'You mean a lot to me, BUT...'

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  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,741 Member
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    I don't think you sound like a victim or a drama queen.

    I don't think he sounds like a jerk who is purposely "using you".

    It feels like everyone wants to write one or both of you off as a loser here and I think you both sound lovely...I think you're both young people and it is up to BOTH of you to define the relationship you're in.

    Clearly it's gone beyond "NSA" sex and there ARE emotions involved. But if you want/need more of a commitment, you may be in for a rude awakening with this guy and have to cut your losses and move on to the next.

    Good luck!
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
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    http://youtu.be/Dh4YRHTJLAs?t=8s
  • 25point4
    25point4 Posts: 35
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    Brb using imagination since no pics.


    Tfw! Strong life to everyone who read that stupid novel.
    Op's dear diary..... Not even once.
  • delicious_cocktail
    delicious_cocktail Posts: 5,797 Member
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    Just take your TDEE - 20% and eat that.
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
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  • delicious_cocktail
    delicious_cocktail Posts: 5,797 Member
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  • Fullsterkur_woman
    Fullsterkur_woman Posts: 2,712 Member
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    Just take your TDEE - 20% and eat that.

    LOLWUT?

    Meal timing has no effect on metabolic rate.
    Just... break... up?
  • delicious_cocktail
    delicious_cocktail Posts: 5,797 Member
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    Just take your TDEE - 20% and eat that.

    LOLWUT?

    Meal timing has no effect on metabolic rate.
    Just... break... up?

    Your body cleanses itself.
  • Fullsterkur_woman
    Fullsterkur_woman Posts: 2,712 Member
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    Just take your TDEE - 20% and eat that.

    LOLWUT?

    Meal timing has no effect on metabolic rate.
    Just... break... up?

    Your body cleanses itself.
    IIFYM.
  • delicious_cocktail
    delicious_cocktail Posts: 5,797 Member
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    Just take your TDEE - 20% and eat that.

    LOLWUT?

    Meal timing has no effect on metabolic rate.
    Just... break... up?

    Your body cleanses itself.
    IIFYM.

    If you can't pronounce it, you shouldn't put it in your mouth.
  • laurynwithawhy
    laurynwithawhy Posts: 385 Member
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    What's the problem here? You said you like hanging out, the sex is great, there are no issues. Why can't it continue as it is? LIke, do you really want or need a "boyfriend"? Do you have lots of potential guys waiting in the wings that you could date if you broke it off with this guy? I say just keep it casual, if it turns into something - great. If it doesn't, oh well. If/when someone better comes along, reevaluate. But don't walk away from something good to sit around and wait for something unknown. "Boyfriend" is just a title - it doesn't define your relationship.
  • sjohnny
    sjohnny Posts: 56,142 Member
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    Sometimes when you think you're hungry your body is pulling an elaborate scam and you're actually just thirsty. Show your body who's boss. Go volunteer to be Mike Tyson's sparring partner for a few rounds. Then do tequila shots until you forget why you were even at the grocery store. You may have missed your train but that's okay because a stranger's just a friend you haven't met.
  • MityMax96
    MityMax96 Posts: 5,778 Member
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    Just take your TDEE - 20% and eat that.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    20 and 22. *sigh*
  • pseudomuffin
    pseudomuffin Posts: 1,058 Member
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    If it weren't giving you so much stress I'd say keep at it as long as you're having fun, but as it is maybe you should get some distance.

    That said, it's perfectly acceptable to be in your 20s and worry about boys! You have a lot of feelings just like anybody else :) and it's okay to want to protect your heart, too.
  • delicious_cocktail
    delicious_cocktail Posts: 5,797 Member
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    If he liked it then he should have put a ring on it.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
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    If he liked it then he should have put a ring on it.

    Maybe her body is too bootylicious for him, baby.
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
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    Just take your TDEE - 20% and eat that.

    LOLWUT?

    Meal timing has no effect on metabolic rate.
    Just... break... up?

    Your body cleanses itself.
    IIFYM.

    If you can't pronounce it, you shouldn't put it in your mouth.
    putting things in my mouth is why I am here.
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
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    putting things in my mouth is why I am here.

    how YOU doin?
  • mammamaurer
    mammamaurer Posts: 418 Member
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    If he liked it then he should have put a ring on it.
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  • saffron981
    saffron981 Posts: 22 Member
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    You want to be his girlfriend, and he doesn't want a relationship. I think he was being honest with you, and that you should take it at face value and not try to analyze it. It's not really that he's taking you for a ride--he said exactly what he wanted. He even called you a "friend" numerous times. I think he's been really clear.

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