I like a girl but does she like me?

AbsoluteNG
AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
Just looking for someone to talk too. My love life sucks. I like this girl but I don't believe she likes me as much. Had a date scheduled with her twice and she cancelled on me twice even though she said she wanted to go. I guess it's a hopeless situation. To top it off I believe she might be aggrevated with me for texting her while she was sleeping. It was just a crush. She hates me. Time to move on yeah? I really wanted to ask her if she wanted to go see some Christmas lights but im just kidding myself. :(
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  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    Just move along brother... plenty out there.... gotta trust that
  • Perplexities
    Perplexities Posts: 612 Member
    Just looking for someone to talk too. My love life sucks. I like this girl but I don't believe she likes me as much. Had a date scheduled with her twice and she cancelled on me twice even though she said she wanted to go. I guess it's a hopeless situation. To top it off I believe she might be aggrevated with me for texting her while she was sleeping. It was just a crush. She hates me. Time to move on yeah? I really wanted to ask her if she wanted to go see some Christmas lights but im just kidding myself. :(

    You'll be fine, you sound young.
    Delete her number if you can't control yourself though.
  • usmc01462
    usmc01462 Posts: 1,944 Member
    back to the caveman days club her over the head and drag her in your cave
  • usmc01462
    usmc01462 Posts: 1,944 Member
    but really! Move on buddy.
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
    I like the club idea.
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    delete the number.... good call
  • Perplexities
    Perplexities Posts: 612 Member
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  • 1_Slick_Chick
    1_Slick_Chick Posts: 199 Member
    move on...she's trying to be nice about it!
  • Mitzki5
    Mitzki5 Posts: 482 Member
    Move on......if she is into you, she will miss the attention and come after you.
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
    You guys are right. It just sucks because I thought she liked me when she asked for my phone number and started texting me first. I'm all bummed out now. Horrible night tonight. Just horrible.
  • herblackwings39
    herblackwings39 Posts: 3,930 Member
    Delete her number and let it go. If she's actually interested and had legitimate reasons for cancelling there's nothing to stop her from calling you to rearrange.
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(
  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    Good grief! Your self-talk is really pathetic! Honestly, why don't you just do the best you know to do, and let the results be what they will.
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    nothin wrong with escort love


    u pay for it one way or the other
  • Perplexities
    Perplexities Posts: 612 Member
    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    I found OP's post on another forum..
    Making threads on multiple forums for attention.. not cool OP.
    http://i.imgur.com/56y7Q.png
  • Mitzki5
    Mitzki5 Posts: 482 Member
    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    Man up....with that way of talking, most women will not be interested. You got to have confidence in yourself. Most women like a confident man, not one looking for a pitty party.

    You sound young. If this is your biggest problem in life, your gonna be fine.
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
    Well, I'm not sure what you're expecting to hear from a guy who just got rejected. Joy? Should I be happy? lol. Escorts are a sure thing, doesn't require maintenance, and are a sure thing.
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    nothin wrong with escort love


    u pay for it one way or the other

    So true. I've used them before. Any other guy here want to admit to that besides me?
  • Mitzki5
    Mitzki5 Posts: 482 Member
    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    nothin wrong with escort love


    u pay for it one way or the other

    So true. I've used them before. Any other guy here want to admit to that besides me?

    Not me. Never had to. Have been with the same woman since I was 14 and am 36 now. I was very lucky.
  • ehimass
    ehimass Posts: 92 Member
    Move on my friend. I'm not the most experienced, but women will generally avoid conflict when "breaking up". They do this by ignoring you or saying "it's not you, it's me". I have had it happen to me several times, rejection is just part of being an average man.

    Like someone else said, if she's interested she'll come to you.

    At all costs, you must avoid seeming desperate or over eager in the early (first few months) stages of any relationship. Women are repelled by those qualities. I say this because I have had the same problems as you and have learned (or at least am learning from them). Women don't want you to be too into them at first. You need to make it seem like you don't care too much and that you have plenty of options, even if that's not the case.

    Just my opinion.
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    waters wet, skys blue, lots of girls wont like you

    just part of it all man
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
    Playing the hard to get game. I hate that. What's wrong with being straight forward? I don't get it. I am reminded that I was in love one time before and I was a jerk, so she's gone now. I don't think i'll ever get that feeling again. I can only hope but most likely i'll have to settle.
  • Madame_Goldbricker
    Madame_Goldbricker Posts: 1,625 Member
    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    nothin wrong with escort love


    u pay for it one way or the other

    So true. I've used them before. Any other guy here want to admit to that besides me?

    Dear John...........
  • Girl or no girl, learn to love yourself. Most girls like guys that are confident not clingy!
  • Perplexities
    Perplexities Posts: 612 Member
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  • kimlynn919
    kimlynn919 Posts: 316 Member
    you should probably move on, like the others said


    i know it can be hard, but thats why i don't even try to date someone i like and just wait for someone to come along who likes me instead...
  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
    Girl or no girl, learn to love yourself. Most girls like guys that are confident not clingy!

    Horny is good too oh and rich but that's not as important. Clingy isn't good but they should be chasing you really because that's what the cavemen did and they won't feel like they conquered you if you just put it on a platter first time. Later you can do that all the time though. Works for me.
  • No, find a new one :)
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    You guys are right. It just sucks because I thought she liked me when she asked for my phone number and started texting me first. I'm all bummed out now. Horrible night tonight. Just horrible.

    Maybe she liked you and someone else stole the show. Keep your options open, 'cause she sure did!
  • I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    nothin wrong with escort love


    u pay for it one way or the other

    So all women are *kitten*? Niiiice.