Love bigger women

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  • TheGirlsATimeBomb
    TheGirlsATimeBomb Posts: 434 Member
    Bigger than what? Isn't that relative? I like women that are bigger than Labradoodles but smaller than rhinos.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • jessicapk
    jessicapk Posts: 574 Member
    Oh well thank you. I didnt figure out what a damn sexy beast I was until I was 29, and then I learned it from some very generous men. It was a lot of fun.

    Still will see my goal one day but the She-Wolf will be the same.

    ^^^
    This!

    A lot of guys like bigger women and there's nothing wrong with that! I've always been larger and I don't think I'm ever going to aim to be skinny. I like my body, even at its worst. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend feels the same way. I don't think I'd ever be comfortable if I were skinny, like I lost a large part of my identity. But it's my health the concerns me. I want to live a long time and be happy, which means enjoying the active things I love, outdoors and indoors (on and between the sheets, too!) And, yes, the she-wolf in me will always be the same no matter how large or small I am ;)
  • SweetLilyR
    SweetLilyR Posts: 283 Member
    OP, glad you know what you like but as most of the world has figured out, people like what they like. I like larger men but I like smaller women. Some large women like small men and some very large men like small women.

    And not all fit people are only attracted to fit people.

    To each their own.
    that's the problem - A LOT of larger women HAVEN'T figured out that there are people out there that love their size. I'm 34 and in the last year, I've finally realized that some men find my size to be incredibly sexy. And because of this realization, I'm starting to become more comfortable with myself and more self-confident. I only wish I could have come to this understanding back when I was in high school, when I was praying to get mono so I could drop weight, working out after school for three hours every night - and looking back, I was skin and bones! I'm finally accepting my body as it is, working to make it healthier, and realizing that I'm sexy, even at my size.

    I've always been attracted to lean, runner types with strong jawlines and yummy v-lines...but I've also grown to love heavier men who make me feel small and safe and protected in their arms. Tastes and preferences change over the years as you grow and experience life. The point is, no matter what size you are, there are people out there that find you sexy. Coming down on someone for just simply stating what he likes is ridiculous.
  • TheGirlsATimeBomb
    TheGirlsATimeBomb Posts: 434 Member
    I'm 34 and in the last year, I've finally realized that some men find my size to be incredibly sexy. And because of this realization, I'm starting to become more comfortable with myself and more self-confident.

    you should feel sexy because YOU ARE SEXY. don't let men being attracted to/not being attracted to you define how you feel about yourself!
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    Why didn't you say something sooner??? :cry:

    iknowrite?!!!!
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    Bigger than what? Isn't that relative? I like women that are bigger than Labradoodles but smaller than rhinos.
    :blushing: :laugh:
  • SweetLilyR
    SweetLilyR Posts: 283 Member
    First off if you're a bigger woman and you're trying to lose weight that is great for you. I applaud you and I hope you meet your goals. But speaking for me I think a lot of you are missing the boat and are misguided about what a sexy woman is. I know this is my own personal prefrence I just felt like saying it aloud.


    I don't intend to come off as Malicious, but to protect the sheep you have to be a Wolf.
    Nomsayn?


    Thanks, but I can be my own damn wolf...Nomsayn?
  • SweetLilyR
    SweetLilyR Posts: 283 Member
    I'm 34 and in the last year, I've finally realized that some men find my size to be incredibly sexy. And because of this realization, I'm starting to become more comfortable with myself and more self-confident.

    you should feel sexy because YOU ARE SEXY. don't let men being attracted to/not being attracted to you define how you feel about yourself!
    I'm not saying that was the only reason I feel better about myself, but it was the catalyst I needed to make that change in my thought process. Now that I've started changing how I think about myself, I don't need outside approval and attraction to know how lovely I am.
  • TheGirlsATimeBomb
    TheGirlsATimeBomb Posts: 434 Member
    I'm 34 and in the last year, I've finally realized that some men find my size to be incredibly sexy. And because of this realization, I'm starting to become more comfortable with myself and more self-confident.

    you should feel sexy because YOU ARE SEXY. don't let men being attracted to/not being attracted to you define how you feel about yourself!
    I'm not saying that was the only reason I feel better about myself, but it was the catalyst I needed to make that change in my thought process. Now that I've started changing how I think about myself, I don't need outside approval and attraction to know how lovely I am.

    you go girl :flowerforyou:
  • CheeksBryant
    CheeksBryant Posts: 193 Member
    Wow is all I can say. All I wanted to do was express my OPINION that I like bigger women and that in my OPINION SOME Women are confused with what sexy is. Some people not all just believe you have to be tiny to be sexy which is totally wrong. I'm not fishing for girls I haven't contacted anyone on this thread after they made a comment. In the future I'll keep my opinions to myself.
    But they'renot confused about what sexy is. They know what is sexy to them and the men they attract.

    It may not be sexy IN YOUR OPINION, but yours is only one opinion. It's sexy to someone.

