LESS Alcohol ~ APRIL 2025 ~ One Day at A Time
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@SurferGirl1982 scary about the nosebleed! I had no idea that clotting cells come from your liver! Glad you’re doing ok!
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Been a crazy few days, I guess I missed some stuff. Hopefully all is well with @MissMay, and whatever comes of it, I hope she knows what she's given to the community with this thread. It never occurred to me that there was a middle ground between drinking and not, that LA was a thing. Because of these threads, I was able to completely reorient my thinking and change my relationship with alcohol for the better.
Progress on the business end is happening fast, work is getting done and money is getting spent, plans are coming to fruition a little bit at a time.
11 LA
5 AF
6 A
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April:
AF=8
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12 AF
5 LA
5 A
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Gosh, I thought I posted on the 14th before my international flight to London and Paris but see I did not!
Still in Paris until Saturday! Been doing surprisingly well with my wine targets. I guess walking 5-6 miles a day to all the sights has taken a priority:). I feel like I have lost weight. Interesting.
Enjoying some new French wines but definitely not over doing.So very sad to see the post from MissMay - such an incredible leader to keep this thread going for many years. I do hope someone can report back that she is okay.
Thanks @itladyee for offering to take over posting a new thread for us. Appreciate that!
Be back next week!
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April:
AF=8
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@itladyee Thank you for volunteering to take the lead here. I would hope the thread will continue in the tradition with which it was started years ago as a SUPPORTIVE, NO JUDGEMENT ZONE. No one needs to be lectured as we are all adults and well aware of our own issues. I wish MM well and maybe she just needed a break; she has been running this thread like a champ for a long time and probably taking a well deserved rest.
Today will be a beautiful day and it will be an A day for me. Having happy hour after work on a beautiful local patio. I will be on a semiglutide journey for the second time starting as soon as it is delivered to my door. As important as weight loss for me, equally important is that it totally curbs my desire to drink. As in I cannot finish one glass. It really is a game changer. IMO it should be dirt cheap and widely available but that day has not come yet. Hopefully soon.
Have a wonderful, healthy day, Friends.
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@SunnyDays930 One of the original reasons I started Semaglutide was hoping it would curb my desire to drink. It did not, but it drastically decreased my appetite. I'm happy it works for you! Good luck and keep us posted on your journey
@SurferGirl1982 As I always say, keep on keeping on! You will get where you want to be when you're ready
@itladyee Yes, please keep us going!
I've not been doing so great the last few days but hoping to turn that around today. I'm attending a charity tea party with my sister where they will not be serving alcohol, so tonight will be AF. I will try to continue through the weekend. Saturday will be easy. I'll be at dance competition with grandbabies until late. I'm not sure about Friday. I think I'll try to work a little late and take away the temptation.
A=8/AF=15
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Garage cleaning day today…. more like…still unpacking.
I've been AF for the past 3 days. Easter was spent at my husband's family's house and they don't drink so no fun popping a cork all alone.
We see how today plays out :)
Happy Thursday!
Stats thru 4/23
A = 12
LA = 3
AF = 810 -
13 AF
5 LA
6 A
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Looks like we'll keep moving forward, thank you @SurferGirl1982 and @itladyee.
I'm still at zero drinks for April. Still eating my evening apple with a glass of seltzer mixed with a generous few ounces of pure lime juice. I call it my faux whiskey sour.
In a couple of weeks I have a plane trip to visit family. That will be a drinking test so trying not to think about it. Planes, airports, and extended family all make me want to drink. I read about valerian to help relax and I may experiment with something like that before I leave so I am prepared.
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AF - 19
A - 5Well, gee whiz… first @MissMay dropping us like hot potatoes and now @SurferGirl1982 trying to put us on the back burner! I just don’t think I can take this kind of rejection.😉
I’m kidding, of course. But, I understand everyone has their way, their life, and their comfort zones. We all have to keep on, keeping on like @chicbuc says.
The transition to the new job is kind of kicking my *kitten*. It took me about 5 hours this evening to figure out a task I was assigned. Now, that I’ve figured it out, I’ll have the rest of it done in a half an hour tomorrow.🙄🤦🏻♀️
On the drinking front, I may not have as many days of drinking, but 2 or 3 of those days was polishing off a full bottle of wine. So, the daily ratio looks nice, but behind the ratio is a hot-*kitten* mess!
