WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2024

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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
    exermom wrote: »
    M – when we were looking for a house Vince made a spread sheet of things that we must have, things that we would like to have, and things that there is no way we’d want

    That's the easy part!

    It's also easy to find a house with the things we want.

    And it's easy to find a house with the things we want that is reasonably within our budget.

    Getting the house, however, is the problem.


    exermom wrote: »
    Oh, got an email from bryan. He's going to France for a month so that Leo can meet some of his relatives, especially the older ones. He said we could go to France. that would be nice, but France is a big country. Where? Where would we stay? How would we get around (neither of us drives a stick). No, he really doesn't want us. Maybe SOMEDAY he'll come to the US, but I'm not holding my breath.

    Michele now in FL soon to be back in NC

    Jump on the opportunity!

    Ask him where.
    Ask him when.

    France is full of accommodations of various sorts.

    France is easy to get around. My husband and I have spent some time in France and have never had to get a car. We've gotten around by train and bicycle.


    Have you been to France? We love it there!


    Machka in Oz



  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
    auntiebk wrote: »
    Machka I get mad whenever you tell us about the back-to-work person. Please tell me she’s totally out of your lives now? Lord have mercy on her other “clielnts”.
    Barbara

    Oh yes, she went to Darwin! But we're completely out of that system now, which is wonderful. We're on our own!


    M in Oz

  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
    I have two cruises this year. One at the end of April/May and one in October. My thought is to get the op at the beginning of June, if I went privately. We have committed to looking after the kids for a couple of nights at the very beginning of June while the parents go cycling in France.
    I could cancel this next cruise, get my money back on medical grounds and book a private op as soon as possible. Or, I could go on the next cruise, but treat myself as a 90 Yr old, of which there are plenty on the ship. There are many walker assisted people and even wheelchair passengers. I would have to tell Saga what degree of assistance I needed. The excursions are graded according to your fitness. I would be sad not to go round the museum, but I could probably book a wheelchair.
    I will make all these decisions when I have test results. My preference is to get it over with, but the cortisone injections might see me through the cruise. My friend L, who had both hips replaced, was surviving on Tramadol! :#
    I would really like a diagnosis, so I know which way to go. There is no perfect decision.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx grateful for all your care and concern.

    My advice (FWIW) is ... get a diagnosis first before you start planning or changing plans.

    If it could be a torn labrum like I had, it might just mean a few weeks of rest.

    But you don't know yet.

    Have a chat with your doctor about what you've mentioned here. Ask for an X ray and MRI. Find out.

    Also on here, you've not described what you are experiencing well. You may have chosen to do that deliberately and that's fine. But for your doctor be sure you are describing what you are experiencing well.
    On a scale of 1 to 10, what would you rate the pain?
    Is the pain sharp like a knife stab or aching like when you've done too much exercise and the next day you feel sore?
    Does it feel like it is in the muscle or deeper?
    Can you trace the outline of where the pain is or a line of where it starts and ends?
    Does a particular activity trigger the pain?
    Does the pain go away if you sit or lie down?
    Go through and describe everything you can about the pain to the doctor.
    Sometimes it helps to write it down.

    If nothing shows up in the blood flow tests, the X-ray or the MRI, ask to be referred to a good physiotherapist who specialises in lower limbs and/or a sports doctor.

    They can run you through a number of movement tests to help narrow it down.


    M in Oz

    Just wanted to add, or ask ... when did you have that fall where you broke your wrist?

    Did the leg pain start up after that?

    If so, maybe it is a labrum tear caused by a traumatic incident.

    https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/17756-hip-labral-tear

    M in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
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  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,258 Member
    edited March 4
    I had success with my second yogurt making attempt. I read a few methods and combined them.

    I made it in a small crock pot so I only used 2 cups of whole milk...
    and a quarter cup of starter yogurt (plain good quality)
    I used a digital cooking thermometer. I also needed a large pot to heat water...

    I put milk into a small crock pot covered and put on high with temp probe in milk. I did put some hot pads on top of the cover and wrapped crock pot with old towels. When temp reached 180 degrees (it took about an hour and a half) I turned it off removed towels and hot pads and took the quarter cup of yogurt out so it could get to room temp.

    Then I let it cool to 110 degrees... When it was getting close to 110 degrees I started to heat the water on the stove. (Again took about an hour and a half because it was a small batch)

    At 110 I stirred in the room temp starter yogurt. When the water was close to boiling I place the crock pot sleeve into the pot so water was at the level of the yogurt mix. I then covered the mix and put the hot pads back on the top and then covered the pot with its cover. Next I took old towels and completely wrapped the pot with its contents and let it sit on the counter. It was supposed to sit for 10 hours but because I started too late ( in future I need to start at 7-9 in the morning) I only let it sit 8. Still it turned out.

