Would you marry me?
fitom80
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Aren't you already married!?3
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Not unless I got to know you. Who you are inside is what's important. You look great on the outside, by the way.
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Well, if you’re posing questions like that on an open forum with a shirtless photo, I’d certainly consider divorcing you.
You asked. I answered. 🤷🏻♀️😂12 -
Can you guarantee that you'll go out of your way to make me feel beautiful, loved, and respected when I'm 80 and sort of ugly, you're completely sick of me, and you've discovered all of my flaws? Yes? Okay, I'm paying for your plane ticket, haha!!!!4
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... I've got strict criteria...... maybe
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Can you guarantee that you'll go out of your way to make me feel beautiful, loved, and respected when I'm 80 and sort of ugly, you're completely sick of me, and you've discovered all of my flaws? Yes? Okay, I'm paying for your plane ticket, haha!!!!
For sure although i use dark humor to express some important things sometimes. There will be lot of hanging things on both bodies so lot of space for joking 😅
Ok, i can break pig money box dont bother with the ticket.2 -
springlering62 wrote: »You asked. I answered. 🤷🏻♀️😂
Like that answer 😉but would try to arguee that this kind of photo reminds you to stay in such shape/condition/fit/healthy as long as possible no matter what life struggles you face.. otherwise that foto would be a lie. So this is a kind of self motivation.😅 Its similar to exposure of your perfect fit photo 👌 maybe i had all my t shirts in washmashine, cannot remeber 😂😂😂2 -
tpacheco311 wrote: »Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... I've got strict criteria...... maybe
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tpacheco311 wrote: »Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... I've got strict criteria...... maybe
What they are?
How much time so you have?? Time to read a short novel?????
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There are hidden mysteries in every person. Every marriage is kind of risk. Sometimes you won perfect partner but most often dont. But if you even dont try it...carolbrach wrote: »Not unless I got to know you. .
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tpacheco311 wrote: »tpacheco311 wrote: »Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... I've got strict criteria...... maybe
What they are?
How much time so you have?? Time to read a short novel?????
At least one hour a day. I can use reader and listen during my workout 😅 so you can start, maybe it will bacame bestseller (UA! what about sponsorship?)0 -
springlering62 wrote: »You asked. I answered. 🤷🏻♀️😂
Like that answer 😉but would try to arguee that this kind of photo reminds you to stay in such shape/condition/fit/healthy as long as possible no matter what life struggles you face.. otherwise that foto would be a lie. So this is a kind of self motivation.😅 Its similar to exposure of your perfect fit photo 👌 maybe i had all my t shirts in washmashine, cannot remeber 😂😂😂
Well I might consider hugging you for calling my photo “perfect fit”. Considering that the starting photo thirty one months ago…….well, we’ll be kind and say it was not so perfect fit. That’s why I’m here. That’s why we’re all here.
Or is that an existential question and beyond the scope of MFP?
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Sure I would. But maybe I should mention—I’m old enuf to be your Grammy and you can’t bench press me! Still interested?2
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corinasue1143 wrote: »Sure I would. But maybe I should mention—I’m old enuf to be your Grammy and you can’t bench press me! Still interested?
Maybe you would be the more vital half and maybe you would lift me too in some situations like when i forgot to put down toiled seat once again. And I was asking 😂0 -
springlering62 wrote: »Well I might consider hugging you for calling my photo “perfect fit”. Considering that the starting photo thirty one months ago…….well, we’ll be kind and say it was not so perfect fit. That’s why I’m here. That’s why we’re all here.
Or is that an existential question and beyond the scope of MFP?
Maybe you could do it bcs. It doesn't hurt 😉 ok, happy to hear that and i see you are proud of your progress and to be honest I am in opposite situation maybe 4-5% more of body fat i consider to temporarely update the photo as you could 👍😉
No problem Plato, Socrates, Kant, Mill, Hume, Wittgenstein.. It fits into my profile 😂😂😂
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If I was single....yes....just go to the courthouse and get it done!! Then I'll ask what my new last name is hahahah1
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Be_theBest_Me wrote: »If I was single....yes....just go to the courthouse and get it done!! Then I'll ask what my new last name is hahahah
You could choose... I'm liberal in such things 😉0 -
& how will you guarantee it, haha? It is sexy that you'd insist on breaking the bank for your ticket here. Can you imagine marrying someone you've never met, though, or an arranged marriage? After I divorced, one of my uncles by marriage offered to set me up with a nice husband from his country. I politely declined!