Walking comes in spurts. I’m trying to get out there, but there are tons of last minute meetings with the job transition. There’s also the kids’ crap, and the rain. It’s just all throwing me off.
My eating isn’t much better. I’m trying to keep it down to a dull roar. I made cookies today for my son’s last IEP meeting and ate 2. I had Bojangles for lunch which made me feel sick, like it was too heavy. And, because I was trying to figure out the work crap, hubby got pizza for dinner. I had 2 slices. I could’ve definitely done better with that today, and this almost seems like a typical day anymore. I’ll never lose my fat *kitten* this way. 😕
Anyway, tired again, so off to bed I go. Good night all! ❤️✌🏻& 🐓-grease!7 -
I gave in tonight and it was ok.. I spent the entire day working in the garage. You know how you start a project and then 3 hours in wonder why???? yep, that was today. The left side was totally clear before I began as I'd been parking there….then I started the task and this is what it looked like… But I got it done. Emptied about 10 boxes…felt good.
It was nice enough to clean the grill and fire it up…nothing spectacular….just Italian sausages. Then watched the NFL draft so I can be ready for the season! 😂 Entertaining some quotes to get a patio….can't wait.
Stats thru 4/24
A = 13
LA = 3
AF = 86 -
Valerian can be good, it works on GABA mechanisms - my personal stack uses kava, which also effects GABA, but it's hard to source clean and it can be expensive, so I'm considering subbing it out for valerian and passionflower which should pair up to have similar effects. Valerian inhibits GABA uptake, while passionflower shows increase GABA levels and mild MAO inhibition. Other things you might look into are magnesium glycinate, l-theanine, lemon balm and ashwagandha. If you take ashwa, make sure it's paired with about 5mg of piperine, otherwise its bioavailability is garbage. I've been learning a lot about bioavailability and solubility lately, it's amazing how many grocery store and drugstore brands are selling garbage that we can't absorb because it's either a bunk form (like magnesium oxide or potassium gluconate), insoluble (hacks include pairing with MCT powder) or require additional components like piperine to make them bioavailable (turmeric, ashwagandha, etc). Most of these things are good for stress management and relaxation without getting too into drowsiness territory unless you're stacking decent size doses. For daytime, I find that a small stack of magnesium glycinate (~100mg), ashwagandha (300-500mg) and l-theanine (~100mg) really helps me decompress without significant physical effects. Valerian can be mildly sedative, while passionflower is more anxiolytic.
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Returning home tomorrow from vacation! Looking forward to supporting everyone in May who are working a Less Alcohol program (as stated in the openers each month).
I am pleased that @itladyee has offered to keep us going. You are a longtime member here! And I know MissMay also posted last month how she might be needing your help.
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@itladyee thanks for taking this over. I’m sure it’s a big job-but may be a piece of cake for you! That garage project, however- it always looks worse before it gets better! It’s such an amazing feeling to get rid of stuff you don’t need! And then re-organizing and tidying up-bliss!!!
I really hope @MissMay is ok. If you’re out there, check in with us!
@SurferGirl1982 I totally understand if you need to find a group that’s about being completely sober. Glad you’re not bowing out completely!
I have a mixed doubles round robin tonight at 8:00 with my son, so I can’t drink at dinner. That’s a good thing! I haven’t had one AF day all month. Most days have been more than one drink. I know what I need to do, I just have to get over the Wine O’clock craving. I’m like freaking Pavlov’s dog over here!Good news is that I’ve been exercising more consistently, and getting my house in order. Also I’ve been consistent with logging my food. Next stop, reducing alcohol. The pudge needs to budge! Haha!
More good news is that our boat goes into the water today! YAY!!!!!!May we all have a great weekend full of joy and less alcohol-whatever that means to you!
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April:
AF=8
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@mfowler883 good advice there, I have used Tadin brand passionflower tea on my earlier rounds of attempting to quit/reduce drinking and it helped take the "edge" off. I did not experience side effects and I am allergic to many plants. I would make it super-strong and steep multiple tea bags in a mug and drink a couple of cups mid-afternoon, in an attempt to help me better manage the 5pm drinking hour. I'll try Valerian next at home first to see how I react.
@SurferGirl1982 I am behind you all the way in whatever your next plan is and I will honestly say I have taken breaks from this group from time to time and that is all good.
