3 questions for Ladies who Lift...

I need a goal to shoot for..so please tell me the following: 1) how much weight do you curl? 2) how much do you flye? 3) How long have you been lifting?
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  • sammniamii
    sammniamii Posts: 669 Member
    1) what type of curl? typically DD are 20-30 lbs, BB 30-40lbs
    2) dd fly, 20lb. Fly machine, 40-45lb
    3) since Feb
  • Sphyk1
    Sphyk1 Posts: 85 Member
    any type will give me info. Thanks :) This is exactly the kind of answer I was hoping for.
  • Don't do either exersizes.
    Have been doing compound lifts since June.
  • Confuzzled4ever
    Confuzzled4ever Posts: 2,860 Member
    I lift as much as I can handle..

    Right now? dumbbells 22.5 lbs heavy for me..I use the 40 or 50 lb barbell for curls and deadlift and squats..
    I don't fly.. i do 15s on the chest presses though.
    Lifting for a year.. seriously lifting for a few months. -

    Really it depends on you and your goals and what out want out of it. - knowing what we do is great so you can feel like you're in with the crowd i guess.. but really you just need to do what helps you reach your goals. I want to be able to jump, run faster and do a pull-up unassisted. So my exercises are tailored to that.

    You should be asking yourself what are your goals and then figure out how to reach them.
  • Holly_Roman_Empire
    Holly_Roman_Empire Posts: 4,440 Member
    1) 10 pound dumbbells in each hand, or 15 pounds preacher curls.
    2) 15 pound dumbbell flies
    3) Lifting off and on since 2010. All my PRs are from a deployment I had that year.

    ETA: I put much more value in the compound lifts, like someone else stated. That's where you get your full body workout.
  • Sphyk1
    Sphyk1 Posts: 85 Member
    I will check out more compound moves. I am trying to make realistic goals and am getting a frame of reference. It is great info to put things in perspective.
  • ETA: I put much more value in the compound lifts, like someone else stated. That's where you get your full body workout.

    While this may be true, the way you lift depends on your goals.
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    I will check out more compound moves. I am trying to make realistic goals and am getting a frame of reference. It is great info to put things in perspective.

    I can curl 75 lbs on a bar... I can only flat fly 15 lb DB's.

    What I can curl and what you can curl are completely irrelevant.
    Heavy is a rep range- not a specific weight.

    > What your goal should be is to learn how to compound lift
    > Lift more this week than you did last week

    so do some research- get a program- and make progress.

    Now- go forth and be fabulous.
  • stealthq
    stealthq Posts: 4,298 Member
    I don't do curls or flies. All of the below are on machines - no free weights where I go.

    Lat pull-down, 145 lbs.
    Military press, 80 lbs.
    Overhead press (just started this one), 45 lbs.
    Leg press, 280 lbs.
    Ab curls, 70 lbs. <-- totally useless, but it's on the circuit

    I do a few more that I can't remember off-hand.

    Been lifting ~2yrs, once a week. Yeah, I know. Once a week means progress is slow, but it DOES get made. I'm planning to switch to more frequent free weights, now that I want to step up my game. I just have to change gyms.
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    Now- go forth and be fabulous.

    You're developing a catchphrase... lol

    OP, Check out the book "New Rules of Lifting for Women". Great book about the fundamentals, and it should get you started. If the routine at the very end of the book is too complicated for you (or if you just want something more basic/simple), consider looking at Stronglifts 5x5 (free, online, videos for form).
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    Now- go forth and be fabulous.

    You're developing a catchphrase... lol

    OP, Check out the book "New Rules of Lifting for Women". Great book about the fundamentals, and it should get you started. If the routine at the very end of the book is too complicated for you (or if you just want something more basic/simple), consider looking at Stronglifts 5x5 (free, online, videos for form).

    can't a believe it's taking that long for someone to notice.
  • whitebalance
    whitebalance Posts: 1,654 Member
    You should start with what YOU can lift with good form. If your goal is strength, what you can lift for 4-8 reps. If your goal is hypertrophy, what you can lift for 8-12 reps. Then lift more next time - more weight if you can, more reps if you can't.

