Ms. New Booty
BrelaD
Posts: 16 Member
Can someone please tell me what I can do to get wider hips and not just a bigger booty but one that sits high. My bf constantly tells me I need to get one I really don't care but Im starting to feel really self conscious about it. I'm a small framed black Asian and Ethiopian female I wasn't born with big hips or a butt and its embarrassing can someone help me PLEASE!
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Sorry but that's pretty much nothing you can do to get wider hips. Some say doing squats can help to get a better butt. Also just over all toning is good because your butt will look bigger if your legs are getting smaller. Unsure what size you are or what you goal real is but I hope this isn't your only goal. Good luck to you
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Time to get a new BF..
would he consider working out, or get in shape, or change his appearance for you?0 -
2 things..
1) your BF tells him you need to get a bigger booty? i'd sit on his face and ask him if it needs to be bigger
2) i also dont have big hips/butt and it honestly took me getting 80 pounds overweight to get something like a butt. some things you can do are do weighted post parallel squats, deadlifts, lunges, hip bridges. i've noticed a difference in my butt with those. my butt isn't necessarily bigger but it's rounder and bubblier :laugh:0 -
How about Ms. New BF?0
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squats and hip thrusts, both with a weighted barbell0
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Squats, hip thrusts, glute bridges, abductor machine.0
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Um, your boyfriend is aware that it's YOUR body, right? If you don't want a bigger bum, then tell him to deal with it. Don't change yourself for some man-child.0
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Time for a new BF. Absolutely. He can change his attitude easier than you can change your skeletal structure ...
Good luck!0 -
I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?0
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I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!0 -
I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!
And controlling!0 -
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I guess its mean but I'm willing I just dont like the attention it'll bring he says if I wear heels more it'll look rounder0
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I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!
And controlling!
It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .0 -
I guess its mean but I'm willing I just dont like the attention it'll bring he says if I wear heels more it'll look rounder
Not significantly.0 -
I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!
And controlling!
It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .
Large bank accounts IMO0 -
I guess its mean but I'm willing I just dont like the attention it'll bring he says if I wear heels more it'll look rounder
And you're with him because? Does he have redeeming qualities that make up for his shallow view of your body?0 -
I guess its mean but I'm willing I just dont like the attention it'll bring he says if I wear heels more it'll look rounder
And you're with him because? Does he have redeeming qualities that make up for his shallow view of your body?
What is the shallow part?0 -
I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!
And controlling!
It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .
Large bank accounts IMO
Must be. We're so shallow about women's bodies and all0 -
I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!
And controlling!
It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .
Large bank accounts IMO
Must be. We're so shallow about women's bodies and all
How dare we express preferences for certain things or suggest they improve something about themselves?!0 -
If your S/O has aesthetics at the top of his/her list they should have declared this at the beginning - and you better prepare to be abandoned if he/she manages to attract someone better looking.
What you look like is more important than what sort of person you are? Bring on the apocalypse ...0 -
I guess its mean but I'm willing I just dont like the attention it'll bring he says if I wear heels more it'll look rounder
And you're with him because? Does he have redeeming qualities that make up for his shallow view of your body?
What is the shallow part?
He wants her to change her body when he should be happy with her regardless? There's having a preference, and then there's wanting your partner to adhere to that preference. I find it shallow.0 -
I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!
And controlling!
It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .
Large bank accounts IMO
Must be. We're so shallow about women's bodies and all
How dare we express preferences for certain things or suggest they improve something about themselves?!
Women would never do that about men. They're far too into our bank accounts and BMWs . . .0 -
I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!
And controlling!
It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .
Large bank accounts IMO
Wait, wait. What if I have my own large bank account?0 -
I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!
And controlling!
It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .
Large bank accounts IMO
Wait, wait. What if I have my own large bank account?
Nice squat!0 -
I guess its mean but I'm willing I just dont like the attention it'll bring he says if I wear heels more it'll look rounder
And you're with him because? Does he have redeeming qualities that make up for his shallow view of your body?
What is the shallow part?
He wants her to change her body when he should be happy with her regardless? There's having a preference, and then there's wanting your partner to adhere to that preference. I find it shallow.
Where did the OP state that he is not happy with her?0 -
just a question. if he's so offended by your size, why did he get with you in the first place? did he not notice this at first? why is it an issue now?I guess its mean but I'm willing I just dont like the attention it'll bring he says if I wear heels more it'll look rounder
i say go through with the exercises if that's what YOU want, but if it's solely based on what he wants i'd advise you to stop and think if this request is just a way for him to see how much he can control you and how much you're willing to do to cater to his requests. some guys do that. not all, but some and the ones who do are pretty much just jerks waiting for you to realize they are jerks
also have you told him how it's making you feel self-conscious. it's also very likely that he doesnt realize he might be exhibiting jerky behavior.0 -
I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?
Men are so mean!
And controlling!
It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .
Large bank accounts IMO
Wait, wait. What if I have my own large bank account?
I'm not going to entertain ridiculous scenarios.0 -
Sure that's no different. Having bank balance at the top of your list is just as questionable as demanding that your S/O is worth showing off ...0
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OP, did your bf threaten to break up with you if you didn't achieve said physical look?0
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