MEN : What is your ideal body weight or shape on a woman?
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Whatever shape and weight she's confident at.... Confidence is what is sexy...
We'll said, Elka0 -
I started my adventure for me and me alone (my arthritis insisted on coming along for the ride), during this adventure a guy I started dating told me "I've never really been into heavy women". My answer "Your loss coz If I'm not good enough for you after loosing 25kg then in your opinion I'll never be good enough...so piss off"
I'm now 34kg down (so close to my goal) and my adventure has shown me one thing...I was always awesome, now I'm awesome with curves
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My point with this was that if women are happy within, then if there is a significant other on the cards for you, then he'll love you for you. I'm now with a guy who loves me and supports me...even if I have a cheat day :laugh:0 -
Whatever shape and weight she's confident at.... Confidence is what is sexy...
We'll said, Elka
Thanks... I absolutely mean that too... I don't care how pretty you are, a woman's body language says a lot, plus I don't want to be with a woman that is constently saying "do you think I am pretty?" "I feel so fat"... I think you get my point..0 -
Whatever shape and weight she's confident at.... Confidence is what is sexy...
We'll said, Elka
Thanks... I absolutely mean that too... I don't care how pretty you are, a woman's body language says a lot, plus I don't want to be with a woman that is constently saying "do you think I am pretty?" "I feel so fat"... I think you get my point..
you get it!0 -
IDEAL?
But that's pretty much a combination of intense training, great diet, and winning the genetic lottery.
But a good personality + basically attractive will outweigh the best looks in the world pretty quickly. A tummy is no big deal.0 -
IDEAL?
But that's pretty much a combination of intense training, great diet, and winning the genetic lottery.
But a good personality + basically attractive will outweigh the best looks in the world pretty quickly. A tummy is no big deal.
LoL @ "basically attractive"!!0 -
That part stuck out for me, too.IDEAL?
But that's pretty much a combination of intense training, great diet, and winning the genetic lottery.
But a good personality + basically attractive will outweigh the best looks in the world pretty quickly. A tummy is no big deal.
LoL @ "basically attractive"!!0 -
I started my adventure for me and me alone (my arthritis insisted on coming along for the ride), during this adventure a guy I started dating told me "I've never really been into heavy women". My answer "Your loss coz If I'm not good enough for you after loosing 25kg then in your opinion I'll never be good enough...so piss off"
I'm now 34kg down (so close to my goal) and my adventure has shown me one thing...I was always awesome, now I'm awesome with curves
Oops computer glitch:
My point with this was that if women are happy within, then if there is a significant other on the cards for you, then he'll love you for you. I'm now with a guy who loves me and supports me...even if I have a cheat day :laugh:
Absolutely love this response!! More women need that attitude. (Or a very similar one: if I'm not good enough for you where I am right now, you'll never be good enough for me
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He should define what that is exactlyIDEAL?
But that's pretty much a combination of intense training, great diet, and winning the genetic lottery.
But a good personality + basically attractive will outweigh the best looks in the world pretty quickly. A tummy is no big deal.
LoL @ "basically attractive"!!
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That part stuck out for me, too.IDEAL?
But that's pretty much a combination of intense training, great diet, and winning the genetic lottery.
But a good personality + basically attractive will outweigh the best looks in the world pretty quickly. A tummy is no big deal.
LoL @ "basically attractive"!!
Well, yes, but verbage aside I do like his point.
Amy Pond once said "You know how you meet someone and they are really beautiful, but after 5 minutes you realize they are as dull as a rock. But then there's someone and you're thinking 'okay, not bad,' and then you get to know them and the more time you spend with them, the more beautiful they become." Or something like that.0 -
He should define what that is exactlyIDEAL?
But that's pretty much a combination of intense training, great diet, and winning the genetic lottery.
But a good personality + basically attractive will outweigh the best looks in the world pretty quickly. A tummy is no big deal.
LoL @ "basically attractive"!!
Hmm... I'm going to say a traditional "5". Your average, non-model woman. I don't think I can cite an example because Hollywood doesn't seem to have anything under a 7, lol.0 -
The topic was shape not cognitive bias, affective forecasting, emotional intelligence, or any other cerebral content. With that said a woman with the body of the one up top without a well stratified character, rigorous conversational aptitude, humility, charm, loyalty, and an anguished litany of other qualities would hardly be "ideal" for me.....tchau'!0
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i'm built like a 12yo boy and i rate anywhere from 4-8 depending upon rater. what does that tell you??0
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IDEAL?
But that's pretty much a combination of intense training, great diet, and winning the genetic lottery.
But a good personality + basically attractive will outweigh the best looks in the world pretty quickly. A tummy is no big deal.0 -
I can totally put my hair up in a pony tail like that chic! Sweet! We're practically twins!0
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The answer is yes.
