I'm jealous of a friend that I inspired.

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d2footballJRC
d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
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Not sure where to put this... Anyways... I'm jealous of a guy I inspired to lose weight.

A friend of mine 2 years ago saw me lose over 100lbs of weight, I was running 5k's and 10k's. He told me that it inspired him to take up a weight loss competition for a fitness magazine. He did awesome, he actually won his division and he in turn decided to change his focus on life and lost over 140 lbs in 10 months and is now trying to become a trainer. Now seeing how I bounced back into some bad habits I'm incredibly jealous of him.

I almost despise him for it and I know I shouldn't. He's a great guy and I really helped nudge him into making a better choice, sadly I didn't keep making those choices for myself.
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  • AZ_Gato
    AZ_Gato Posts: 1,270 Member
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    Well you can talk about it or you can do something about it.

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  • Sovictorrious
    Sovictorrious Posts: 770 Member
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    Sabotage bro!
  • JefferyArnold
    JefferyArnold Posts: 1,479 Member
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    Take this jealousy as a chance to re-inspire yourself and get the competitive juices flowing. Take everything that he has achieved, because of you, and put it towards re-inventing yourself again and working on your progress.

    I find that we need to continuously invent a new version of us to keep up with all of our good habits while reducing bad habits.

    Show yourself that you can do exactly what he did, and step it up one notch and do it better.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,741 Member
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    I think that is pretty common. Use it as motivation if you can!!
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
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    Can you like Tanya Harding him?
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
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    you know what you have to do...

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  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
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    Can you like Tanya Harding him?

    I'd be lying if I didn't say I wished he would injure himself. He's still a friend, I know this is my issue to overcome.
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
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    Well you can talk about it or you can do something about it.

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    Working on the second part. Just wondering if anyone else ever ran into this.
  • AZ_Gato
    AZ_Gato Posts: 1,270 Member
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    Well you can talk about it or you can do something about it.

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    Working on the second part. Just wondering if anyone else ever ran into this.

    No...I've always been proud and happy of any/all success that my friends have had. I think you need to refocus and channel those feelings positively.

    PS...I think this is the first time I've ever said something serious in the chit-chat section of these forums.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
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  • CompressedCarbon
    CompressedCarbon Posts: 357 Member
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    Not so much my issue. When my friends succeed, I try to figure out what they are doing that works and see if it will work for me. I'm not a competitive person by nature so maybe that's why. But can you use his success as an additional motivator for you?
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
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    Well you can talk about it or you can do something about it.

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    Working on the second part. Just wondering if anyone else ever ran into this.

    No...I've always been proud and happy of any/all success that my friends have had. I think you need to refocus and channel those feelings positively.

    PS...I think this is the first time I've ever said something serious in the chit-chat section of these forums.

    Yeah I debated on where to post this.. Chit-Chat was probably not the best spot.
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
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    Not so much my issue. When my friends succeed, I try to figure out what they are doing that works and see if it will work for me. I'm not a competitive person by nature so maybe that's why. But can you use his success as an additional motivator for you?

    Yeah, I am trying to use it.. I'm WAY to competitive of a person.
  • Muddy_Yogi
    Muddy_Yogi Posts: 1,459 Member
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    Awww there there sweetie....here's a tissue...NOW SUCK IT UP!
  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
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    Can you like Tanya Harding him?

    I'd be lying if I didn't say I wished he would injure himself. He's still a friend, I know this is my issue to overcome.

    So you're jealous of him and you hope he gets hurt. Got it. Sounds like he's lucky to have you as a "friend"
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
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    So you're jealous of him and you hope he gets hurt. Got it. Sounds like he's lucky to have you as a "friend"

    I said I've hoped he would get hurt before.. You know those little jealous bugs people get from time to time. I never said it was right, nor would I really want him to really get hurt. Thus why I said my issue to overcome.
  • sassyrayofsunshine
    sassyrayofsunshine Posts: 499 Member
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  • KrazyDaizy
    KrazyDaizy Posts: 815 Member
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    Ummm, no, never experienced wanting something bad for my friend...evah. I'm a lifer with friends and they have my heart until I'm gone from this earth. I always want the absolute best for them. You may need to get some help with this since it appears you do recognize it as an issue.
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
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    Can you like Tanya Harding him?

    I'd be lying if I didn't say I wished he would injure himself. He's still a friend, I know this is my issue to overcome.

    This is going to sound kind of harsh. But this seems rather sadistic that you wish harm on another successful human for no other reason than they worked hard and accomplished a goal, even worse to wish it on a "friend". Sorry, if I were that person and ran across this thread, "friend" is not a word I would use to describe you.

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