    You know what I'll agree to that. My bad I don't mind those type of comments but some of it got ridiculus.
    Maybe think about what you're saying before posting next time. :-)

    No next time I'll just keep my opinions to myself. Thanks for the advice though.

    dude it's an open forum post what you like! Hey, whatever you like is great and I don't judge it. I think it's great that you aren't scared to admit you think someone that is usually not considered sexy by society, as sexy. My hubby likes "thick" women with a smaller waist and big ole butt.....thus why he's with me! I like big tall guys, that seem really hard on the exterior and are actually the type that treat you like a queen, and a large eh nevermind.....oh and his tats are pretty freaking sexy too...thus why I'm with him. We all have different things that spark that good stuff for us! I've always felt sexy even at my largest, but am losing for my lifespan and quality of life. Hope you find you some good sexy thick chick!
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    I'm 34 and in the last year, I've finally realized that some men find my size to be incredibly sexy. And because of this realization, I'm starting to become more comfortable with myself and more self-confident.

    you should feel sexy because YOU ARE SEXY. don't let men being attracted to/not being attracted to you define how you feel about yourself!
    I'm not saying that was the only reason I feel better about myself, but it was the catalyst I needed to make that change in my thought process. Now that I've started changing how I think about myself, I don't need outside approval and attraction to know how lovely I am.

    I think its beautiful when we as women (all sizes and shapes) finally come into our own and realize the innate power in our femininity. Such a wonderful feeling...30's are great!
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    First off if you're a bigger woman and you're trying to lose weight that is great for you. I applaud you and I hope you meet your goals. But speaking for me I think a lot of you are missing the boat and are misguided about what a sexy woman is. I know this is my own personal prefrence I just felt like saying it aloud.

    People want fat acceptance on a fitness forum now.

    I feel sorry for anyone that didn't realize the OP is trolling for contact with potentially insecure overweight women who would mistake his cringy socially awkward thread as anything other than that.

    I don't intend to come off as Malicious, but to protect the sheep you have to be a Wolf.
    Nomsayn?


    tumblr_m69fyoKKgi1qed912o1_500_large_zps0761ebb8.gif

    Agreed. "Cringy socially awkward" is a good description. :wink:
  • OMGSugarOHNOS
    OMGSugarOHNOS Posts: 204 Member
    I think women, including myself, look better with a bit of weight on them. That's one reason I don't want to be smaller than a size 16. Personal preference. That's just about the size I am now, and I'm no longer really interested in losing weight.

    However, "sexy" is, in my opinion, most defined by confidence. If a woman is comfortable with her body, she'll be more confident, and more sexy. Whatever her size might be.
    Not trying to knock you and look how great you've done with your weight loss but size 16 shouldn't be an ending goal. That is still very overweight and you are still at higher risk for compications that come with being obese.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    my only problem with this is that saying "i love big women" is the same as saying "i love small women". you could just love women and not judge someone based on their size...

    Everybody has a type...he's not trying to make all the women of the world feel good.

    oh. i guess my type is has a penis.
    or sometimes a vagina.
    whatever.
    i like people. i've dated older, younger, taller, shorter, bigger, smaller. idk. i find personality attractive as hell.

    ^this exactly. :flowerforyou:
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    Oh well thank you. I didnt figure out what a damn sexy beast I was until I was 29, and then I learned it from some very generous men. It was a lot of fun.

    Still will see my goal one day but the She-Wolf will be the same.

    ^^^
    This!

    A lot of guys like bigger women and there's nothing wrong with that! I've always been larger and I don't think I'm ever going to aim to be skinny. I like my body, even at its worst. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend feels the same way. I don't think I'd ever be comfortable if I were skinny, like I lost a large part of my identity. But it's my health the concerns me. I want to live a long time and be happy, which means enjoying the active things I love, outdoors and indoors (on and between the sheets, too!) And, yes, the she-wolf in me will always be the same no matter how large or small I am ;)

    yes, this!!
  • TX_Rhon
    TX_Rhon Posts: 1,549 Member
    I'm just in because I have a civic meeting I need to attend and let's be honest, I do not want to miss the end of this!! :happy:
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    I think women, including myself, look better with a bit of weight on them. That's one reason I don't want to be smaller than a size 16. Personal preference. That's just about the size I am now, and I'm no longer really interested in losing weight.

    However, "sexy" is, in my opinion, most defined by confidence. If a woman is comfortable with her body, she'll be more confident, and more sexy. Whatever her size might be.
    Not trying to knock you and look how great you've done with your weight loss but size 16 shouldn't be an ending goal. That is still very overweight and you are still at higher risk for compications that come with being obese.

    Actually I think a lot of doctors would beg to differ. Especially if this person is active, healthy, relatively tall/large.

    Regardless, size 16 is a heck of a lot better than being a size 26...while my own end goal is lower than that size wise I don't think it's unworthy and I don't think it's up to you, or me, or anyone to decide others' ending goals...just sayin
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    my only problem with this is that saying "i love big women" is the same as saying "i love small women". you could just love women and not judge someone based on their size...