Can you guarantee that you'll go out of your way to make me feel beautiful, loved, and respected when I'm 80 and sort of ugly, you're completely sick of me, and you've discovered all of my flaws? Yes? Okay, I'm paying for your plane ticket, haha!!!!
For sure although i use dark humor to express some important things sometimes. There will be lot of hanging things on both bodies so lot of space for joking 😅
Ok, i can break pig money box dont bother with the ticket.
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& how will you guarantee it, haha? It is sexy that you'd insist on breaking the bank for your ticket here. Can you imagine marrying someone you've never met, though, or an arranged marriage? After I divorced, one of my uncles by marriage offered to set me up with a nice husband from his country. I politely declined!Can you guarantee that you'll go out of your way to make me feel beautiful, loved, and respected when I'm 80 and sort of ugly, you're completely sick of me, and you've discovered all of my flaws? Yes? Okay, I'm paying for your plane ticket, haha!!!!
For sure although i use dark humor to express some important things sometimes. There will be lot of hanging things on both bodies so lot of space for joking 😅
Ok, i can break pig money box dont bother with the ticket.
Have you seen Married At First Sight? I watched the first three episodes and had to stop. I ached for everyone involved.
I will never forget customers coming in, and telling us how lonely they were. Me and a coworker half decided we should have set up a sideline in matchmaking. Don’t know why so many people felt so compelled to tell us these things. Theres a lot of lonely people and I sincerely wish there were a way to put them together without all the shallow “swipe” stuff.
Sorry to hijack @fitom80 ’s thread.
That’s something that’s always bothered me.2 -
For sure i can garantee you there will be hanging things, one can find studies in science direct 😂 I can imagine it lot of ppl is risking whole sallary in lotteries so why not to bet whole life 😅& how will you guarantee it, haha? It is sexy that you'd insist on breaking the bank for your ticket here. Can you imagine marrying someone you've never met, though, or an arranged marriage? After I divorced, one of my uncles by marriage offered to set me up with a nice husband from his country. I politely declined!
Yes yes anytime when close relatives were trying to mediate a perfect woman for me I had to ask why they all take me for a charitable person also in this way 😂
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springlering62 wrote: »Have you seen Married At First Sight? I watched the first three episodes and had to stop. I ached for everyone involved.
I will never forget customers coming in, and telling us how lonely they were. Me and a coworker half decided we should have set up a sideline in matchmaking. Don’t know why so many people felt so compelled to tell us these things. Theres a lot of lonely people and I sincerely wish there were a way to put them together without all the shallow “swipe” stuff.
Sorry to hijack @fitom80 ’s thread.
That’s something that’s always bothered me.
Such reality shows are shame. They cheaply attack feelings of ppl by choosing "right" partipants, they have no problem to choose people with clear mental problems, they involve kind of actors or exhibitionist, they manipulate partipants during whole
recording e. g. to create conflicts. This is a criminal act but some ppl are watching and applauding.
Feel free to hijack it. 😉 Btw Impressive new photo. My admiration for you.
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@springlering62 No, I haven't seen that show, but I'll check it out! I do agree about the reality shows being shameful, though. I've only watched the show Wifeswap that came out a long time ago where the wives would go to another family with completely different lifestyle from their own. I thought it was interesting, but it's hard to tell what is real and what is fictional in those. And I do think it is criminal to involve children in the shows. Hopefully, the adults should be smart enough to know what they're getting into!
I don't think loneliness has anything to do with whether a person is married or not. I think a person prone to loneliness will be that way regardless. Just my opinion!!!:)springlering62 wrote: »Have you seen Married At First Sight? I watched the first three episodes and had to stop. I ached for everyone involved.
