Love bigger women

TheSlorax

First off if you're a bigger woman and you're trying to lose weight that is great for you. I applaud you and I hope you meet your goals. But speaking for me I think a lot of you are missing the boat and are misguided about what a sexy woman is. I know this is my own personal prefrence I just felt like saying it aloud.

People want fat acceptance on a fitness forum now.

I feel sorry for anyone that didn't realize the OP is trolling for contact with potentially insecure overweight women who would mistake his cringy socially awkward thread as anything other than that.

I don't intend to come off as Malicious, but to protect the sheep you have to be a Wolf.
Nomsayn?

I know full well what the OP was an attempt to do but it doesn't change the fact that I think most of your comments were pretty ridiculous. I'm not offended by, well, anything really, and even I was mildly irritated at what you were saying. that's cool though, if you wanna be a white knight go ahead but honestly... you're doin it wrong.

BrotherBill913

How come no one has posted a cute picture of Melissa McCarthy yet????? Luvvv her laugh

AprilMae1975

Interesting thread.....

Everyone has a "type" Some like big, some like small and some like in between. What I don't like is when people put down others because they think they are the only sexy "type" out there. Like the whole "You wouldn't want a steak that was all bones and no meat, why would you want a woman who was" or "To all the girls who want to be a size 0, remember men go for curves bones are for dogs"
I have never been a size 0, I have always been curvy or big (whatever you call it.) My daughter is a size 0 (she's 19) I don't like the fact that because she doesn't have "curves" that she is being referred to as a bone for a dog. This is so wrong.

No one is better than the other. We are all beautiful and there will always be someone who is attracted to us and many who are not.

Broderick50

Wow is all I can say. All I wanted to do was express my OPINION that I like bigger women and that in my OPINION SOME Women are confused with what sexy is. Some people not all just believe you have to be tiny to be sexy which is totally wrong. I'm not fishing for girls I haven't contacted anyone on this thread after they made a comment. In the future I'll keep my opinions to myself.

rml_16

Wow is all I can say. All I wanted to do was express my OPINION that I like bigger women and that in my OPINION SOME Women are confused with what sexy is. Some people not all just believe you have to be tiny to be sexy which is totally wrong. I'm not fishing for girls I haven't contacted anyone on this thread after they made a comment. In the future I'll keep my opinions to myself.

But they'renot confused about what sexy is. They know what is sexy to them and the men they attract.

It may not be sexy IN YOUR OPINION, but yours is only one opinion. It's sexy to someone.

Broderick50

Wow is all I can say. All I wanted to do was express my OPINION that I like bigger women and that in my OPINION SOME Women are confused with what sexy is. Some people not all just believe you have to be tiny to be sexy which is totally wrong. I'm not fishing for girls I haven't contacted anyone on this thread after they made a comment. In the future I'll keep my opinions to myself.

But they'renot confused about what sexy is. They know what is sexy to them and the men they attract.

It may not be sexy IN YOUR OPINION, but yours is only one opinion. It's sexy to someone.

You know what I'll agree to that. My bad I don't mind those type of comments but some of it got ridiculus.

rml_16

Wow is all I can say. All I wanted to do was express my OPINION that I like bigger women and that in my OPINION SOME Women are confused with what sexy is. Some people not all just believe you have to be tiny to be sexy which is totally wrong. I'm not fishing for girls I haven't contacted anyone on this thread after they made a comment. In the future I'll keep my opinions to myself.

But they'renot confused about what sexy is. They know what is sexy to them and the men they attract.

It may not be sexy IN YOUR OPINION, but yours is only one opinion. It's sexy to someone.

You know what I'll agree to that. My bad I don't mind those type of comments but some of it got ridiculus.

Maybe think about what you're saying before posting next time. :-)

Escape_Artist

sure they call em teddy bears though and many a women like it when the teddy bear bites

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:blushing: :blushing:

xLaPetiteFille

Most of you are really immature and giving this guy a hard time. OP, you rock your preferences! Don't let others dictate what you prefer, they're just trolls out to pick a fight (: You all know what he meant, he was stating that big is beautiful (to him) then why're you all getting so aggressive?

rml_16

Most of you are really immature and giving this guy a hard time. OP, you rock your preferences! Don't let others dictate what you prefer, they're just trolls out to pick a fight (: You all know what he meant, he was stating that big is beautiful (to him) then why're you all getting so aggressive?

