WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2024

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  • evie1958
    evie1958 Posts: 864 Member
    Sue! yay for toxic tenant leaving! I'm sorry that she left such a mess, but I assume you were expecting that. It is too bad that her next landlord will have no idea of what they are getting into with her, but at least she's out of your hair!
    Heather, I can't get over how quickly you went from being so active to barely being able to function. Again, I am so glad that you will be able to get your surgeries so soon and then you will be back to your active self again! I'm sure it can't happen soon enough for you, {{{HUGS}}}
    I really must get to bed! Hope everyone makes the best of it!
    Evelyn, Vancouver Island
  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,034 Member
    Hi, my cherubs, from a very calm, but dull day beside the Irish Sea. My lawn is carpeted in pink petals from my magnolia, which is in full bloom.

    Sue: Yay! For the departure of the toxic tenant. It must be such a weight off your mind, despite the malicious damage. Wishing you much better luck with any future renters.

    Heather: It’s so very sensible to be so well prepared. It will mean that your recovery should be much easier.

    I have a busy week ahead. Just have to do a little prep this morning for my fledgling Monday Painters this afternoon. The painting I posted was the last workshop that I did with them.

    Tomorrow I will go to Craft Group before lunch. I am working on my gilet project, putting together all the pieces. I have a rehearsal after lunch for a concert on Thursday afternoon showcasing the talents of our U3A groups members. I am reading a short story and a poem.

    Latin restarts on Friday morning. Then I have card making on Friday afternoon.


    🤗🤗🤗 and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.

    🙋‍♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.

    ☘️ Terri

  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,609 Member
    skuehn48 wrote: »
    Woohoo! Toxic tenant left in middle of night, night before last.she left just before she could be served papers evicting her so no eviction will show on her record. She left a huge mess. Toilet filled with waste and toilet paper. Rotten food in refridgerator, broken fan, broken toaster oven, stolen laundry bag and towels, broken outlet. Shower curtains had to be dumped. We have changed locks and been advised to not sue her unless she sues us first, then counter sue. Wish there were some way to warn next person she tries to rent from.

    Machka - congrats on new house.

    Everyone take care, Sue in WA

    Yay!

    Sorry about the state of the place.

    Is there a tenant database / blacklist you can put info on?


    M in Oz
  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,702 Member
    Yesterday ended up being lazy. Did get dressed to take DH to buy frames. We then had dinner out and visited with a friend we haven't seen in years. After that played on phone while watching TV with DH.

    Sue- so happy tenant is gone! We had one that left one of ours disgusting after 2 years. Think multiple dogs, carpets, power off for a week in July before she let us know she had left. When she moved in we had just remodeled after previous tenant who had been there 14 yrs. When tenants are good life is great, when they are bad it is horrible. I am so happy yours is gone though!

    Machka I am excited for you as you move forward with your own home!

    Lisa Love the planter.

    Healing thoughts for those hurting.

    Eclipse day is here. I am excited but only because I can watch from where I am at.

    May your day be a good one.
    May your choices be the best you can make in the moment.
    May your brain listen to your body about what it needs .

    Love to all!
    Kylia in Ohio avoiding the craziness today
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,290 Member
    Good morning ladies!

    Sue that's wonderful news! It's over! I know you want to warn the next landlord, but you don't want her to sue you for defamation or something.

    Michele hope you get some relief for your leg.

    Machka what pretty flowers!

    Heather be careful! You show such determination in the face of pain!

    Terri I admire all your activities!

    Ginny hope the eclipse traffic doesn't bother you! And Kylia, hope the effects are minor. Who else is affected?

    It might be getting dark for us as we come back from Dad's physical therapy. But that's only a couple of miles away. And we are far enough away from totality that the darkness will be partial.

    Dad's shoulder was sore after his fall, and it's worse from starting the lawnmower. You would think there would be a better way to start the darn thing than pulling that cord. And yes he did some mowing yesterday but skipped his hip stretches.

    Not much on my list for today. Just trimming Teddy again. His eyes are disappearing behind his hair.

    Have a great day, my friends! May you be happy, healthy, safe and free!

    Annie in Delaware



  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,609 Member
    Good morning ladies!

    Dad's shoulder was sore after his fall, and it's worse from starting the lawnmower. You would think there would be a better way to start the darn thing than pulling that cord. And yes he did some mowing yesterday but skipped his hip stretches.

    Annie in Delaware

    Electric lawn mowers have done away with all that cord pulling.