You sound like my boyfriend......except it is normally said like this "I believe the correct answer is yes." haha:laugh:0 -
That's so cute. I have to admit my eldest sister is similar her first child Olivia the weight was lost within 3 months after and I have a nephew on the way. I'll see how this comes off, but it looks like her excess weight right now is actually the baby. After much discussion the boys name will be Alexander, but it could change suddenly when the parents meet him when he's born.0
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That's so cute. I have to admit my eldest sister is similar her first child Olivia the weight was lost within 3 months after and I have a nephew on the way. I'll see how this comes off, but it looks like her excess weight right now is actually the baby. After much discussion the boys name will be Alexander, but it could change suddenly when the parents meet him when he's born.
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I've always wondered about random height questions. I don't get the question easily. 5ft 7 exactly/170cm...I hope this all comes back to "How tall are you" PM Weirdness.0 -
You know Daddy issues can cause women to be constantly suspicious of men and/or avoid them altogether right? The only constant is stressed and fidgety.... and that isn't exclusive to those women.I'll settle for nothing less than a super hot model loaded with so many daddy issues and subconscious needs for approval that she'll do almost anything to please me.
oh yeah... daddy issues. that goes without saying. nudge nudge. wink wink. say no more.
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He should define what that is exactlyIDEAL?
But that's pretty much a combination of intense training, great diet, and winning the genetic lottery.
But a good personality + basically attractive will outweigh the best looks in the world pretty quickly. A tummy is no big deal.
LoL @ "basically attractive"!!
Hmm... I'm going to say a traditional "5". Your average, non-model woman. I don't think I can cite an example because Hollywood doesn't seem to have anything under a 7, lol.
WHOA! wait, so you can't be over a "5" unless you're a model basically?? Hell I've been told I'm an 8 just on face and boobs alone!0 -
ideal body weight: That "sweet spot" in anorexia where you're thin but not so thing that if I touch you, you break
idea shape: when you wear that really short dress, I could tell exactly how many dances your dad missed.
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I'm confused why so many women are concerned about what MEN want in a body shape/size/etc. Get to a point where you are confident, and the right guy will think you're perfect as you are. Jeezus.
American culture and media is heavily geared to the idea that a woman's worth stems from her ability to attract and keep a male mate.
I wonder if that is why girls do better in all girls schools. Because they are competing against each-other. Most of them have boyfriends because you don't have to find them in school.0 -
He should define what that is exactlyIDEAL?
But that's pretty much a combination of intense training, great diet, and winning the genetic lottery.
But a good personality + basically attractive will outweigh the best looks in the world pretty quickly. A tummy is no big deal.
LoL @ "basically attractive"!!
Hmm... I'm going to say a traditional "5". Your average, non-model woman. I don't think I can cite an example because Hollywood doesn't seem to have anything under a 7, lol.
WHOA! wait, so you can't be over a "5" unless you're a model basically?? Hell I've been told I'm an 8 just on face and boobs alone!
I'm totally okay with being a "5" or "basically" attractive but being valued and loved for my personality. Looks fade. Some one is always going to be prettier, pregnancy makes you fat etc. My awesomeness will be here forever.0 -
Women that feel great to the touch and make them smile... in two ways. I'm not a man so I only really have assumption and my boyfriends reference... But am I right? I think I am.0
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Women that feel great to the touch and make them smile... in two ways. I'm not a man so I only really have assumption and my boyfriends reference... But am I right? I think I am.It's funny how all men like exactly the same thing.
And what is that?
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God people have no balls here and refuse to answer the question. It was asked, I will answer.
Overwhelmingly men prefer hourglass shaped women.
If you have a body shape other than that its not like you can change your shape other than being the fittest you that you wish to/want to/care to be.
Every guy likes different things.
As far as "flat stomach" some definition is incredibly sexy...but a 6 pack? I prefer a soft woman, not a hard one.
Plus I wouldnt want to live with someone who spends hours a day working out and obsesses over everything she eats. That is unattractive.
But I already have a woman so my opinion is basically irrelevant.
Be the best you you can be. Its like guys who worry about their height or penis size. Guess what..ya cant change those things. If you spend your life worrying about things you cant change...that is a very unattractive personality.
Women..you know what looks good. You know when you feel good.
You don't need a man to tell you that.
Lucky for me and my partner I have hourglass then... I'm still on here to lose weight though...0 -
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Honest answer is there is no answer.
There is so much involved in what a guy can be attracted to in a lady and at a glance it can appear to be opposites.
One time it may be a person that is petite and another time she is full figured.
Maybe it was the petite ones smile and shyness and maybe it was the full figured ones eyes and laugh or vice versa.
Every man is going to have their own body shape definition of attractive just the same as ladies do. 0 -
I love how that specific 2 piece is flattering on all shapes o.o
All of the above!0 -
this gif alone deserves its own thread0
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