The best dog breed for a child?

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  • AlissaFL
    AlissaFL Posts: 80 Member
    Lots of great suggestions on here, but I have to agree with the posts about the individual dog, especially coming for a shelter. You really have to get a dog that is obedient and tolerant of multiple family members. Your friend should be choosy and take her time. Good luck!
  • thereallucylastix
    thereallucylastix Posts: 20 Member
    I have a labradoodle that I adore. He is great with children and hypoallergenic too! The sweetest most gentle temperament ever!

    This ^^

    Labador/Retriever/Labradoodle - so gentle and loving

    Best temperaments ever and seriously intelligent dogs
  • pamperedhen
    pamperedhen Posts: 446 Member
    Please make sure she takes the other dog to meet with the rescue. Just in case there is a "feud". Also the "weiner dog" could get aggressive and territorial of his/her space. Best wishes!:flowerforyou:
  • ladyredeemed4
    ladyredeemed4 Posts: 72 Member
    I have a Boykin, He loves children. This breed was suggested for families. Boykins are also hunters, they have a soft bite. Kobe finds turtles in the back wood all the time - I never see any. Very highly intelligible breed. Eager to please.
  • biorach
    biorach Posts: 60 Member
    Yeah, I know someone would disagree. Individual results vary, but I was told by the Rottweiler rescue rep in my area that there's a critical period between the ages of 7 to 10 months where their training and socialization (or lack thereof) will basically set in stone whether they'll be predictable and trustworthy or not for the rest of their lives, so it's always a gamble with a rescue from an unknown situation.

    Ehh, inaccurate. But I can totally see why people feel this way. (I'm sooo not trying to bash you, just want you to see a different opinion). I have yet to come across any dog that was "set in stone" as you say. Every dog has the potential to be balanced but every human does NOT have the capability to guide a dog to balance. Of course, dogs with behavioral issues take loads more work than that of a balanced (or nearly balanced) dog but it's totally possible to help a difficult dog turn over a new leaf.
    I definitely wouldn't recommend adopting a dog-in-progress if you have limited time or experience with rehabilitating, OR if you have small children in the house (which is why the list in my previous post is trying to help the OP find a more balanced dog)
  • dakotababy
    dakotababy Posts: 2,407 Member
    If going with a rescue, it is best for the 7 year old to have an opportunity to go "meet" some of the dogs first to see which ones are good with kids. You could have a nice looking golden retriever - known to be loyal and sweet. No one knows where these dogs have come from, so it is best not to go based on breed, but by temperment of each individual dog.

    :D It is awesome to hear someone going to a rescue to save a dog.
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    Labradors, they have lots of energy
  • Renegade706
    Renegade706 Posts: 209
    Can't go wrong with a Golden retriever . Very patient with kids
  • HollisGrant
    HollisGrant Posts: 2,022 Member
    Congrats on your decision to get a dog. I found my wonderful collie (see profile photo) on www.petfinder.com That's a website that lists most of the dogs in animal shelters and rescue groups in the United States. Just type in your zip code and the type of dog you are looking for, and it will pull up the dogs closest to your house and then go farther out.

    Puppies are really cute, but take a lot of work and training. I don't have time for that, so I adopted an older dog that had settled down (2-3 years old). She was already housebroken and didn't need to be trained for anything.

    If you get a dog from a rescue group, they usually live with a foster family who will know about the dog's personality. When you adopt from them, you make space for them to save another dog from an animal shelter. I wanted a collie, so I told the rescue group what kind of dog I wanted: gentle, low key, housebroken, no separation anxiety, liked cats and other dogs, didn't pull on the leash, and didn't jump on people -- and that's the dog I adopted.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Dogs aren't Christmas presents.

    As others said they already have a dog, so they understand the choice they are making. They are bringing the dog into their own family, not giving to another person/family that did not know.

