Question for the fellas...

brentalanrhodes

I told someone else's wife she was sexy today...

Now see, you do it and you're being sweet, I do it and I'm a creep. Lol!

Nah, I was creepin'. And hey, Brent, you're sexy!

Ha! Creeper.. You too are sexy Latenite.

See how easy!

vtmoon

I told someone else's wife she was sexy today...

Was she in the room too? Just the three of you?

SweetLilyR

I said it just this morning, right before I asked her to sleep in while I made breakfast for the kids and set them up with their two PBS shows.

Then, I came back upstairs and gave her a shoulder massage and spoke sweet nothings in German, before I gave her a playful swat on her rear and went out the door to work.

Marry me?

brentalanrhodes

I said it just this morning, right before I asked her to sleep in while I made breakfast for the kids and set them up with their two PBS shows.

Then, I came back upstairs and gave her a shoulder massage and spoke sweet nothings in German, before I gave her a playful swat on her rear and went out the door to work.

Pretty typical day around my place, except the German part. I find Yiddish produces more saliva.

kborton1122

My ex husband NEVER told me or showed me how he felt about me. It sucked!

My boyfriend now tells me everyday that he thinks I am beautiful and sexy, and the best 3 words ever, I love you. Not only does he tell me, but he shows me, and I feel it. He's very handsy and I never get tired of it.

If you wish to hear how your husband feels about you, tell him. He may not realize ... men are dumb that way sometimes.

Denisse210

I don't remember the last time he complimented me on anything, especially this subject.

GIRL, same here! Im seriously thinking of losing the weight and then losing him! lol

pawnstarNate

I said it just this morning, right before I asked her to sleep in while I made breakfast for the kids and set them up with their two PBS shows.

Then, I came back upstairs and gave her a shoulder massage and spoke sweet nothings in German, before I gave her a playful swat on her rear and went out the door to work.

Marry me?

PFFT....he just got through reading a romance novel from Susan Elizabeth Phillips too

MireyGal76

OR... don't compare your relationship to others like this...

"How long before you had sex with your SO"

"How many dates should you wait to let him meet your children"

"Do you always have an O during sex?"

I mean... I get it for the sake of fun discussion, but one husband telling his wife an hour ago doesn't make your husband worse for not telling you.

THIS!!!

Are you looking for us to open a door for you to talk about how poorly you are treated? If that's the case, then just get it over with and post a "My husband doesn't tell me I'm sexy" thread so people jump right to it.

Is it great to have that affirmation? Hell yes. It goes a long way to making a woman feel admired, cherished, desired, loved, etc. And all THOSE things often lead her towards a healthy dose of horny.

I'm not married but I hope I never have a wife who I need to remind is sexy. She should know that @#%^ on her own. It needs to come from the mirror, not me.

Ya hear that buster? You don't tell her because you're opinion of her defines her worth. She should have that worth herself. You tell her that because you honestly feel that way about her, and it gives her confidence and a solid awareness that you value her.

When was the last time you thought your husband looked sexy and told him? Or that you appreciated him for something he did?

It's a two-way street, just sayin'.

Typically (emphasis on typically) women trend towards having strong emotional needs and men trend towards having strong physical needs. If the emotional needs of a woman are met, they often explode into physical demonstration of that met need. Conversely, if a man's physical needs are met, they tend to be a helluva lot more emotionally connected.

If BOTH parties are doing their parts, then both parties have emotional AND physical needs being met. AND LIFE IS GOOOOOOD.

If neither party is doing their part... Nobody is happy, and nobody is getting much of either... well, at least not from their spouse.

And, in a marriage that is struggling... if one partner chooses to step up their game and work towards fulfilling their partner's needs, their partner often responds in turn.

Sometimes... sadly... it's too late, or it just doesn't work.

EddieHaskell97

Pretty typical day around my place, except the German part. I find Yiddish produces more saliva.

Very nice!

miss_jessiejane

^^^^^ Yes

I've been married 15 years and he sucked at it for a very long time, but is much better now because I was honest with him about how he made me feel when he didn't vocalize how he feels. And vice versa for me, too.

A slap on my *kitten* does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"
A "I wanna bang you" does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"
A "Look at your boobs and *kitten*" does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"

:sad: I've been doing it all wrong!!

_Krys10_

I'm not married but I hope I never have a wife who I need to remind is sexy. She should know that @#%^ on her own. It needs to come from the mirror, not me.

I hope you're kidding

crackur

I show mine everyday......

joselo2

I have a wife? Holy *kitten*. Get me a lawyer, I need out.

Me too! I saw the title of this and I was like 'fellas?? that sounds relevant to me, let's see what insight I can impart'. Turns out not much.

OMG so weird, do you really think all men have a wife?

herblackwings39

Lucky wifes! Obviously marriages work out best when sex drive and compliments are equal and balanced for both partners. Any advice on how to "train" my hubby?

Whips and chains for negative reinforcement. Food for positive reinforcement.

Whips and chains can be positiv....er.....nevermind.

erikmsp72

Forget subtle hints. Just tell him what you want.

Then tell him again.

And if he doesn't figure it out, make cue cards for him. "Your line is, 'you look great tonight, honey!'"

Ok, that is silly. But truly. Just. tell. him. Give him guidelines:

"Honey, twice a day I need you to tell me that I'm beautiful, and give me a kiss."

It'll feel stupid at first, and you'll roll your eyes and laugh about it. . . . but he'll say it anyway, and you'll hear it, and you'll both enjoy the kissing. Right?