Because he said this:

I think a lot of you are missing the boat and are misguided about what a sexy woman is.

Broderick50

Most of you are really immature and giving this guy a hard time. OP, you rock your preferences! Don't let others dictate what you prefer, they're just trolls out to pick a fight (: You all know what he meant, he was stating that big is beautiful (to him) then why're you all getting so aggressive?

I guess it just comes with the territory.

ldrosophila

Wow is all I can say. All I wanted to do was express my OPINION that I like bigger women and that in my OPINION SOME Women are confused with what sexy is. Some people not all just believe you have to be tiny to be sexy which is totally wrong. I'm not fishing for girls I haven't contacted anyone on this thread after they made a comment. In the future I'll keep my opinions to myself.

I knew what you were saying would have been no different than if you posted love burnettes or girls in yoga pants. You never know who your words can influence, and there may have been a bigger girl who say your words and just really lifted her to know that she isnt some second class ugly creature. You might have encouraged that girl to take better care of herself.

I saw your intention and felt it was good.

Broderick50

Wow is all I can say. All I wanted to do was express my OPINION that I like bigger women and that in my OPINION SOME Women are confused with what sexy is. Some people not all just believe you have to be tiny to be sexy which is totally wrong. I'm not fishing for girls I haven't contacted anyone on this thread after they made a comment. In the future I'll keep my opinions to myself.

But they'renot confused about what sexy is. They know what is sexy to them and the men they attract.

It may not be sexy IN YOUR OPINION, but yours is only one opinion. It's sexy to someone.

You know what I'll agree to that. My bad I don't mind those type of comments but some of it got ridiculus.

Maybe think about what you're saying before posting next time. :-)

No next time I'll just keep my opinions to myself. Thanks for the advice though.

Myhaloslipped

I see what you did there. I must admit that this isn't the worst attempt I have seen at picking up women on a fitness site who are trying to lose weight. :drinker: :laugh:

rml_16

Wow is all I can say. All I wanted to do was express my OPINION that I like bigger women and that in my OPINION SOME Women are confused with what sexy is. Some people not all just believe you have to be tiny to be sexy which is totally wrong. I'm not fishing for girls I haven't contacted anyone on this thread after they made a comment. In the future I'll keep my opinions to myself.

But they'renot confused about what sexy is. They know what is sexy to them and the men they attract.

It may not be sexy IN YOUR OPINION, but yours is only one opinion. It's sexy to someone.

You know what I'll agree to that. My bad I don't mind those type of comments but some of it got ridiculus.

Maybe think about what you're saying before posting next time. :-)

No next time I'll just keep my opinions to myself. Thanks for the advice though.

If you had said something like:

I know Hollywood an the beauty industry promote skinny women as sexy, but I think bigger women are very sexy. Just wanted you all to know there are men out there who love you just as you are.

no one would have had a problem with your opinion.

But when you follow it with:

The rest of you think you're sexy, but you're not.

people have a problem with your opinion.

TheGirlsATimeBomb

my only problem with this is that saying "i love big women" is the same as saying "i love small women". you could just love women and not judge someone based on their size...

Broderick50

I see what you did there. I must admit that this isn't the worst attempt I have seen at picking up women on a fitness site who are trying to lose weight. :drinker: :laugh:

Sorry hun I don't do the internet love thing. Not trying to pick up anyone.

dreamer4

I have to put a plug in here. I have been told before I am very attractive, but I know I am obviously unhealthy over weight. I wonder if guys who like "bigger" ladies actually like them because they make them feel small? Or do they like us because we make them feel some how comforted and secure? Do guys feel that they don't have to worry about the someone snagging their lady if she is "bigger"? Is it a security issue with the guys? I work in healthcare and I have had several female patient's who end up with a divorce after loosing weight because they find out their husband has major security issues and became very possessive once they lost weight. I would love to hear what some of the guys think that like "bigger" ladies. I have to say too that I think what most guys like at any size is a lady with confidence...

dreamer4

Now that is one I didn't even think about. lmao....

ckhardeman

The problem is , if the woman is not happy with what they see in the mirror its hard to accept what you are saying. I have to be happy for me & no one else. But that's awesome that you love it because there are some many that do not.