    I don't do accessory lifts very often. The heaviest dumbbells I have are 10#, so that's what I fly and French press. I was up to 55 or 60# on the fly machine and 35# on the triceps extension machine at the gym. Preacher curl 40-45#.

    On the compound lifts - Bench up to but not including 60# - bench is my nemesis. OHP 36#. Squat 88# and deadlift 135#. My body weight is between 126 and 130. I still consider myself a novice on free weights and I've advanced pretty slowly with a reboot along the way.

    ETA to the last question: Free weights, a few months. Gym machines, 4-6 months before that, and I think I dabbled on the machines for a few months before settling into a program. First time I squatted or deadlifted, it was just the 45# bar. First OHP was with a 15# bar - and it took me a while before I could bench the 45# bar.
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    I don't curl or fly....

    I'd suggest looking into Stronglifts 5x5.


    I can bench 115, squat 135, OHP 75, Pendlay row 85, deadlift 200.
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    Now- go forth and be fabulous.

    You're developing a catchphrase... lol

    OP, Check out the book "New Rules of Lifting for Women". Great book about the fundamentals, and it should get you started. If the routine at the very end of the book is too complicated for you (or if you just want something more basic/simple), consider looking at Stronglifts 5x5 (free, online, videos for form).

    can't a believe it's taking that long for someone to notice.

    Lol, do you use that in your gym?
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    Now- go forth and be fabulous.

    You're developing a catchphrase... lol

    OP, Check out the book "New Rules of Lifting for Women". Great book about the fundamentals, and it should get you started. If the routine at the very end of the book is too complicated for you (or if you just want something more basic/simple), consider looking at Stronglifts 5x5 (free, online, videos for form).

    can't a believe it's taking that long for someone to notice.

    Lol, do you use that in your gym?

    yes yes I do actually. LOL

    Fabulous is a word I use quiet a bit- I might as well fart glitter I say it so often.
  • rlw911
    rlw911 Posts: 475 Member
    If your goal is strength, you can't go wrong with New Rules of Lifting for Women, Starting Strength or StrongLifts 5x5. I only do compound lifts, following StrongLIfts, which I started at the end of October. My current numbers are:

    Squats 80#
    Bench 60#
    Rows #65
    OHP #45
    Deadlifts 115#
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    I don't curl or fly....

    I'd suggest looking into Stronglifts 5x5.


    I can bench 115, squat 135, OHP 75, Pendlay row 85, deadlift 200.

    At the end of the day, those are the lifts people care about. I actually don't remember how much I curl. 3x12 @ 60? Some days lighter. But I'm not a woman, just some perspective on what's important when determining strength.
  • doughnutwretch
    doughnutwretch Posts: 498 Member
    LOL at everyone who doesn't curl or fly. Remember people, accessory work is also good for you. I like to hit my compounds first and then finish out the fatigue with accessory/iso work. My strength has increased quite well in my compound lifts with a combination of both.

    Curl - 30-35lb dumbbells, 45-60lb barbells
    Fly - 25-35lb dumbbells
    Lifting - Consistently since 9/2011
  • amastre
    amastre Posts: 176 Member
    I'll curl an olympic bar for 20 set reps when I feel like curling, and do 30# cable flies if I need a change of pace. I typically stick with the compound movements, not a lot of isolations here. That'll change once I get rolling with my new program, as it calls for a more bodybuilder approach to assistance, on top of the big compound lifts.