I will never forget customers coming in, and telling us how lonely they were. Me and a coworker half decided we should have set up a sideline in matchmaking. Don’t know why so many people felt so compelled to tell us these things. Theres a lot of lonely people and I sincerely wish there were a way to put them together without all the shallow “swipe” stuff.
Sorry to hijack @fitom80 ’s thread.
That’s something that’s always bothered me.
Such reality shows are shame. They cheaply attack feelings of ppl by choosing "right" partipants, they have no problem to choose people with clear mental problems, they involve kind of actors or exhibitionist, they manipulate partipants during whole
recording e. g. to create conflicts. This is a criminal act but some ppl are watching and applauding.
Feel free to hijack it. 😉 Btw Impressive new photo. My admiration for you.1 -
@springlering62 No, I haven't seen that show, but I'll check it out! I do agree about the reality shows being shameful, though. I've only watched the show Wifeswap that came out a long time ago where the wives would go to another family with completely different lifestyle from their own. I thought it was interesting, but it's hard to tell what is real and what is fictional in those. And I do think it is criminal to involve children in the shows. Hopefully, the adults should be smart enough to know what they're getting into!
I don't think loneliness has anything to do with whether a person is married or not.
Just laughing. We miss lot of inventions in my small EU country you have in US but we have local version of every stupid reality show 😅 yes this one opens easy way to create conflicts, jealousy, desire, fear of loosing partner... And yes children involved is biggest shame.. this is one of the most cynical reality shows
Absolutely true (but there are some people who found meaning of life in partnership or closest family, avoid wider social contact. They may live happy life but when they get lonely from whatever reason(e.g. tragedy) they usually need help...)I think a person prone to loneliness will be that way regardless. Just my opinion!!!:)
And as I see, no one would marry me, I will have to marry phylosophy 😁
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No, because I don't know you. And to be honest, I'm not into guys with a six-pack. Nothing personal. I prefer a little bit of cuddliness and a guy who doesn't spend too much time thinking about food and working out.3
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No, because I don't know you. And to be honest, I'm not into guys with a six-pack. Nothing personal. I prefer a little bit of cuddliness and a guy who doesn't spend too much time thinking about food and working out.
TY. I dont take it personal. To be honest this is common sight of lot of my (lady) friends. The truth is that I'm happy when I have 1 hr/day to think about 6 pack, built gym at home to save time.(you would hate more my job than gym) And my "diet" is nothing limiting, I dont count cals, I have no problem to eat in restaurants and I cook (not the best cook but trying as much healthy but sometimes there is time only for half junk 😅meals). OK on the other hand when I discussed deeper this topic with same group of (lady) friends i found its maybe more about fear that such 6 pacs partner will require something similar from them(perfect body) or that he would sooner or later search for such new partner or there is just fear he is too attractive for other women...
Are you sure you are not a victim of wrong prejudice? 🙂2 -
OK on the other hand when I discussed deeper this topic with same group of (lady) friends i found its maybe more about fear that such 6 pacs partner will require something similar from them(perfect body) or that he would sooner or later search for such new partner or there is just fear he is too attractive for other women...
Are you sure you are not a victim of wrong prejudice? 🙂
This is a genuinely interesting question.
I’ve rejected several friend requests from 6pack profiles because they make me uncomfortable. Nor do I want my husband to have any reason to think I’m corresponding with buff guys.
However, you very rightly called me out for showing a similar profile myself. I never thought about it like that.
My profile pics are pride about where I’ve come from and where I am now.
I guess I should give menfolk the same grace I give myself.
But still, it makes me uncomfortable. And I totally understand where your lady friends are coming from. In my “female” head, self preservation tells me to beware of any dude who looks better than I do, for fear they’re always shopping.
(Not to slam Mr Springlering, who is a fine specimen of @yirara ’s ideal male.)
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That is a bit presumptuous. Sure, a lot of men who work out would like women who are fit. I've known more really fit men to have curvy wives, though, so that must not always be true. Plus, having a 6pack isn't a trait that's permanent to someone's appearance so I think it would be silly to write someone off just for exercising a lot!!! That's funny ,too, about avoiding sexy guy friends. Do you think he'll be less jealous about the less good looking ones, haha! I know from experience that's probably not true:D1
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