky bras without a support garment...
  • cerolo1405
    cerolo1405 Posts: 17 Member
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    What makes the biggest impact is pregnancy (regardless of whether you breastfeed or not) and genetics.

    I unfortunately never had perky breasts, even as a teen. Genetics. 3 pregnancies, breastfeeding (which does change your nipples)...well let's just say they are at the other end of the spectrum than perky.

    I was up to a 32N, now I am a 30DD/32D.

    I hope you’re okay and doing good and the most important thing is that you have given both to babies

    Thanks - I'm doing fantastic! I was obese when I had N-cups, they were BIG and heavy. I was able to carry all my children, and breastfed them all - it's good for both their health and mine. Now I've lost weight and I'm maintaining a healthy weight and an active lifestyle. I know that without surgery I'll never have perky boobs, but that is what they make bras for! Not that many people have perky bras without a support garment...


    I think you’re definitely right about that! It’s a weird beauty standard anyways
  • cerolo1405
    cerolo1405 Posts: 17 Member
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    What makes the biggest impact is pregnancy (regardless of whether you breastfeed or not) and genetics.

    I unfortunately never had perky breasts, even as a teen. Genetics. 3 pregnancies, breastfeeding (which does change your nipples)...well let's just say they are at the other end of the spectrum than perky.

    I was up to a 32N, now I am a 30DD/32D.

    I hope you’re okay and doing good and the most important thing is that you have given both to babies

    Thanks - I'm doing fantastic! I was obese when I had N-cups, they were BIG and heavy. I was able to carry all my children, and breastfed them all - it's good for both their health and mine. Now I've lost weight and I'm maintaining a healthy weight and an active lifestyle. I know that without surgery I'll never have perky boobs, but that is what they make bras for! Not that many people have perky bras without a support garment...


    I think you’re definitely right about that! It’s a weird beauty standard anyways
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    What makes the biggest impact is pregnancy (regardless of whether you breastfeed or not) and genetics.

    I unfortunately never had perky breasts, even as a teen. Genetics. 3 pregnancies, breastfeeding (which does change your nipples)...well let's just say they are at the other end of the spectrum than perky.

    I was up to a 32N, now I am a 30DD/32D.

    I hope you’re okay and doing good and the most important thing is that you have given both to babies

    Thanks - I'm doing fantastic! I was obese when I had N-cups, they were BIG and heavy. I was able to carry all my children, and breastfed them all - it's good for both their health and mine. Now I've lost weight and I'm maintaining a healthy weight and an active lifestyle. I know that without surgery I'll never have perky boobs, but that is what they make bras for! Not that many people have perky bras without a support garment...


    I think you’re definitely right about that! It’s a weird beauty standard anyways
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    cerolo1405 wrote: »
    What makes the biggest impact is pregnancy (regardless of whether you breastfeed or not) and genetics.

    I unfortunately never had perky breasts, even as a teen. Genetics. 3 pregnancies, breastfeeding (which does change your nipples)...well let's just say they are at the other end of the spectrum than perky.

    I was up to a 32N, now I am a 30DD/32D.

    I hope you’re okay and doing good and the most important thing is that you have given both to babies

    Thanks - I'm doing fantastic! I was obese when I had N-cups, they were BIG and heavy. I was able to carry all my children, and breastfed them all - it's good for both their health and mine. Now I've lost weight and I'm maintaining a healthy weight and an active lifestyle. I know that without surgery I'll never have perky boobs, but that is what they make bras for! Not that many people have perky bras without a support garment...


    I think you’re definitely right about that! It’s a weird beauty standard anyways