    Everybody has a type...he's not trying to make all the women of the world feel good.

    oh. i guess my type is has a penis.
    or sometimes a vagina.
    whatever.
    i like people. i've dated older, younger, taller, shorter, bigger, smaller. idk. i find personality attractive as hell.

    My type is: has a penis and a pulse. :drinker:

    In!
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  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    Seriously?

    Get your pathetic poverty running shoe avi, and In .gif the **** out of my thread, Waffle.

    crybaby.jpg
  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    Seriously?

    Get your pathetic poverty running shoe avi, and In .gif the **** out of my thread, Waffle.

    Okay...

    ...now *I'm* in...

    ...and here's a relevant gif:

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  • kyleekay10
    kyleekay10 Posts: 1,812 Member
    Lol. Were you socially awkward neckbeards waiting in the shadows, for the perfect opportunity to post your .jpg images and .gif files?

    1. I wasn't even serious, but thanks for making it clear that, that went over your head.
    2. You didn't even post anything relevant to the content of my post. (Mostly at you, Flamingo on Fatcept Avi)
    3. Lift a damn weight.

    1) While I will admit to having a neck, there is no beard on said neck.

    2) Since you are not OP I don't see why you care who posts what.

    3) *A* weight? I plan on lifting several in about 45 minutes. Doyouevenliftbro?

    ETA: Nope I did not know this was your thread. I thought it was Broderick50's.
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    Lol. Were you socially awkward neckbeards waiting in the shadows, for the perfect opportunity to post your .jpg images and .gif files?

    1. I wasn't even serious, but thanks for making it clear that, that went over your head.
    2. You didn't even post anything relevant to the content of my post. (Mostly at you, Flamingo on Fatcept Avi)
    3. Lift a damn weight.

    Being weak must suck.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    my only problem with this is that saying "i love big women" is the same as saying "i love small women". you could just love women and not judge someone based on their size...

    Everybody has a type...he's not trying to make all the women of the world feel good.

    oh. i guess my type is has a penis.
    or sometimes a vagina.
    whatever.
    i like people. i've dated older, younger, taller, shorter, bigger, smaller. idk. i find personality attractive as hell.

    My type is: has a penis and a pulse. :drinker:

    In!
    tumblr_mbwfo9xjCU1qgqj2zo1_400.gif

    Seriously?

    Get your pathetic poverty running shoe avi, and In .gif the **** out of my thread, Waffle.

    He was just kidding.
  • fivethreeone
    fivethreeone Posts: 8,196 Member
    my only problem with this is that saying "i love big women" is the same as saying "i love small women". you could just love women and not judge someone based on their size...

    Everybody has a type...he's not trying to make all the women of the world feel good.

    oh. i guess my type is has a penis.
    or sometimes a vagina.
    whatever.
    i like people. i've dated older, younger, taller, shorter, bigger, smaller. idk. i find personality attractive as hell.

    My type is: has a penis and a pulse. :drinker:

    In!
    tumblr_mbwfo9xjCU1qgqj2zo1_400.gif

    Seriously?

    Get your pathetic poverty running shoe avi, and In .gif the **** out of my thread, Waffle.

    :laugh:

    Clearly a guilt reaction.
  • kyleekay10
    kyleekay10 Posts: 1,812 Member
    Lol. Were you socially awkward neckbeards waiting in the shadows, for the perfect opportunity to post your .jpg images and .gif files?

    1. I wasn't even serious, but thanks for making it clear that, that went over your head.
    2. You didn't even post anything relevant to the content of my post. (Mostly at you, Flamingo on Fatcept Avi)
    3. Lift a damn weight.

    1) While I will admit to having a neck, there is no beard on said neck.

    2) Since you are not OP I don't see why you care who posts what.

    3) *A* weight? I plan on lifting several in about 45 minutes. Doyouevenliftbro?

    Read the first thing I wrote again, clearly that doesn't apply to you, which you even partially acknowledged.

    You're a Mensa Member, aren't you?

    It was my attempt at humor. Granted, I know I'm not stand-up comedian material, but taking a jab at my intelligence because you didn't understand my joke?

    You must be fun at parties.
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    FAT BOTTOMED GIRLS
    GET ON YOUR BIKE AND RIDE.
  • parys1
    parys1 Posts: 2,072 Member
    FAT BOTTOMED GIRLS
    GET ON YOUR BIKE AND RIDE.

    I can't. I'm too busy making the rockin' world go 'round.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    FAT BOTTOMED GIRLS
    GET ON YOUR BIKE AND RIDE.

    I can't. I'm too busy making the rockin' world go 'round.

    Yeah and it goes all the way to 11
  • tiggerhammon
    tiggerhammon Posts: 2,211 Member
    I like a man with a big...



    brain.
    On the end of a baby's arm

    I'm not gonna lie, it took me a good three minutes to get that.

    I still dont get it
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
    So. I'm curious, OP. Have any added you since this thread started?