    And that aside, many families put a lot of thought, waiting, research, discussion, education into bringing a pet (in this case a dog) into the family, but they still set a time frame for when they are going to do it such as Christmas, birthday, springtime, after the kids demonstrate that they will follow responsibilities for a set amount of time, etc.

    Christmas is not that big of an event in all families. In our home we have a small tree, a wooden frame we made with stockings, some decorations that we place in one corner of our dining area (that is up all month). We don't have people over. We just have a yummy dinner, set out the milk and cookies for Santa. Then wake up to look through the stockings. Open the small amount of presents, have breakfast. Eat candy. Have dinner together later.

    But, I agree that Christmas may not be the best day for integrating the rescue dog into the family.
  • erikmsp72
    erikmsp72 Posts: 137 Member
    I've been involved in dog rescue for over 20 years and it's really about the temperament of the individual dog more than anything. The most bites were from dogs who were made anxious by the loudness and high activity level of children. Look for a dog that loves to be right in the middle of the fray, not one that shies away from it. Breeds from the retrieving and herding groups are usually the best bet, but again - it's the individual that matters. The worst dogs with kids I've seen are the sight hound and toy groups.

    And I know people will jump on me for this, but I wouldn't put a mastiff/molosser type with little kids and small dog. You always have to acknowledge and respect what a dog was bred to do. Generally speaking dogs will express their gene characteristics whether you teach them to or not. Pointers are going to point, herders are going to herd, and fighters are gonna fight.

    This makes sense to me.

    Our dog is a chocolate lab and she is great with every person she's ever met. She barks at the UPS delivery driver but wags her tail too. When I walk her around the lake she thinks every other dog and every other human being is her friend. The only caveat is that "working breeds" like labradors do need exercise. If you are not going to take them for walks, then you should probably find a person to walk the dog or find a doggie daycare to wear out your dog regularly; otherwise they will find things to exercise with at home by chewing on stuff, et cetera.
  • Binkie1955
    Binkie1955 Posts: 329 Member
    is the dog going to be a surprise dog? or is the boy going to be involved in selecting the dog?
    I'd consider using the AKC website for insights on breed temperments and please bear in mind that this dog will probably have to be good with other 7 years olds as well (i.e. strangers!) since this boy is at an age where they are in grade school and will have friends around. I love my Kuvasz for example but wouldn't recommend one for a boy who is likely to be introducing the dog to new friends and such.
  • Danni3ll3
    Danni3ll3 Posts: 365 Member
    Is the adult prepared to walk, insure, feed and pay the dog's vet bills when the child loses interest in the Christmas dog?

    Serious question and not trying to be nasty at all. It's just there is nothing more heart-breaking than a rescue dog going back into rescue kennels because his/her new home didn't work out.

    (dog rescue volunteer)

    Thank you for posting this!
  • geebusuk
    geebusuk Posts: 3,348 Member
    Especially with a rescue, I expect it does very depend on the dog and the life it's had.

    On the bits - believe poodles are worst for giving bites and lots of other little dogs are high up.
    Of course one reason is that owners don't seem to bother to train them because they don't do so much damage - while I've made a good effort training my 100lb Rottweiler/St Bernard cross. He's still not great with other dogs, but will walk to heal and while he's really friendly with people, will now generally only be friendly when I let him (as some people are not so appreciative of 100lb jumping up to say hello :) )
  • WJZR
    WJZR Posts: 98 Member
    Boxer, puppy or adopted adult. They are very gentle and great with kids! Big lap dogs, vey smart, very loving.:happy:
  • MANDallasTX
    MANDallasTX Posts: 36
    Animal Planet's Dog 101 has a Dog Breed Selection questionnaire. http://animal.discovery.com/breed-selector/dog-breeds.html
  • heyitsadam
    heyitsadam Posts: 70 Member
    We have 2 pugs and a 2 year old son.

