Women?? Do you prefer your guys with individual opinions?

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  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.

    ... like this thread
  • alisonlynn1976
    alisonlynn1976 Posts: 929 Member
    I want, and have always been able to find, partners who are attracted to me as I am. I'm working on weight loss and fitness for me, not for them.
  • steffij100
    steffij100 Posts: 85 Member
    Wait... men have opinions? Who knew.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    yeah but do you want all those partners you have to possess individual opinions.
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.
    For crying out loud, why would you want to marry a loser who will put up with that crap???

    Cause I like a man who knows his place: exactly where I tell him to be.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.
    For crying out loud, why would you want to marry a loser who will put up with that crap???

    Cause I like a man who knows his place: exactly where I tell him to be.

    Jeeeze. All that muscle is making you forget all about how a wife needs to be subservient. Put the dam weights down before you ruin your marriage.
  • JackG100
    JackG100 Posts: 2 Member
    I'm supposed to be having opinions now? Dunno how I feel about that...


    Joking aside, headstrong individuals with thoughts of their own always seem more interesting than mindless drones in my book. Be them women or men. Though those trait could also bring some negativity with them if other social skills are sorely lacking. So it ain't all rainbows and sunshine.
  • MsPudding
    MsPudding Posts: 562 Member
    Do I prefer my guys to have individual opinions? No, generally I prefer them to have a bunch of opinions.
  • runs4zen
    runs4zen Posts: 769 Member
    I just want a man who'll make me a sammich the way I like it and who knows what is expected of him in the bedroom and performs accordingly. Duh!
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    But hey men, is that ok with you? I mean, I hope you like that stuff.

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  • redyfox
    redyfox Posts: 32
    If u don't like who they are then the chemistry will fizzle

    Words of wisdom bro, Imma write that down

    i offer my advice fo free ;D
  • YaGigi
    YaGigi Posts: 817 Member
    If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.
    For crying out loud, why would you want to marry a loser who will put up with that crap???

    Cause I like a man who knows his place: exactly where I tell him to be.

    Jeeeze. All that muscle is making you forget all about how a wife needs to be subservient. Put the dam weights down before you ruin your marriage.

    I think it was a joke. People joke like that here on the MFP.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.
    For crying out loud, why would you want to marry a loser who will put up with that crap???

    Cause I like a man who knows his place: exactly where I tell him to be.

    Jeeeze. All that muscle is making you forget all about how a wife needs to be subservient. Put the dam weights down before you ruin your marriage.

    I think it was a joke. People joke like that here on the MFP.

    Do I look like I have a sense of humor?
  • HelllYeaHH
    HelllYeaHH Posts: 56 Member
    I do prefer men with individual opinions.
    This does, however, make dealing with more than 2-3 boyfriends at once kinda tricky.. Good thing I have a good memory.

    Ehhh... Call them all "babe" and they'll never know the difference.

    That's what I do while I beg them for reassurance that they find me attractive.
    You're attractive.

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  • Sugarbeat
    Sugarbeat Posts: 824 Member
    The only male opinion I care about is attached to the man I married. What everyone else thinks is none of my business. That said, I think you look great. I tell my girls (13) to learn to like themselves and then they can find a man who agrees. If he doesn't agree, move on.
  • Kabiti
    Kabiti Posts: 191 Member
    Nope. My opinion is his opinion. I like my body so he likes it. Individual opinions need not apply.

    I agree with this when it comes to my body. But that's with the prerequisite that a man or woman finds me beautiful in the first place. Any changes I make to that are my business, not theirs. Physical attraction and beauty are not the same thing!
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    If I wanted my husband's opinion, I'd give it to him.
    For crying out loud, why would you want to marry a loser who will put up with that crap???

    Cause I like a man who knows his place: exactly where I tell him to be.

    Jeeeze. All that muscle is making you forget all about how a wife needs to be subservient. Put the dam weights down before you ruin your marriage.

    I think it was a joke. People joke like that here on the MFP.

    I don't joke.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    Just have a pretty face, a nice behind and look for the most part like you value yourself. Smile often. Can you do that OP? Is that too much to ask? Oh, and don't leave the kitchen unless I tell you. I'll have a power rack put in beside the stove. You'll get upper body work from all the sandwiches and bending over to lift things from the stove will work your hamstrings and glutes. I just don't want you to neglect your quads. See I'm nice like that.
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    Didn't read, OP not bulky enough.

    She's too bulky, look at those abs!!!!!
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    Oh good grief. It was a fun thread asking for male opinions. I didn't get the idea that anyone in that thread was begging for approval or planning their fitness goals based on the answer, and I read through all of it as of about 90 minutes ago. Unless simething took a major turn since then, getting twisted over a thread like that is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad reputation.

    For the record, my husband generally prefers blondes, curves, and long hair. I know this because I've asked him these types of questions randomly over the years, just for the heck of it. I'm still built like a 4x6, and have dark hair that up until the last few months has been at my earlobe a or shorter. We'll celebrate 10 years together in October. Sometimes a question is just a question for the fun of it.
    Who are you?
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    Just wondering.

    Because it seems like an awful lot of people here (men and women alike) can't decide what they want to look like until they know what everyone else who might be attracted to their gender thinks about it.

    I love my body because it's MY body that I worked hard for, not because it's Jessica Biel's body or Gwyneth Paltrow's body or Jennifer Lawrence's body. I love it because it can pick up heavy things and it can sweat and run and punch and survive things it never thought it could have survived. I love it because it is strong and will become even stronger. Because it looks good and will look even better. Because it's a visible manifestation of my will and determination and desire.

    But hey men, is that ok with you? I mean, I hope you like that stuff.

    I have always had much respect for you!
    Great post.:flowerforyou:
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    Really!? Haven't we discussed this enough? How many times do I have to tell you to get my permission prior to engaging in independent thought?

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