Dating advice needed....please

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  • jonnythan
    jonnythan Posts: 10,161 Member
    I see good looking women consistently putting up with all kinds of insane stuff, such as domestic abuse, clinginess, and everything else. Predicting women's behavior based on how hot you think they are is either galactically stupid or a self fulfilling prophecy.
  • judyde
    judyde Posts: 401 Member
    You could always go for the straight forward approach. Let him know that the constant communication is making you feel uncomfortable and see what happens.

    I've always been one to give people the benefit of the doubt. He may just be excited, nervous, socially awkward, etc.

    I vote for this. Maybe he is just overly excited at the thought of a date with you. Isn't that a complement? Is he quite a bit older than you? Maybe he thinks this is what younger people do these days.
  • tfleischer
    tfleischer Posts: 199 Member
    Change your phone number before you end up stuffed in his bedroom in the basement.
  • KenziesFrenzies
    KenziesFrenzies Posts: 1,014 Member
    RUN!!!! Bad bad bad sign for a mega-clingy dude, you don't want that! Block his number and move along, girly, move along.
  • Dunkirk
    Dunkirk Posts: 465 Member
    You have a great Mum, and she's right.
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    Sounds desperate.....Avoid.

    You don't need that.
  • SirDoctorofTARDIS
    SirDoctorofTARDIS Posts: 113 Member
    I'd tell him to jog on. At the very least he is too clingy...hopefully not worse :noway:
  • MsJulielicious
    MsJulielicious Posts: 708 Member
    This guy

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  • Kaylee_law_123
    Kaylee_law_123 Posts: 450 Member
    I generally trust a mum's instincts ... and I've had the same thing happen, and yep, freak!
  • jlschuh44
    jlschuh44 Posts: 218
    He sounds like he may be someone with control issues. I would proceed with caution.
  • charliex2202
    charliex2202 Posts: 4,281 Member
    I will heed all of your advice thank you to those of you that have commented...

    You are all truly awesome, x
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    um.... the guys that have a lot of attention to give like that will most likely end up being a jealous wife beater....
  • JulieGirl58
    JulieGirl58 Posts: 158 Member
    RUN! AS FAST AS YOU CAN! I hate to see you end up being stalked.
  • wndrwmn86
    wndrwmn86 Posts: 507 Member
    Just be careful with whatever you decide girl!

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