Broderick50

I have to put a plug in here. I have been told before I am very attractive, but I know I am obviously unhealthy over weight. I wonder if guys who like "bigger" ladies actually like them because they make them feel small? Or do they like us because we make them feel some how comforted and secure? Do guys feel that they don't have to worry about the someone snagging their lady if she is "bigger"? Is it a security issue with the guys? I work in healthcare and I have had several female patient's who end up with a divorce after loosing weight because they find out their husband has major security issues and became very possessive once they lost weight. I would love to hear what some of the guys think that like "bigger" ladies.

Honestly for me I just like the curves of a bigger woman. Like I said earlier maybe it's cause all the women in my family are big. I've dated smaller and not untill I started dating bigger women did I realize my feelings. That's just me.

xLaPetiteFille

Most of you are really immature and giving this guy a hard time. OP, you rock your preferences! Don't let others dictate what you prefer, they're just trolls out to pick a fight (: You all know what he meant, he was stating that big is beautiful (to him) then why're you all getting so aggressive?

Because he said this:

I think a lot of you are missing the boat and are misguided about what a sexy woman is.

Well, you all keep getting so defensive, his original post was really beautiful, he was expressing his opinions, but you folks kept digging for more, just to try and get him to twist his words perhaps, give him a break, don't leech onto someone because they couldn't form an argument well, or worded something wrong, God forbid, he may have made a mistake or English wasn't his first language?

Good God folks, grow up. Give him a break.

heylookitsval

my only problem with this is that saying "i love big women" is the same as saying "i love small women". you could just love women and not judge someone based on their size...

Everybody has a type...he's not trying to make all the women of the world feel good.

the_oncomingstorm

I just like women

TheGirlsATimeBomb

my only problem with this is that saying "i love big women" is the same as saying "i love small women". you could just love women and not judge someone based on their size...

Everybody has a type...he's not trying to make all the women of the world feel good.

oh. i guess my type is has a penis.
or sometimes a vagina.
whatever.
i like people. i've dated older, younger, taller, shorter, bigger, smaller. idk. i find personality attractive as hell.

rml_16

Most of you are really immature and giving this guy a hard time. OP, you rock your preferences! Don't let others dictate what you prefer, they're just trolls out to pick a fight (: You all know what he meant, he was stating that big is beautiful (to him) then why're you all getting so aggressive?

Because he said this:

I think a lot of you are missing the boat and are misguided about what a sexy woman is.

Well, you all keep getting so defensive, his original post was really beautiful, he was expressing his opinions, but you folks kept digging for more, just to try and get him to twist his words perhaps, give him a break, don't leech onto someone because they couldn't form an argument well, or worded something wrong, God forbid, he may have made a mistake or English wasn't his first language?

Good God folks, grow up. Give him a break.

What I quoted is directly from the original first post. No word twisting.

It wasn't beautiful.

A. It assumes anyone is losing weight for another person.
B. It assumes we all want to please him.
C. It was condescending and rude.

Like I stated before. I don't care if he thinks I'm sexy when I'm thin. I care if *I* think I'm sexy when I'm thin. Why is my idea of what's sexy about myself "wrong," as his post stated?

heylookitsval

my only problem with this is that saying "i love big women" is the same as saying "i love small women". you could just love women and not judge someone based on their size...

Everybody has a type...he's not trying to make all the women of the world feel good.

oh. i guess my type is has a penis.
or sometimes a vagina.
whatever.
i like people. i've dated older, younger, taller, shorter, bigger, smaller. idk. i find personality attractive as hell.

My type is: has a penis and a pulse. :drinker:

OllyReeves

this type of thread makes my brain hurt. What does he want, a medal? Who cares what he likes or doesn't like. He's obviously just compiling a list of his own favourite flavour to hit up at his leisure.

How can people be offended? Yes his phraseology wasn't great, and yes he generalised and asserted, but frankly, who cares?

Cheechos

From what little I've read there's apparently a kerfuffle about how you worded your post, OP, but I just wanted to say that it's always nice to see people appreciate plus sized ladies. [:

SkinnyFatAlbert

Bigger than what? Isn't that relative? I like women that are bigger than Labradoodles but smaller than rhinos.