I like a girl but does she like me?

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  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
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    waters wet, skys blue, lots of girls wont like you

    just part of it all man
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
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    Playing the hard to get game. I hate that. What's wrong with being straight forward? I don't get it. I am reminded that I was in love one time before and I was a jerk, so she's gone now. I don't think i'll ever get that feeling again. I can only hope but most likely i'll have to settle.
  • Madame_Goldbricker
    Madame_Goldbricker Posts: 1,625 Member
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    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    nothin wrong with escort love


    u pay for it one way or the other

    So true. I've used them before. Any other guy here want to admit to that besides me?

    Dear John...........
  • ziggiezambi
    ziggiezambi Posts: 253
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    Girl or no girl, learn to love yourself. Most girls like guys that are confident not clingy!
  • Perplexities
    Perplexities Posts: 612 Member
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  • kimlynn919
    kimlynn919 Posts: 316 Member
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    you should probably move on, like the others said


    i know it can be hard, but thats why i don't even try to date someone i like and just wait for someone to come along who likes me instead...
  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
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    Girl or no girl, learn to love yourself. Most girls like guys that are confident not clingy!

    Horny is good too oh and rich but that's not as important. Clingy isn't good but they should be chasing you really because that's what the cavemen did and they won't feel like they conquered you if you just put it on a platter first time. Later you can do that all the time though. Works for me.
  • AngelicxAnnihilation
    AngelicxAnnihilation Posts: 336 Member
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    No, find a new one :)
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
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    You guys are right. It just sucks because I thought she liked me when she asked for my phone number and started texting me first. I'm all bummed out now. Horrible night tonight. Just horrible.

    Maybe she liked you and someone else stole the show. Keep your options open, 'cause she sure did!
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
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    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    nothin wrong with escort love


    u pay for it one way or the other

    So all women are *kitten*? Niiiice.
  • mitchiemo
    mitchiemo Posts: 61 Member
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    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    You sound desperate! Not attractive I'm afraid and, I have to say, if I was "the girl" and I knew about your escort history I'd stay well clear. Get yourself down the gym, get yourself a fit body, quit whinging and the girls will come.
  • Slacker16
    Slacker16 Posts: 1,184 Member
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    Just to be a bit of a contrarian, I think the only person who can tell you if she likes you or not is the girl in question. All we can tell you is that it doesn't look promising.

    If you don't really care, cut your losses and move on. If you do care, text her something along the lines of "I've had enough of your excuses, do you want to go out or not?" If she says anything other than yes, you have your answer... If she says yes, schedule a new date, keep it casual but make it very clear that it's her last chance. If she blows it, you again have your answer...

    When in doubt, go for broke... you probably don't have much to lose anyway.
  • Cre8veLifeR
    Cre8veLifeR Posts: 1,062 Member
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    If you were on the "what does the person smell like" thread, I would say you reek of desperation! Stop stalking her. Girls don't like guys who text more than once, or call more than once and the call hasn't been returned. It's a total turn off. Maybe she was busy? Or SLEEPING? If I woke up and saw more than one text message from some guy, I would ignore him too. She obviously liked you enough to you her number, so stop slobbering all over her and give her some space and a chance to reply.
  • FredSetToGetFit
    FredSetToGetFit Posts: 286 Member
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    Just to be a bit of a contrarian, I think the only person who can tell you if she likes you or not is the girl in question. All we can tell you is that it doesn't look promising.

    If you don't really care, cut your losses and move on. If you do care, text her something along the lines of "I've had enough of your excuses, do you want to go out or not?" If she says anything other than yes, you have your answer... If she says yes, schedule a new date, keep it casual but make it very clear that it's her last chance. If she blows it, you again have your answer...

    When in doubt, go for broke... you probably don't have much to lose anyway.

    You took the words right out of my mouth. I hate these cat and mouse games. If you want to know something, ask her. Most fights come from misunderstanding. I used to make things more complicated than they were, and it got me nowhere. If you play it straight, you will always get an answer, even if it isn't the one you want, but at least you'll know.
  • TX_Rhon
    TX_Rhon Posts: 1,549 Member
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    Girl or no girl, learn to love yourself. Most girls like guys that are confident not clingy!

    True! Confidence = sexy!!

    OP - if a girl doesnt call........she is not into you.
  • pinkledoodledoo
    pinkledoodledoo Posts: 290 Member
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    I knew deep down that it wasn't going to work out anyway. All i'll ever have is fake love from escorts. :(

    Adam?
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
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    We're suppose to go have lunch together on Monday, this was planned after she cancelled on me the second time which was Thursday night but I already deleted her phone number. So I guess if she really still wants to grab lunch, she'll let me know.
  • neandermagnon
    neandermagnon Posts: 7,436 Member
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    Playing the hard to get game. I hate that. What's wrong with being straight forward? I don't get it. I am reminded that I was in love one time before and I was a jerk, so she's gone now. I don't think i'll ever get that feeling again. I can only hope but most likely i'll have to settle.

    most women are not playing hard to get. If they're saying they're not interested, usually it's because they're not interested. Move on. Also, men that keep hanging on after you've let them know you're not interested are creepy. It does sound like you're being creepy, especially with her being angry with you texting her when you're asleep.

    you very likely will fall in love again with someone else, hopefully next time with someone who returns your feelings. But IMO before you think about that, you need to work on your self confidence and self esteem. It seems to me like you're pining over women who are not interested, or thinking you can only get escorts, because you don't see yourself as someone who's loveable and worthy of being loved for who you are. You really and truly need to work on yourself and get over those feelings, and have some genuine self-confidence and to actually like yourself for who you are, before you start looking for relationships. Women will not fix those things in you. Only you can fix those things in you (if you really need help, then try a counsellor) and once you've fixed them, you'll be able to love someone for who they are, and let them love you for who you are.
  • bingefreeaubree
    bingefreeaubree Posts: 220 Member
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    You guys are right. It just sucks because I thought she liked me when she asked for my phone number and started texting me first. I'm all bummed out now. Horrible night tonight. Just horrible.
    If she asked for your number, maybe she did like you a little. Perhaps as you guys texted more and more she realized you just weren't her type or changed her own mind. Girls never really know what they want- trust me. :tongue: I think the best thing to do before deleting her number is just to text her or call her saying something like "I'm not going to wait around for you forever. if you don't want to go on a date with me, let me know now instead of continually putting it off. I won't be offended; I just need to know." For all you know maybe she really has had something come up those two times you had dates scheduled. I've had to cancel on someone twice in a row before, but I actually did still want to figure out a time to go on a date. And the irritability after you texting her while she was sleeping- some girls are just b*tchy about stuff like that. I frankly get annoyed when a guy is too clingy to me when we're just talking, so maybe she just thought you texting her even while she was sleeping was a little much. She very well might not be into you, but all I'm saying is I think you should get everything clarified before you delete her number. You never know.

    ETA: What if she does show up for your lunch date and you're not there? If you did have any chance with her, you'd definitely lose it that way.

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