    I've never mowed a lawn in my life, but my husband uses an electric mower which appears to operate in a similar way to a vacuum cleaner ... plug it in, turn it on, and go.

    M in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,609 Member
    Thank you very much @MsElphaba!!

    We are leaning heavily toward engineered hardwood. It will mainly be my husband and me, and our cat. And yes, it does get humid at times.

    This is a sample of flooring we have sitting in front of the island. In the picture, you can see some of the island and then the flooring.
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    I've looked at so many paint colours today they've all blended into one!!


    Machka in Oz
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,604 Member
    Beth ~ So sad to hear about your mom's continuing decline. We had to put our now dead BIL in memory care when he was doing the same type of behaviors you describe. It made me very depressed to visit him there and now feel that it was a blessing when his time here passed. He was very unhappy the last few years of his life and hated being out of his beloved childhood home.

    Lisa ~ Your planter looks very good and when you scrape the mortar off and plant flowers there it will be lovely.

    Sue ~ So glad your wicked tenant has left. We had a renter that left our house in a mess and it took 4 mo's before we could get it ready to be rented again. This was the second tenant that had to be evicted due to non-payment. Now we have a lady that has been there for 5 yrs and she is very good about letting us know when repairs need to be made.

    Heather ~ Having to crawl up the stairs sounds awful. Do you and John have a downstairs bedroom that would make getting the morning tea easier?

    Flooring ~ We have engineered flooring in the dining and living room and hardwood in the den, hallways, and one bath. I love the engineered flooring and agree that the hardwood has some expansion problems.

    Carol in GA



  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,258 Member
    (((Carol))) So sorry about your brother. :heart:
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,709 Member
    edited April 8
    Just had to fill in a great , long, pre-op form from the hospital. L O N G...... :p
    Plus lots of online info booklets.
    Everything online. Good job I'm fairly competent in that respect. I know a few my age who aren't.

    I've also got notice from the savings account that I am going to use for the ops about the renewal date in May. Of course, I will have to close the account. Will have to put the money somewhere for the meantime. Shame, because interest rates are so good at the moment.

    Haven't heard back from Saga about the insurance claim. Waiting for the doctors to ring me.

    I have a phone appointment on Wednesday evening about pain meds.

    So sorry, Beth, about all this. <3

    Carol - And your brother. Both my parents died of COPD. My father's last years were terrible. He was 71.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,290 Member
    edited April 8
    Beth so sorry to hear about your Mom's decline. The end of dementia is truly horrible for the patient and the caregiver. My mom was headed that way, but cancer took her before it got too bad.

    Carol, so sorry about your brother. May he rest in peace.

    Lisa that's a beautiful room!

    I did my twenty eight minutes on my bike and fourteen minutes walking! Yay!

    Annie in Delaware
  • bwcetc
    bwcetc Posts: 2,826 Member
    Carol ... So sorry to hear of your brother's passing ...my prayers are with you and your family.

    Beth
  • sh0tzz99
    sh0tzz99 Posts: 971 Member
    Sue-Great news on the tenant. It may be a mess, but she's gone!

    Heather-Your routine sounds inconvenient, but it's good that you're doing it. You still need to keep active somehow. A former colleague got hip replacements and he said it was the best thing he did for himself. A friend recently had knee replacements and she said the same.

    I love the artwork you all share. Machka, those markers look cool. What are they? Maybe I'll try them. I still need hobbies. I did buy a puzzle early in the year and had a goal to get it put together before baseball season started. I did. Now I need something else. Maybe drawing or coloring. I don't like messy things, so painting isn't my bag.

    I'm considering renting shared office space (like WeWork). I need to get out of the house more. The mister and I are together too much. We're arguing again.

    I need to make serious changes. I'm also considering getting a part-time flexible job. I no longer can live comfortably on my salary. That will also get me out of the house. Maybe the zoo.

    Anyway, off to have my coffee.

    Tina in CA, trying to remember not to look at the sun today. It's really sunny!
  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,317 Member
    Today is visit your local Zoo day! I love zoos. I simply don’t get to visit them as often as I’d like.

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  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,709 Member
    Had a frustrating 30 mins waiting on the phone to Saga. Gave up.

    Mushroom risotto for dinner. I've prepared most of it, just the finishing off to do. John has cut up the beans to go with it.

    Today was not one of my best. Frustrating. I can feel a headache threatening. I feel like Lisa, battling idiots. Tomorrow I will take my trolley round to the shops to buy veggies for Wednesday when Edie and my son come over. Also need bread and milk.

    Time marches on. :D Another day nearer my first op.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx