Question for the fellas...

bcweisen
bcweisen Posts: 118 Member
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1 When is the last time you thought your wife was sexy?

2 When is the last time you told her?
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  • shinkalork
    shinkalork Posts: 815 Member
    today

    like an hour ago
  • Railr0aderTony
    Railr0aderTony Posts: 6,803 Member
    today

    like an hour ago



    YUP, I try to tell and show her everyday.
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  • robdel302
    robdel302 Posts: 292 Member
    I have a wife? Holy *kitten*. Get me a lawyer, I need out.

    Hitmen are cheaper than divorces; worked for me. :smile:
  • bcweisen
    bcweisen Posts: 118 Member
    My hubby must be as emotionally constipated as I thought then. :laugh:
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,334 Member
    I'm not a hubby, but I'm a wife and my hubby tells me (and shows me!) he thinks I'm sexy multiple times a day :smile: He's a scamp and also very handsy heehee :wink:
  • usernameMAMA
    usernameMAMA Posts: 681 Member
    Not a fella but my hubby is up my *kitten* all day. He either finds me really, really attractive or I have trained him well:)
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  • Skrib69
    Skrib69 Posts: 687 Member
    This morning
  • bcweisen
    bcweisen Posts: 118 Member
    Lucky wifes! Obviously marriages work out best when sex drive and compliments are equal and balanced for both partners. Any advice on how to "train" my hubby?
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  • PolkaDot_Princess
    PolkaDot_Princess Posts: 314 Member
    sorry all the wifeys are crashing this thread, but my hubby also tells me everyday how sexy I am. And vice versa ;-)
  • SkinnyFatAlbert
    SkinnyFatAlbert Posts: 482 Member
    Lucky wifes! Obviously marriages work out best when sex drive and compliments are equal and balanced for both partners. Any advice on how to "train" my hubby?

    Whips and chains for negative reinforcement. Food for positive reinforcement.
  • stetienne
    stetienne Posts: 560 Member
    couple days ago
  • CassandraBurgos83
    CassandraBurgos83 Posts: 544 Member
    I don't remember the last time he complimented me on anything, especially this subject.
  • Deipneus
    Deipneus Posts: 1,856 Member
    Sexy is such an old-fashioned word I never tell her she's sexy. My wife is hot and I compliment her daily.
  • just_Jennie1
    just_Jennie1 Posts: 1,233
    Lucky wifes! Obviously marriages work out best when sex drive and compliments are equal and balanced for both partners. Any advice on how to "train" my hubby?

    You can't.

    If your husband isn't that sort of person you can't force it on him.
  • angelams1019
    angelams1019 Posts: 1,102 Member
    Lucky wifes! Obviously marriages work out best when sex drive and compliments are equal and balanced for both partners. Any advice on how to "train" my hubby?

    Whips and chains for negative reinforcement. Food for positive reinforcement.

    I like the way you think! :wink:
  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
    When is the last time you thought your wife was sexy? The day before I discovered her affair.

    When is the last time you told her? Same day.

    Now she repulses me.

    FYI, as of a couple months ago . . . she isn't your wife anymore. :wink:
  • angelams1019
    angelams1019 Posts: 1,102 Member
    Sexy is such an old-fashioned word I never tell her she's sexy. My wife is hot and I compliment her daily.

    I'd much rather be called sexy than hot....Maybe I'm just old fashioned...
  • bcweisen
    bcweisen Posts: 118 Member
    I don't remember the last time he complimented me on anything, especially this subject.

    You're not alone then. I know we don't need men for our self esteem but it sure would be nice to have an extra boost from our significant other!
  • SkinnyFatAlbert
    SkinnyFatAlbert Posts: 482 Member
    :devil:
    Lucky wifes! Obviously marriages work out best when sex drive and compliments are equal and balanced for both partners. Any advice on how to "train" my hubby?

    Whips and chains for negative reinforcement. Food for positive reinforcement.

    I like the way you think! :wink:

    :devil:
  • jewel22887
    jewel22887 Posts: 72
    My hubby tells me every day, we see each other, how he finds me attractive and I do the same I fell like the best way to get compliments is to give them :)
  • bcweisen
    bcweisen Posts: 118 Member
    I'd take sexy, hot, smokin', beautiful, pretty.... just about anything positive. I've heard that some men are verbal and some physical. Seems my hubby isn't too good at feedback either way.
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    My hubby must be as emotionally constipated as I thought then. :laugh:

    For what it's worth, I'm not currently married or a fella, but I have been with the same guy for nearly four years now. He isn't very vocal about, well anything. It is very rare for him to compliment anything, whether it be something I cook, what I wear, or how I look. Every once in a while he will say that I look pretty, or that my hard work is paying off, and I love it when he does. I think that when he does compliment me it means even more because I don't hear it every day. It doesn't mean that he doesn't think I am sexy, because I know he does. Some men just aren't open like that.
  • CassandraBurgos83
    CassandraBurgos83 Posts: 544 Member
    I think we just need to be happy with ourselves instead of look for validation from anyone else. However, It would give me the excited butterflies if I actually heard anything similar to that come out of his mouth.
  • james6998
    james6998 Posts: 743 Member
    Not for a long time.
  • _Krys10_
    _Krys10_ Posts: 1,234 Member
    My husband tells me I am beautiful every day, he smacks my *kitten* everyday too. I don't get sexy too much, I get hot.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    OR... don't compare your relationship to others like this...

    "How long before you had sex with your SO"

    "How many dates should you wait to let him meet your children"

    "Do you always have an O during sex?"

    I mean... I get it for the sake of fun discussion, but one husband telling his wife an hour ago doesn't make your husband worse for not telling you.
  • bcweisen
    bcweisen Posts: 118 Member
    My hubby must be as emotionally constipated as I thought then. :laugh:

    For what it's worth, I'm not currently married or a fella, but I have been with the same guy for nearly four years now. He isn't very vocal about, well anything. It is very rare for him to compliment anything, whether it be something I cook, what I wear, or how I look. Every once in a while he will say that I look pretty, or that my hard work is paying off, and I love it when he does. I think that when he does compliment me it means even more because I don't hear it every day. It doesn't mean that he doesn't think I am sexy, because I know he does. Some men just aren't open like that.

    I love your perspective. I suppose I'm just losing my confidence. "knowing" he does turns into hoping and/or wishing.

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