    I've been lifting since 2008, really got serious about it in June 2012.
  • Curling: Barbell 70lbs, Dumbell 25lb, Preacher 15lbs dumbbell, Spider 20lbs barbell
    I don't fly because I have shoulder issues but when I tried I was using 20lbs dumbbell
    I have been lifting for 7 months
  • sarahstrezo
    sarahstrezo Posts: 568 Member
    I ditto what some of the others have said about compound lifts.
    IF you aren't doing the big compounds lifts ( squat, deadlift, bench, OHP, rows), then you are sort of spinning your wheels with just doing assistance lifts.
    And….it isn't really important what others can lift. Do the big compounds at a weight that you can only do 3-5 reps per set for. Then, once you get the hang of the strength building, earn yourself some assistance lifts in the 8-12 rep range. I'm a big believer that the "beach work" (AKA curls, flys, kickbacks, etc) need to be earned earned AFTER you've killed it on the big compounds.
  • Sphyk1
    Sphyk1 Posts: 85 Member
    You all are awesome. I do have the recommended books now. I am going forth and being fabulous in a non-glittery kinda way. Lol.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    I don't curl or fly....

    I'd suggest looking into Stronglifts 5x5.

    This.

    I've been lifting since February and started with Stronglifts.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    LOL at everyone who doesn't curl or fly. Remember people, accessory work is also good for you. I like to hit my compounds first and then finish out the fatigue with accessory/iso work. My strength has increased quite well in my compound lifts with a combination of both.

    I do accessories, just not those ones.
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    LOL at everyone who doesn't curl or fly. Remember people, accessory work is also good for you. I like to hit my compounds first and then finish out the fatigue with accessory/iso work. My strength has increased quite well in my compound lifts with a combination of both.

    Curl - 30-35lb dumbbells, 45-60lb barbells
    Fly - 25-35lb dumbbells
    Lifting - Consistently since 9/2011

    Yeah absolutely, as you should. But newbies don't have any need to mess around with accessory work, if only because they don't know their weak points yet and it'll make their heads spin.
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
    1) I don't
    2) I don't
    3) about 18 months
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
    LOL at everyone who doesn't curl or fly. Remember people, accessory work is also good for you. I like to hit my compounds first and then finish out the fatigue with accessory/iso work. My strength has increased quite well in my compound lifts with a combination of both.

    Curl - 30-35lb dumbbells, 45-60lb barbells
    Fly - 25-35lb dumbbells
    Lifting - Consistently since 9/2011

    lol at someone thinking you need to curl or fly to meet your goals and that someone does not do assistance work if they do not do flys or curls.
  • Redheadllena
    Redheadllena Posts: 353 Member
    Now- go forth and be fabulous.

    You're developing a catchphrase... lol

    OP, Check out the book "New Rules of Lifting for Women". Great book about the fundamentals, and it should get you started. If the routine at the very end of the book is too complicated for you (or if you just want something more basic/simple), consider looking at Stronglifts 5x5 (free, online, videos for form).

    I concur! ^What he said!! :D
  • kitticus15
    kitticus15 Posts: 152 Member
    I do

    hip adduction 3 sets 40 kgs
    hip abduction 3 sets 40 kgs
    leg press 3 sets 40 kgs
    chest press 3 sets 12.5 kgs
    ab crunch 3 sets 22.5 kgs
    tricep dip 3 sets 22.5 kgs
    bicep curl 3 sets 15 kgs
    rear deltoid 3 sets 20 kgs

    been lifting since April
  • FrauMama
    FrauMama Posts: 169 Member
    LOL at everyone who doesn't curl or fly. Remember people, accessory work is also good for you. I like to hit my compounds first and then finish out the fatigue with accessory/iso work. My strength has increased quite well in my compound lifts with a combination of both.

    Curl - 30-35lb dumbbells, 45-60lb barbells
    Fly - 25-35lb dumbbells
    Lifting - Consistently since 9/2011

    lol at someone thinking you need to curl or fly to meet your goals and that someone does not do assistance work if they do not do flys or curls.

    I was thinking the exact same thing. But that LOL attitude is common and of course to be expected here.

    I also don't really do those particular exercises often but when I do it's after other compound/plyometric work and usually 15# DBs or just the O-bar (45 lbs) for curls and I honestly can't remember doing flies, though I used to years ago, probably around 20# DBs.

    Been lifting for over 20 years. I'm old. ;)