In fact I used to phase in and out of this group over the years. Sometimes I felt I didn't need it, sometimes I needed a break, sometimes I screwed up and just didn't walk to talk about it, sometimes I compared myself to the others, sometimes I felt I drank way more than most others, and like even now, I wonder, do I belong here if I am proceeding down the "not drinking for good" route? I'm staying for now because what I do admire about this group is that it is a judgment free, no-comparison zone where everyone is on their own journey, at their own pace, checking in here when they want, and using their own method or method(s) to become happier and healthier selves.
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@SurferGirl1982 ~ So yes, back in the fall, I promised myself I'd clear the garage to a point that I could park inside. And yes, I did it….but the "other" side of the garage was a mess and still had boxes that needed to be unpacked.
I always make a bigger mess before I clean …
I did manage to get it all cleaned up and better organization on the "other" side but it's going to take about 3 more passes and 1800gotjunk to be able to park two cars inside!!!
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13 AF
5 LA
7 A
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I did enjoy a couple of glasses last night, and then finished it off today. It's interesting that you take a couple of days off and then partake..the taste is so full of body…..
I played with Chapgpt today. Someone in another group suggested putting your requirements in and allowing it to plan a menu for you for a specified amount of time. I did a 5 day, low carb (gave it my macros) and tweaked it a couple of times (stuff I didn't want) and it finally spit something out that might be doable. I did include 1 6oz glass of wine each night. That gives me flexibility…. i have my menu planned through Wed of next week, but I think I will give chatgpt a go. I was going to do the premium + meal planner a try on MFP…. choking on a 99 a month upgrade (I already had premium so just the net difference) but because I did premium through google plan…it wouldn't let me. Being going round and round with support so I think I'll just wait and see….
Thank you all for your support moving forward.. But to be clear… @SurferGirl1982 has set up May and will be controlling the site for the month. I will add content as usual as a member. I will set up June and subsequent months, unless someone objects.
@chicbuc ~ did you ever do that 4:30 wake up.. Inquiring minds….
@Michieb125 ~ Welcome back. I know how bittersweet it is returning home after vacation. When I went on my first cruise (years ago) I vowed to NEVER go on a cruise every again because I had so much fun, coming back to real life was unimaginable. ok, I got over that but I know it's hard!! Can't wait to hear (and see pictures) of your trip!
@SunnyDays930 ~ Rest assured, the thread will continue as a supportive, no judgement zone place for us wishing to cut down on alcohol…. however long it takes.
@globalhiker ~ You go! I am so happy and proud of your accomplishments. I like the idea of setzer mixed with lime. It's just "something" in the hand during those moments. I think I mentioned before…filling your glass with something else before that urge surfaces..makes all the difference in the world.
@NonnieDoiron ~ Bummer the new job transition is kicking *kitten* but I'm sure that's just temporary as you get your sea legs! Give yourself grace…you've had a tough couple of weeks and you need to get back in your zone, you'll get there.
@SurferGirl1982 ~ re the NFL draft…I only paid attention if it was the Bears or the Raiders…or some cute kid (that could have been my son) wearing super nice clothes….and sneekers! Re your "screw-up" comment. Everyone is on their own journey to their destination…. Being able to post something positive is part of the motivation that this groups brings…aka…accountability. As said many times before… on your own terms…when you're ready you'll know and you will be able to share the wins with us. We are here supporting you every step of the way but it's up to you to take the first, second, third, fifth, tenth, twentieth….step.
@mfowler883 ~ your post has my head spinning… I guess when you don't know…you don't know… MCT powder was the only thing I've heard of… Living under a rock, maybe!
@Womona ~ I will figure out a way to keep things humming. I'm admin in a couple other groups so adding one more shouldn't be a big deal. It's kind of my nature…. While it doesn't look like it…but I didn't show you after pictures. I empties about 10 boxes, created 3 carpenter trash bags and then restacked the rest. It will take a few more passes to make room for another car…but progress was made. I'd better save …..been typing bit Congrats on getting that boat in the water. Isn't there a day in May set aside for that celebration?
if anyone has a lock step with Spring… please send them my ways…these "teaser" days are killing me!
Have a great night all….
Stats thru 4/25
A = 14
LA = 3
AF = 86 -
Sigh… turns out the boat is NOT in the water today, but should be early next week. Here’s hoping! Meanwhile I finally had a AF night! My son and I played tennis, got our butts soundly kicked, but had fun. Hmmm… playing sports late at night is one way to avoid drinking! I didn’t even have a sip of my husband’s cocktail at dinner! And guess what, it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be.