    I had to put it into the pot and wrap it like I did because I keep my home at 67 degrees.

    I will definitely make it again. It made just the right amount for me.

    I think the temp probe and keep the mix warmer was the difference this time!

    I am storing it in glass.
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,264 Member
    kevrit wrote: »
    THANK YOU ALL FOR THE BIRTHDAY WISHES!

    When I had a bad bout with plantar fasciitis, my doc did 2 things: gave me a boot to wear to bed which caused major cramps at night, but helped. And second, get a 16 oz water bottle and freeze it. Then, whenever you think of it, roll it under for foot for 16 minutes or so. It was slow healing, AND I had it in both feet, but it eventually went away. The ice bottle really helped make it feel better.

    I will spare you the menu I had yesterday but suffice it to say, I took advantage of my no calorie counting! LOL no desert, but ate enough of the main mail to take care of any room for desert!! 😈

    Doctors 4 out of 5 days this week. Today is Renal doc. It should be a good one as I improved all the numbers by being conscious of what I eat! (Except yesterday!!). Tomorrow, therapist, Wednesday primary care with DH and Friday a video appointment with someone from the insurance to do everything the others did all over again!! I tried to tell them how I’m seeing all the other docs on a regular basis, but they insisted that they would do something they don’t?? Can’t imagine what that would be over the Internet?? I was curious, so agreed. I’ll keep you posted on what was so special about that one! LOL.

    RVRita in Roswell, NM

    Oops, happy bday
  • pipcd34
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  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,604 Member
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  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,709 Member
    The cleaner has been. Hooray for having a cleaner! She has put her prices up, but it's still worth it, once every two weeks.
    Tonight's dinner is broccoli and feta frittata. :D

    When we were discussing next year's possible cruise, I dropped into the conversation that we might have to cancel this year's cruises. John seems to have grasped that reality. He has paid for the entire April cruise. We are sharing the cost of the October one. Only paid the deposit so far.

    My friend G has just got a physio appointment for her foot after being referred nearly a year ago. :p

    My cleaner's 80 Yr old mother had a hip replacement recently, and is fully recovered. Only one side, mine is both. She had to pay privately as the waiting lists were too long and the pain too great. Our waiting lists are a scandal. 7 million waiting for a referral appointment. Junior doctors often on strike. I support the strikes, for pay and conditions, but it makes the waiting lists even longer.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,200 Member
    edited March 4
    :) oops

    :) Happy Birthday, Rita

    :) Happy Birthday, Barbara
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,891 Member
    Heather - I'm sorry that it's being so stinkin' frustrating. I feel awfully lucky that, while all this is driving me a little doolally, I'm not under time pressures.

    Lanette - I'm listening to your video on the TV while I'm writing this. Interesting stuff, especially the information on long-term decisions. I also think there's an interesting conflation of alone and loneliness that I just don't feel. I always find it interesting, but have to reach to be able to understand it. Enjoying their conversation - maybe it's time you and I start a podcast?

    Did finally do my yoga (yay!) and my other chores... time to get laundry folded while I listen to the rest.

    Later,
    Love,
    Lisa

  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,604 Member
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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
    The cleaner has been. Hooray for having a cleaner! She has put her prices up, but it's still worth it, once every two weeks.
    Tonight's dinner is broccoli and feta frittata. :D

    When we were discussing next year's possible cruise, I dropped into the conversation that we might have to cancel this year's cruises. John seems to have grasped that reality. He has paid for the entire April cruise. We are sharing the cost of the October one. Only paid the deposit so far.

    My friend G has just got a physio appointment for her foot after being referred nearly a year ago. :p

    My cleaner's 80 Yr old mother had a hip replacement recently, and is fully recovered. Only one side, mine is both. She had to pay privately as the waiting lists were too long and the pain too great. Our waiting lists are a scandal. 7 million waiting for a referral appointment. Junior doctors often on strike. I support the strikes, for pay and conditions, but it makes the waiting lists even longer.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx

    But you don't know whether you need hip replacements yet. You haven't even had an X ray yet.

    Don't borrow trouble.

    M in Oz
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,094 Member
    Sheesh
    What a day... went to the eye dr..got there at 10:30 and left at 12 :30
    Boy i got ,all sorts of drops and eyeball pictures and all sorts of stuff.I have dry eye..and starting of cateracts both age related ( swell) my left eye turns when it gets tired so I have to do pencil exercises.
    And i go see my GP Thursday.. yes its Dr week for me too.