Kids or no kids

goldenxbeauty

I made it clear that I didn't want any. He married me anyway and then pressured me for kids.

I had one and it was the kiss of death for us. Our marriage should have ended well before that but that was the final straw.


My now fiance wants one with me. I've been clear with not wanting more, even aborting when we had an unplanned pregnancy. It hurts him that we won't have one and heard older so he feels his "window" is almost up. Hes an adult though. I warned him I didnt want anymore. He chose to stay. As an adult he gets to make that choice for himself. If he cant live with it down the road, I guess he'll have to come to terms with it.