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itchmyTwitch wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Also I learned honesty IS the best policy
In relationships - it absolutely is - at work maybe not so much
Cool cool
Does this dress make me look fat?
Ahhh.....this is the epitome of how not to lie because of how the question is framed and not hurt feelings. If a person is trim, then the answer should be no....not a lie. If the person is overweight than no is still not a lie. Its not the dress that makes you look fat.....its the fat that makes you look fat. The dress is not the culprit. But only an assh*le would answer like that.
Of course i do not mean you personally. I have not only never seen you in a dress, i think i have barely seen your face.....😁
That’s likely better than my answer a question with a question approach 😂
It is a better rationalization & I think it's correct
My belief is that honesty is not always the best policy. Sometimes you should keep that *kitten* to yourself😁
Out of love of course0 -
Corina1143 wrote: »You know those things they put on clothes that keep you from walking out of the store without paying? I learned that you shouldn't go through the self checkout if they're not working. Now I have to go back tomorrow and try to explain how I got out of the store with them on my swimsuit.
Just bring your receipt. That should be all the explanation they need0 -
itchmyTwitch wrote: »itchmyTwitch wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Also I learned honesty IS the best policy
In relationships - it absolutely is - at work maybe not so much
Cool cool
Does this dress make me look fat?
Ahhh.....this is the epitome of how not to lie because of how the question is framed and not hurt feelings. If a person is trim, then the answer should be no....not a lie. If the person is overweight than no is still not a lie. Its not the dress that makes you look fat.....its the fat that makes you look fat. The dress is not the culprit. But only an assh*le would answer like that.
Of course i do not mean you personally. I have not only never seen you in a dress, i think i have barely seen your face.....😁
That’s likely better than my answer a question with a question approach 😂
It is a better rationalization & I think it's correct
My belief is that honesty is not always the best policy. Sometimes you should keep that *kitten* to yourself😁
Out of love of course
In that case I would agree - but as far particular things you want from a partner I believe honesty is best - even it pushes them away - just means they not your person nah I’m sayin - we or at least I and too old to be settling out of convenience0 -
Oh yeah. I'm just saying the issue is often context specific.itchmyTwitch wrote: »itchmyTwitch wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Also I learned honesty IS the best policy
In relationships - it absolutely is - at work maybe not so much
Cool cool
Does this dress make me look fat?
Ahhh.....this is the epitome of how not to lie because of how the question is framed and not hurt feelings. If a person is trim, then the answer should be no....not a lie. If the person is overweight than no is still not a lie. Its not the dress that makes you look fat.....its the fat that makes you look fat. The dress is not the culprit. But only an assh*le would answer like that.
Of course i do not mean you personally. I have not only never seen you in a dress, i think i have barely seen your face.....😁
That’s likely better than my answer a question with a question approach 😂
It is a better rationalization & I think it's correct
My belief is that honesty is not always the best policy. Sometimes you should keep that *kitten* to yourself😁
Out of love of course
In that case I would agree - but as far particular things you want from a partner I believe honesty is best - even it pushes them away - just means they not your person nah I’m sayin - we or at least I and too old to be settling out of convenience
I am someone who has been accused of being too truthful. And I've had to learn that partial truths are not always deception. I don't need to give a dissertation to explain every point and angle like I'm doing here. 😂
I have a deep desire to be understood by my close friends and that together with having a strong moral leaning toward exactitude & truthfulness has sometimes muddied the waters.
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itchmyTwitch wrote: »itchmyTwitch wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Also I learned honesty IS the best policy
In relationships - it absolutely is - at work maybe not so much
Cool cool
Does this dress make me look fat?
Ahhh.....this is the epitome of how not to lie because of how the question is framed and not hurt feelings. If a person is trim, then the answer should be no....not a lie. If the person is overweight than no is still not a lie. Its not the dress that makes you look fat.....its the fat that makes you look fat. The dress is not the culprit. But only an assh*le would answer like that.