@SurferGirl1982 I’m on the East coast, but I’d love to have you on board! Kinda far I know. Meanwhile- thanks for sharing your story again. I didn’t realize that you were having such hallucinations! Scary stuff, especially with memory not coming back right away. Bigfoot-wow!!!!!
@ Michieb182 sounds like such an amazing trip!6 -
LOL no worries - I've been geeking out on supplements for a while now. When I hit the wall and I was drinking myself into oblivion to try to sleep, getting two hours a night and waking up still drunk, I needed something different and supplements were a big part of the answer for me. Basically, if it can make you relax or destress or decompress or go to sleep, I tried it.
GPT is awesome, I use it all the time now. Son's resume? GPT. E-mails to one of our business partners? GPT. Recipes that I can cook in large amounts to portion, freeze and vacuum pack, with substitutions for simplified ingredients and reduced calories? GPT. Can I buy all this peach Jumex that I found on clearance for $.39 a can and ferment it, stick it in the closet and forget about it for a year and call it "peach wine?" GPT. (The answer was yes, so the plan is LV-1118 yeast, ferment, rack, and age one gallon straight, the other with oak spirals and cinnamon sticks.) What happens if I hunt down a '90s Harley FXR and build it into a brawler with sportbike suspension? GPT:It's a bit alarming how much GPT's render seems to pull DNA straight from the Filthy B!tch, right down to the fender chop and Badlander seat. (Her theft still stings, I hope she highsides whoever tries to ride her.) When I get situated again, I think I must build this bike. Back to GPT, though, one of the biggest things I've found is what I've been calling dynamic journaling. It's like a way to frame all the crap in my head, talk through all of my ghosts and demons, put the feelings into words, and just start PROCESSING things…I could write with pen and paper, or just type in a text file, but there's something sort of conversational about the AI interaction that helps to bring it out and keep it moving, keeping a balance between free-flowing and structured. It's been a powerful tool for me.
Lost count again. Go fig.
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@SurferGirl1982 i’m near Philly, but we keep our boat down the shore. I am not surprised that you caught right on to sailing! I’m sure the best part of that day was when the dude went below deck to nap!
@mfowler there are just so many supplements to take, good on you for the deep dive. That’s the business you’re starting up, correct?Happy Saturday everyone!
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@mfowler883 ~tell me more about dynamic journaling with GPT? So you just "write" (normal journaling) and then toss into GPT and get feedback? There's an app that does something like that but I wouldn't pay for it. Do you pay for GPT or use the free version? I maxed out the free version yesterday!!
@Womona ~ Sorry you didn't get the boat in the water. I bet tennis was fun. I wish my husband enjoyed playing it. It would be a great way to get more fun exercise although he did buy pickleball rackets at Christmas that we've yet to explore…
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Nevermind…re Chatgpt ~ I just tried it and this is NOT a good thing. I will be here ALL day in front of the computer. I'm having it analyze the crazy dreams I've been having. Still curious if you pay for it though.
Stats thru 4/25
A = 14
LA = 3
AF = 85 -
@SurferGirl1982 that would have been funny!
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ChatGPT conversation is interesting, I honestly went to it for the first time to ask it how to drink less, of the top tips the one I liked the most is:
Replace Drinking with a Hobby
- Why: Having something else to focus on can help reduce cravings.
- What to Do: Pick up a new hobby, go for walks, start exercising, or even take up cooking. Anything that gets your mind off alcohol and keeps you engaged.
So true for me, I've loaded up my hours and days with activities, keeps my thoughts occupied.
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Today my goal is a long walk of 4 hours minimum. This is how I hit the "reset" button and quiet my mind. It's my necessary therapy (and it's free).
@SurferGirl1982 awesome you are sticking around and you are a wonderful contributor. We are here to inspire ourselves and find inspiration, self reflect on what to do next and what worked and what didn't and follow our own paths.
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@globalhiker @mfowler883~ I turned ChatGPT into a trivia game. My DH and I had a lot of fun with it. I also asked it to build me a menu for the next 5 days with my max calories, macros and even told it to allow one glass of wine per day. I literally did spend the day asking for stuff. It's crazy! I think I had negative steps! :)
So will you do 4 hours of walking at once or break it into pieces. Interesting reset mode. Well, I need to make up for sitting on the kitten* all day and get to the gym and run some errands. May visit the grands!
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