Women?? Do you prefer your guys with individual opinions?

Just wondering.

Because it seems like an awful lot of people here (men and women alike) can't decide what they want to look like until they know what everyone else who might be attracted to their gender thinks about it.

I love my body because it's MY body that I worked hard for, not because it's Jessica Biel's body or Gwyneth Paltrow's body or Jennifer Lawrence's body. I love it because it can pick up heavy things and it can sweat and run and punch and survive things it never thought it could have survived. I love it because it is strong and will become even stronger. Because it looks good and will look even better. Because it's a visible manifestation of my will and determination and desire.

But hey men, is that ok with you? I mean, I hope you like that stuff.
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  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    I do prefer men with individual opinions.
    This does, however, make dealing with more than 2-3 boyfriends at once kinda tricky.. Good thing I have a good memory.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    Just wondering.

    Because it seems like an awful lot of people here (men and women alike) can't decide what they want to look like until they know what everyone else who might be attracted to their gender thinks about it.

    I love my body because it's MY body that I worked hard for, not because it's Jessica Biel's body or Gwyneth Paltrow's body or Jennifer Lawrence's body. I love it because it can pick up heavy things and it can sweat and run and punch and survive things it never thought it could have survived. I love it because it is strong and will become even stronger. Because it looks good and will look even better. Because it's a visible manifestation of my will and determination and desire.

    But hey men, is that ok with you? I mean, I hope you like that stuff.

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  • fivethreeone
    fivethreeone Posts: 8,196 Member
    I do prefer men with individual opinions.
    This does, however, make dealing with more than 2-3 boyfriends at once kinda tricky.. Good thing I have a good memory.

    Ehhh... Call them all "babe" and they'll never know the difference.

    That's what I do while I beg them for reassurance that they find me attractive.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member


    Ehhh... Call them all "babe" and they'll never know the difference.

    hey, that is our thing.
  • fivethreeone
    fivethreeone Posts: 8,196 Member
    So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:

    No.

    I proclaim that I sweat.
  • toaster6
    toaster6 Posts: 703 Member
    Oh no. I prefer to date someone with no opinons. Extra points if they have no personality too. Cause you know, that's the funnest thing ever.
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    Nope. My opinion is his opinion. I like my body so he likes it. Individual opinions need not apply.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    I do prefer men with individual opinions.
    This does, however, make dealing with more than 2-3 boyfriends at once kinda tricky.. Good thing I have a good memory.

    Ehhh... Call them all "babe" and they'll never know the difference.

    That's what I do while I beg them for reassurance that they find me attractive.

    Yeah, that's the easy part. Things get complicated when you forget which one of them likes being anally stimulated in bed and which one really hates it. Ooops.
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    The only thing I care about is your sammich making ability...
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:

    No.

    I proclaim that I sweat.

    No!!! I refuse to believe that!

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  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:

    No.

    I proclaim that I sweat.

    No!!! I refuse to believe that!

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  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    The only thing I care about is your sammich making ability...

    I thought we had something special. :grumble:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:

    No.

    I proclaim that I sweat.

    No!!! I refuse to believe that!

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    What is next, women pooping? :huh:
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    yeah and even then, i really only care about 1 or 2 of those.
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    Yes!
  • Ed98043
    Ed98043 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Only if they WANT me to want them to have opinions. If not, then no. Or yes. Whatever men find more attractive.
  • If u don't like who they are then the chemistry will fizzle
  • DopeItUp
    DopeItUp Posts: 18,771 Member
    Didn't read, OP not bulky enough.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    If u don't like who they are then the chemistry will fizzle

    Words of wisdom bro, Imma write that down
  • brraanndi
    brraanndi Posts: 325 Member
    I just married the first super foxy dude I dated wasn't really picky about his opinions LOL
  • rainbowbow
    rainbowbow Posts: 7,490 Member
    Only if they WANT me to want them to have opinions. If not, then no. Or yes. Whatever men find more attractive.

    I agree. Or disagree, whatever men prefer....
  • Stage14
    Stage14 Posts: 1,046 Member
    Oh good grief. It was a fun thread asking for male opinions. I didn't get the idea that anyone in that thread was begging for approval or planning their fitness goals based on the answer, and I read through all of it as of about 90 minutes ago. Unless simething took a major turn since then, getting twisted over a thread like that is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad reputation.

    For the record, my husband generally prefers blondes, curves, and long hair. I know this because I've asked him these types of questions randomly over the years, just for the heck of it. I'm still built like a 4x6, and have dark hair that up until the last few months has been at my earlobe a or shorter. We'll celebrate 10 years together in October. Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    Oh good grief. It was a fun thread asking for male opinions. I didn't get the idea that anyone in that thread was begging for approval or planning their fitness goals based on the answer, and I read through all of it as of about 90 minutes ago. Unless simething took a major turn since then, getting twisted over a thread like that is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad reputation.

    For the record, my husband generally prefers blondes, curves, and long hair. I know this because I've asked him these types of questions randomly over the years, just for the heck of it. I'm still built like a 4x6, and have dark hair that up until the last few months has been at my earlobe a or shorter. We'll celebrate 10 years together in October. Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.

    Party pooper.
  • fivethreeone
    fivethreeone Posts: 8,196 Member
    Oh good grief. It was a fun thread asking for male opinions. I didn't get the idea that anyone in that thread was begging for approval or planning their fitness goals based on the answer, and I read through all of it as of about 90 minutes ago. Unless simething took a major turn since then, getting twisted over a thread like that is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad reputation.

    For the record, my husband generally prefers blondes, curves, and long hair. I know this because I've asked him these types of questions randomly over the years, just for the heck of it. I'm still built like a 4x6, and have dark hair that up until the last few months has been at my earlobe a or shorter. We'll celebrate 10 years together in October. Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.

    lol
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Oh good grief. It was a fun thread asking for male opinions. I didn't get the idea that anyone in that thread was begging for approval or planning their fitness goals based on the answer, and I read through all of it as of about 90 minutes ago. Unless simething took a major turn since then, getting twisted over a thread like that is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad reputation.

    For the record, my husband generally prefers blondes, curves, and long hair. I know this because I've asked him these types of questions randomly over the years, just for the heck of it. I'm still built like a 4x6, and have dark hair that up until the last few months has been at my earlobe a or shorter. We'll celebrate 10 years together in October. Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.

    You seem fun

    do you party?
  • Fayve
    Fayve Posts: 406 Member
    If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.
  • Kotuliak
    Kotuliak Posts: 259 Member
    But hey men, is that ok with you? I mean, I hope you like that stuff.
    Personally, I don't. I prefer my women petite and subservient.

    But, to each their own!
  • Kotuliak
    Kotuliak Posts: 259 Member
    If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.
    For crying out loud, why would you want to marry a loser who will put up with that crap???
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.
    For crying out loud, why would you want to marry a loser who will put up with that crap???

    Why would you marry a subservient women who'd put up with your crap?