    My son, Dominick, LOVES them and they will cuddle up with him and let him tug their ears. They are TERRIFIC with youngsters, even strangers' kids.
  • FitnSassy
    FitnSassy Posts: 263 Member
    I had the most adorable Springer Spaniel that we raised from a puppy. He didn't come from a shelter, but he hated all kids, except my son, his brother. He was so cute that people would want to pet him. But he was mean as hell and would bite. It just depends on the dog.
  • SinomenJen
    SinomenJen Posts: 262 Member
    IMO a Lab is the best breed all around.

    Or retriever
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    i grew up with a german shepherd mix. sweet dog and since he was a herder he always seemed to be around when i was near steps sorta blocking me from the steps.

    also i remember being able to constantly hit him in the face with a pillow and him not get sick of it and try and eat me :laugh:

    worse dog : chihuahua . many people in my family had those and those dogs were always yippy and skittish enough to snap. even the ones who liked me wouldnt let other people near me (ie my parents hahaha) when she was around
  • MagicalLeopleurodon
    MagicalLeopleurodon Posts: 623 Member
    Pitty mixes are universally tolerant and withstand a lot of kid abuse (my niece would grab my pits lips to pull herself to standing before we could react-Rogue always smooched her at the top).

    But really-tge most unidentifiable mutts are usually the healthiest.
  • _happycats_
    _happycats_ Posts: 105 Member
    ETA: Conversely, give the child a card that says "Surprise! We're getting another dog!" and take the child with you to pick one out and adopt. Some shelters won't adopt out animals around the holidays.

    I love this idea!
  • knightreader
    knightreader Posts: 813 Member
    probably wouldn't be a rescue, but our cockapoo is awesome with my son!
  • Trueray
    Trueray Posts: 1,189 Member
    Golden Retriever!
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
    ETA: Conversely, give the child a card that says "Surprise! We're getting another dog!" and take the child with you to pick one out and adopt. Some shelters won't adopt out animals around the holidays.

    I love this idea!

    I like this idea too.

    If your home is like BinaryPulsar's it would probably be fine to bring a new dog home on Christmas. But if it's like my house-- tons of people and excited kids and lots of activity-- it'd be better to wait until the chaos is over.
  • Blacklance36
    Blacklance36 Posts: 755 Member
    German Shepherd!!! Smart, loyal, active, and very good with people and kids. If you get them as a pup and bring them up you wont ever have to worry about anything with him around.

    Agreed, I have had three of them and my current girl is as sweet as can be. They are not an entry level dog like a Lab though. They need you to spend time with them and to work with them for the first couple of years. (although what dog doesnt?)
    Once you have done that you will have a very special companion.
  • HollisGrant
    HollisGrant Posts: 2,022 Member
    Is the adult prepared to walk, insure, feed and pay the dog's vet bills when the child loses interest in the Christmas dog?

    Serious question and not trying to be nasty at all. It's just there is nothing more heart-breaking than a rescue dog going back into rescue kennels because his/her new home didn't work out.

    (dog rescue volunteer)

    Thank you for posting this!

    ^^^^ Very important.
  • A_nonymous2
    A_nonymous2 Posts: 366 Member
    Congrats to your friend for rescuing a dog. I have rescued three and have been successful.

    In addition to the advice you got about the DOG, you also need to train the kid to handle the dog. Have him take the dog to obedience class, even if the DOG already knows.

    I always rescue large breed dogs (70-100lbs), much bigger than my 20-30 lb kids. The kids feed the dog and can take food from the current dog, but know that they are not ever supposed to do it. They never wake him up when he's sleeping and to generally respect that he's an animal that came from unknown conditions.

    We've had him for 2 months and have only had minor jumping incidences. They know not to cry b/c they were playing with him. They also know that if they leave a stuffed animal or toy on the floor, it's fair game to be chewed by the dog.

    Temperament really plays into the right dog more than breed. I want athletic dogs to run with me, but they're not good at being "house dogs". She should let the rescue know her lifestyle and what she expects from the dog and let them suggest the right dog.

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