Women?? Do you prefer your guys with individual opinions?
fivethreeone
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Just wondering.
Because it seems like an awful lot of people here (men and women alike) can't decide what they want to look like until they know what everyone else who might be attracted to their gender thinks about it.
I love my body because it's MY body that I worked hard for, not because it's Jessica Biel's body or Gwyneth Paltrow's body or Jennifer Lawrence's body. I love it because it can pick up heavy things and it can sweat and run and punch and survive things it never thought it could have survived. I love it because it is strong and will become even stronger. Because it looks good and will look even better. Because it's a visible manifestation of my will and determination and desire.
But hey men, is that ok with you? I mean, I hope you like that stuff.
Because it seems like an awful lot of people here (men and women alike) can't decide what they want to look like until they know what everyone else who might be attracted to their gender thinks about it.
I love my body because it's MY body that I worked hard for, not because it's Jessica Biel's body or Gwyneth Paltrow's body or Jennifer Lawrence's body. I love it because it can pick up heavy things and it can sweat and run and punch and survive things it never thought it could have survived. I love it because it is strong and will become even stronger. Because it looks good and will look even better. Because it's a visible manifestation of my will and determination and desire.
But hey men, is that ok with you? I mean, I hope you like that stuff.
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I do prefer men with individual opinions.
This does, however, make dealing with more than 2-3 boyfriends at once kinda tricky.. Good thing I have a good memory.0 -
Just wondering.
Because it seems like an awful lot of people here (men and women alike) can't decide what they want to look like until they know what everyone else who might be attracted to their gender thinks about it.
I love my body because it's MY body that I worked hard for, not because it's Jessica Biel's body or Gwyneth Paltrow's body or Jennifer Lawrence's body. I love it because it can pick up heavy things and it can sweat and run and punch and survive things it never thought it could have survived. I love it because it is strong and will become even stronger. Because it looks good and will look even better. Because it's a visible manifestation of my will and determination and desire.
But hey men, is that ok with you? I mean, I hope you like that stuff.
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I do prefer men with individual opinions.
This does, however, make dealing with more than 2-3 boyfriends at once kinda tricky.. Good thing I have a good memory.
Ehhh... Call them all "babe" and they'll never know the difference.
That's what I do while I beg them for reassurance that they find me attractive.0 -
So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:0
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Ehhh... Call them all "babe" and they'll never know the difference.
hey, that is our thing.0 -
So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:
No.
I proclaim that I sweat.0 -
Oh no. I prefer to date someone with no opinons. Extra points if they have no personality too. Cause you know, that's the funnest thing ever.0
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Nope. My opinion is his opinion. I like my body so he likes it. Individual opinions need not apply.0
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I do prefer men with individual opinions.
This does, however, make dealing with more than 2-3 boyfriends at once kinda tricky.. Good thing I have a good memory.
Ehhh... Call them all "babe" and they'll never know the difference.
That's what I do while I beg them for reassurance that they find me attractive.
Yeah, that's the easy part. Things get complicated when you forget which one of them likes being anally stimulated in bed and which one really hates it. Ooops.0 -
The only thing I care about is your sammich making ability...0
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So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:
No.
I proclaim that I sweat.
No!!! I refuse to believe that!
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So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:
No.
I proclaim that I sweat.
No!!! I refuse to believe that!
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The only thing I care about is your sammich making ability...
I thought we had something special. :grumble:0 -
So you admit that you sweat? :noway::sick:
No.
I proclaim that I sweat.
No!!! I refuse to believe that!
What is next, women pooping? :huh:0 -
yeah and even then, i really only care about 1 or 2 of those.0
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Yes!0
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Only if they WANT me to want them to have opinions. If not, then no. Or yes. Whatever men find more attractive.0
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If u don't like who they are then the chemistry will fizzle0
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Didn't read, OP not bulky enough.0
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If u don't like who they are then the chemistry will fizzle
Words of wisdom bro, Imma write that down0 -
I just married the first super foxy dude I dated wasn't really picky about his opinions LOL0
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Only if they WANT me to want them to have opinions. If not, then no. Or yes. Whatever men find more attractive.
I agree. Or disagree, whatever men prefer....0 -
Oh good grief. It was a fun thread asking for male opinions. I didn't get the idea that anyone in that thread was begging for approval or planning their fitness goals based on the answer, and I read through all of it as of about 90 minutes ago. Unless simething took a major turn since then, getting twisted over a thread like that is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad reputation.
For the record, my husband generally prefers blondes, curves, and long hair. I know this because I've asked him these types of questions randomly over the years, just for the heck of it. I'm still built like a 4x6, and have dark hair that up until the last few months has been at my earlobe a or shorter. We'll celebrate 10 years together in October. Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.0 -
Oh good grief. It was a fun thread asking for male opinions. I didn't get the idea that anyone in that thread was begging for approval or planning their fitness goals based on the answer, and I read through all of it as of about 90 minutes ago. Unless simething took a major turn since then, getting twisted over a thread like that is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad reputation.
For the record, my husband generally prefers blondes, curves, and long hair. I know this because I've asked him these types of questions randomly over the years, just for the heck of it. I'm still built like a 4x6, and have dark hair that up until the last few months has been at my earlobe a or shorter. We'll celebrate 10 years together in October. Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.
Party pooper.0 -
Oh good grief. It was a fun thread asking for male opinions. I didn't get the idea that anyone in that thread was begging for approval or planning their fitness goals based on the answer, and I read through all of it as of about 90 minutes ago. Unless simething took a major turn since then, getting twisted over a thread like that is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad reputation.
For the record, my husband generally prefers blondes, curves, and long hair. I know this because I've asked him these types of questions randomly over the years, just for the heck of it. I'm still built like a 4x6, and have dark hair that up until the last few months has been at my earlobe a or shorter. We'll celebrate 10 years together in October. Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.
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Oh good grief. It was a fun thread asking for male opinions. I didn't get the idea that anyone in that thread was begging for approval or planning their fitness goals based on the answer, and I read through all of it as of about 90 minutes ago. Unless simething took a major turn since then, getting twisted over a thread like that is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad reputation.
For the record, my husband generally prefers blondes, curves, and long hair. I know this because I've asked him these types of questions randomly over the years, just for the heck of it. I'm still built like a 4x6, and have dark hair that up until the last few months has been at my earlobe a or shorter. We'll celebrate 10 years together in October. Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.
You seem fun
do you party?0 -
If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.0
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But hey men, is that ok with you? I mean, I hope you like that stuff.
But, to each their own!0 -
If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.0
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If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.
Why would you marry a subservient women who'd put up with your crap?0
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