Subtlety in spousal communication is mostly a set-up for resentment. So skip that. In my opinion.

Deipneus

I'm not married but I hope I never have a wife who I need to remind is sexy. She should know that @#%^ on her own. It needs to come from the mirror, not me.

I don't even know what to say to this horsesh!t.

Reminds me of an old joke, or was it a line in a movie? In response to a wife who asked her husband again to tell her that he loves her he said: "I told you when we got married I love you and I'll let you know if anything changes!"

Dbchristensen

Everyone has a different language for expressing love. Verbal might be yours. His might be different, physical, little things, gifts... I dunno. But you two obviously got married for a reason. Try to look for his language and translate.

Also, don't try to 'train' your husband. It's fun to joke that, but in the long run, it doesn't solve anything. The only person you can truly change is yourself and hope he is the kind of person that will change himself.

And maybe he's thinking the same thing you are, so if you never say anything, nothing is going to happen.

I'm married, have ups and downs, but stronger than ever. My wife's language is actually little gestures, and occasional verbal (not everyday, she doesn't like that.)

doorki

I'm not married but I hope I never have a wife who I need to remind is sexy. She should know that @#%^ on her own. It needs to come from the mirror, not me.

The point is to make her feel wanted.

^^^^^ Yes

I've been married 15 years and he sucked at it for a very long time, but is much better now because I was honest with him about how he made me feel when he didn't vocalize how he feels. And vice versa for me, too.

A slap on my *kitten* does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"
A "I wanna bang you" does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"
A "Look at your boobs and *kitten*" does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"

In man talk, yes, it does.

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Toblave

1 When is the last time you thought your wife was sexy?

2 When is the last time you told her?

All the time and at least a couple times every day.

JDBLY11

When was the last time you thought your husband looked sexy and told him? Or that you appreciated him for something he did?

It's a two-way street, just sayin'.

I just told him today. He is not perfect and most people wonder why I like him, but he is a very good companion even when the physical stuff is not really possible right now because of some health problems he is having and even when he is not the best at providing material things. Even snuggling and sexy comments can be really nice.

It is funny because my husband and I must call each other sexy pretty frequently because our five year old son already knows the word "sexy" and says it pretty often though he does not really know what it means.

mister_universe

1 When is the last time you thought your wife was sexy?

2 When is the last time you told her?

About eight seconds ago. And sixteen. And 24. You get the point.

I squeezed her *kitten*, kissed her cheek and whispered in her ear that I loved her this morning before I left for work while she was still in bed. Does that count? If not, then last night after midnight, sometime well after festivities were over.

RunningForeverMama

Forget subtle hints. Just tell him what you want.

Then tell him again.

And if he doesn't figure it out, make cue cards for him. "Your line is, 'you look great tonight, honey!'"

Ok, that is silly. But truly. Just. tell. him. Give him guidelines:

"Honey, twice a day I need you to tell me that I'm beautiful, and give me a kiss."

It'll feel stupid at first, and you'll roll your eyes and laugh about it. . . . but he'll say it anyway, and you'll hear it, and you'll both enjoy the kissing. Right?

Subtlety in spousal communication is mostly a set-up for resentment. So skip that. In my opinion.

Then again saying it because the wife told you so and saying it spontaneously because you mean it are not the same. In some ways it is worse than not hearing it at all. Double-edged sword.

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ChefTJP

I wish I would have told her more often. thats why I am in the situation i am in...

JustAboutDelicious_wechanged

I'm not married but I hope I never have a wife who I need to remind is sexy. She should know that @#%^ on her own. It needs to come from the mirror, not me.

The point is to make her feel wanted.

^^^^^ Yes

I've been married 15 years and he sucked at it for a very long time, but is much better now because I was honest with him about how he made me feel when he didn't vocalize how he feels. And vice versa for me, too.

A slap on my *kitten* does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"
A "I wanna bang you" does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"
A "Look at your boobs and *kitten*" does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"

In man talk, yes, it does.

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Oh, this I know, so he usually gets a pass with just physically "telling" me, but lady talk and need is usually different. :smooched:

JDBLY11

I'm not married but I hope I never have a wife who I need to remind is sexy. She should know that @#%^ on her own. It needs to come from the mirror, not me.

I don't even know what to say to this horsesh!t.

Reminds me of an old joke, or was it a line in a movie? In response to a wife who asked her husband again to tell her that he loves her he said: "I told you when we got married I love you and I'll let you know if anything changes!"

I have heard that before. I think some people just are not as expressive about their love for somebody. I have some family members like that. My dad is not really expressive about how he feels verbally and sometimes can say things with a negative bent when he is really saying something positive. He shows his love more by working really hard for my mom, providing wonderful things for her and making things stable and secure. He is more of a gift giver and server and I think I am getting more like that because words without action just are not that meaningful. Both are important. I kind of wish my husband was a little more like my dad because even though my husband is great at the nice comments and affection, he is not good at working hard, providing the best, and so on.

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sillygoosie

Lucky wifes! Obviously marriages work out best when sex drive and compliments are equal and balanced for both partners. Any advice on how to "train" my hubby?

I'm not a fella and I don't want to stir anything up, but when was the last time you made a solid effort to do something sexy for your husband? When was the last time you told him he was sexy?

BusyRaeNOTBusty

My husband probably compliments me once or twice a week. I like to pretend he thinks it more often....:grumble:

dbmata

1 When is the last time you thought your wife was sexy?

2 When is the last time you told her?

Today.
Right before she left for work.

She gets more validation than she wants. Apparently, i'm a little handsy. Heh.