Of course i do not mean you personally. I have not only never seen you in a dress, i think i have barely seen your face.....😁
That’s likely better than my answer a question with a question approach 😂
It is a better rationalization & I think it's correct
My belief is that honesty is not always the best policy. Sometimes you should keep that *kitten* to yourself😁
Out of love of course
In that case I would agree - but as far particular things you want from a partner I believe honesty is best - even it pushes them away - just means they not your person nah I’m sayin - we or at least I and too old to be settling out of convenience
Also for ME the correct answer would depend on who I had asked.
If I asked my sister I would expect a careful honest objective opinion carefully worded so that it's about whether or not the clothing flatters me and not whether or not my body is right or wrong.
If I asked a lover I would expect, "Baby, I love your body. Come here."1 -
itchmyTwitch wrote: »itchmyTwitch wrote: »itchmyTwitch wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Also I learned honesty IS the best policy
In relationships - it absolutely is - at work maybe not so much
Cool cool
Does this dress make me look fat?
Ahhh.....this is the epitome of how not to lie because of how the question is framed and not hurt feelings. If a person is trim, then the answer should be no....not a lie. If the person is overweight than no is still not a lie. Its not the dress that makes you look fat.....its the fat that makes you look fat. The dress is not the culprit. But only an assh*le would answer like that.
Of course i do not mean you personally. I have not only never seen you in a dress, i think i have barely seen your face.....😁
That’s likely better than my answer a question with a question approach 😂
It is a better rationalization & I think it's correct
My belief is that honesty is not always the best policy. Sometimes you should keep that *kitten* to yourself😁
Out of love of course
In that case I would agree - but as far particular things you want from a partner I believe honesty is best - even it pushes them away - just means they not your person nah I’m sayin - we or at least I and too old to be settling out of convenience
Also for ME the correct answer would depend on who I had asked.
If I asked my sister I would expect a careful honest objective opinion carefully worded so that it's about whether or not the clothing flatters me and not whether or not my body is right or wrong.
If I asked a lover I would expect, "Baby, I love your body. Come here."
I get you
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Wish I took stretching and mobility work more serious 10 years ago.4
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lando_rooney wrote: »Wish I took stretching and mobility work more serious 10 years ago.
Amen brother0 -
lando_rooney wrote: »Wish I took stretching and mobility work more serious 10 years ago.
Yup - better late than never my dude -0 -
FWIW - I also have had a hard time with ‘partial truths’.itchmyTwitch wrote: »
Oh yeah. I'm just saying the issue is often context specific.itchmyTwitch wrote: »itchmyTwitch wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Also I learned honesty IS the best policy
In relationships - it absolutely is - at work maybe not so much
Cool cool
Does this dress make me look fat?
Ahhh.....this is the epitome of how not to lie because of how the question is framed and not hurt feelings. If a person is trim, then the answer should be no....not a lie. If the person is overweight than no is still not a lie. Its not the dress that makes you look fat.....its the fat that makes you look fat. The dress is not the culprit. But only an assh*le would answer like that.
Of course i do not mean you personally. I have not only never seen you in a dress, i think i have barely seen your face.....😁
That’s likely better than my answer a question with a question approach 😂
It is a better rationalization & I think it's correct
My belief is that honesty is not always the best policy. Sometimes you should keep that *kitten* to yourself😁
Out of love of course
In that case I would agree - but as far particular things you want from a partner I believe honesty is best - even it pushes them away - just means they not your person nah I’m sayin - we or at least I and too old to be settling out of convenience
I am someone who has been accused of being too truthful. And I've had to learn that partial truths are not always deception. I don't need to give a dissertation to explain every point and angle like I'm doing here. 😂
I have a deep desire to be understood by my close friends and that together with having a strong moral leaning toward exactitude & truthfulness has sometimes muddied the waters.
My lesson learned- I would have told myself not to have taken the ‘safer’ route.
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I should've never stopped my routine and lost all that muscle...I really did not acknowledge my own strength and ability and now im back to square 10
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I’ve learned I should always trust my gut instincts because they’re always right unfortunately0
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I’ve learned to never give second chances to anyone again0
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