Question for the ladies...

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  • americar81
    americar81 Posts: 1
    Funny thing about scars, some are visible others are internal. . . To me is a memory of something that happened and as a result you are a better and bigger person. :flowerforyou:
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    Scars on men. Specifically, do they influence you thoughts on attractiveness when you first lay eyes on them for the first time?

    Scars are interesting. Like telling a story. The body is the blank canvas, the scars are the words that tell the tale. I've got quite a few of my own. They definitely add character to what could just be ordinary.
  • missbp
    missbp Posts: 601 Member
    I am not bothered by them at all. I actually have a pretty significant one myself. I am very self conscious about it. It would be interesting to hear what other men think about this also.
  • shutterbug282
    shutterbug282 Posts: 588 Member
    Nope, wouldn't bother me at all.
  • bd0027
    bd0027 Posts: 1,053 Member
    I personally think scars are hott. My ex had a huge one down his back, I guess someone had cut him, and it was sexy.
  • 2_6y_4_U
    2_6y_4_U Posts: 96
    Scars are hot. Don't know why... but they are.
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  • rav52
    rav52 Posts: 495
    Wouldnt bother me a bit.....personality is what is key for me
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I forget about my scars until someone asks me about them. I burned the left half of my body when I was a child, but the only visible to most people is the scarring on my left arm.

    If you see the rest of my scars, we have already gotten past the "getting to know you" stage.
  • tlcarolinagirl
    tlcarolinagirl Posts: 1,700 Member
    For me, they are intriguing. They tell a story and give an idea of what type of person they are. I have my own scars, plenty, so it would be hypocritical for someone like me frown upon scars on another. I think if a woman can't look at your scars and accept them for the beauty that is your story, then she doesn't deserve you anyway.

    It brings to mind my favorite quotes, the one from Marilyn (or whoever it was since people don't think Marilyn said it) on my profile and Eleanor Roosevelt's "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent" quote, which is the one I try to live by.

    *Fixed my post so Ash doesn't beat me up.
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  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member

    It brings to mind my favorite quotes, the one from Marilyn on my profile

    Don't make me bring this up again, we're friends now :laugh: :laugh: :flowerforyou:

    Oh, do it, I wanna see a friends fight! especially over Marilyn!
  • tlcarolinagirl
    tlcarolinagirl Posts: 1,700 Member

    It brings to mind my favorite quotes, the one from Marilyn on my profile

    Don't make me bring this up again, we're friends now :laugh: :laugh: :flowerforyou:

    Oh, do it, I wanna see a friends fight! especially over Marilyn!

    I don't know what you're talking about. But, don't slam me today.
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  • emtbabe326
    emtbabe326 Posts: 152
    not in the least. I think the stories behind them are fascinating. :flowerforyou:

    THIS!
  • ashleymarie9807
    ashleymarie9807 Posts: 40 Member
    Not at all thats superficial and any girl who looks at that is not a girl you want in the long haul(goes for guys too)
  • ZealousMissJJ
    ZealousMissJJ Posts: 454 Member
    I like scars. They hold a story about someones life.

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  • mistyloveslife
    mistyloveslife Posts: 111 Member
    My husband has a scar between his eyes from where his brother threw a hardback book at him on his first day of kindergarten. Right as he got on the bus! Every time I notice it, I can't help but smile thinking about how his mom tells the story. He also has a huge freckle birthmark on his shoulder that stretches across is back. It makes him unique and I love it. :wink:
  • ladymiseryali
    ladymiseryali Posts: 2,555 Member
    Scars are just healed skin. I have loads of them from an unfortunate battle with depression as a teenager. I've been more concerned with my own scars to notice them on others. My husband has a scar or two and since he doesn't mind mine, I don't mind his.
  • Primeval_Princess
    Primeval_Princess Posts: 52
    Yes, they influence my attractiveness towards them. I am MUCH more attracted to men with scars. It shows character, and someone who has overcome obstacles in many cases. I'm much more intrigued to know their story.
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    Not at all, scars makes the man unique :smile:
  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
    I like scars. They hold a story about someones life.

    +1. my Mr. has a chest scar (aorta replaced with dacron), tips of 2 fingers missing, a stab wound in the back, and a fugly thigh (bunch of upper thigh muscle missing, graft scars evident). he sez ppl normally don't like to touch him. :cry: i :heart: touching his scars, espech that fugly thigh. his personal narrative is fascinating, and it's written all over his body. :love:
  • RockWarrior84
    RockWarrior84 Posts: 840 Member
    Scars on men. Specifically, do they influence you thoughts on attractiveness when you first lay eyes on them for the first time?

    Scars are interesting. Like telling a story. The body is the blank canvas, the scars are the words that tell the tale. I've got quite a few of my own. They definitely add character to what could just be ordinary.

    Exactly and tattoos do the same.
  • Dan_Druff
    Dan_Druff Posts: 104
    Scars are sexy and manly.
  • jjennyb4
    jjennyb4 Posts: 1,581 Member
    Chicks dig scars.

    ^^^^^This^^^^^

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