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  • Posts: 7,166 Member

    I wear business clothes daily. Today is a dress w/ tall black boots w/ heels. I will go home and immediately remove it all and put on pj pants/yoga pants and a t-shirt ... and slippers.


    I may wear sweats too much in his presence... If we're not out, I'm in sweats *LOL*

    *ETA: yoga pants, t-shirt, whatever.... you get the picture.

    I'm weird and don't like to wear sweats around my husband unless I'm sleeping or just woke up. However he really wouldn't care, and he wears them...
  • Posts: 84 Member
    I don't normally change out of my work clothes unless I'm going to the gym after work. I put them on at work and drive to the gym. I have a casual workplace so it's not really that big of a deal. Changing into yoga pants usually means for me that I need to workout. I change into my pjs once I'm ready for bed.
  • Posts: 428 Member
    I am naked anytime I am at home. Only exception is when I get up at 4:30 am to go down to the basement to work out ... I start with clothes, but they come off as I warm up and I'm naked by the time it's done. So much more comfortable without clothes of any kind. I think I have extra sensitive nerves/skin.
  • Posts: 1,791 Member

    In his defense, it is a pretty new relationship. I just don't seem to ... care *LOL* I'm a horrible person.

    look at it this way... it's not like you are building him up to expect one thing and then one day... BAM! you only shave up to your knees and start wearing HIS sweats.

    it's more "this is how i really am, all the time"
  • Posts: 1,492 Member
    Yoga pants and oversized sweatshirt with wool socks - winter

    Yoga pants and t shirt - summer

    He just takes his pants off and lives in his boxers and shirt.

    LOL we are pretty low maintenance.
  • Posts: 21 Member
    My work is pretty casual...usually jeans, heels, and a nice shirt but I still throw on my yoga pants and a hoodie as soon as I walk in the door!
  • When I worked outside of the house I'd come home and immediately change into my comfy clothes which was usually my pjs.
  • Posts: 1,234 Member
    Yoga pants and a tank if I am staying in and no one is coming over.
  • Posts: 3,730 Member
    This thread reminds me of Mr Rogers' neighborhood.
  • Posts: 498 Member
    Inside-out sweatshirt (just like it that way) that was baggy when I weighed 291 so is ginormous at 193. Lycras. Fuzzy socks. Within minutes of getting home, typically. Unless the kids are out or otherwise occupied. Then it's nothing and time to play maul-the-husband. LOL.
  • Posts: 1,728 Member
    I usually just keep my shirt on and down to my boxers.

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  • Posts: 1,166 Member
    I work from home.

    If it wasn't for having to take my daughter to daycare, I would probably work nude just to save some time in the morning... Anything to get some extra sleep... amiright?
  • Posts: 3,343 Member
    I either stay in my work clothes, or if that's uncomfortable I'll take off what is making me uncomfortable (usually the trousers) and I generally stay that way until I need to get changed or dressed/undressed such as for the gym or to to go to sleep. If it's too cold like that, sweatpants.
  • Posts: 1,794 Member
    dress shirt comes off so I can cook. I usually change into some sweat pants.

    If no one's at home, it's commando time.
  • Posts: 1,903 Member
    First order of business, after greeting my husband and kitties, is to change into my "cozy clothes." That's sweats/shorts/yoga pants and a t-shirt... basically one step up from actual pajamas.
  • Posts: 1,801 Member

    I wear business clothes daily. Today is a dress w/ tall black boots w/ heels. I will go home and immediately remove it all and put on pj pants/yoga pants and a t-shirt ... and slippers.


    I may wear sweats too much in his presence... If we're not out, I'm in sweats *LOL*

    *ETA: yoga pants, t-shirt, whatever.... you get the picture.
    IMO women look 100x sexier in a dress and boots than sweat pants and slippers. When you change the minute you get home it's like you're not even trying to look nice for him. You might as well start farting around him and peeing with the door open because it just kills the mood.

    So if he says he likes something don't you want to do it to make him happy?
  • Posts: 10,477 Member
    IMO women look 100x sexier in a dress and boots than sweat pants and slippers. When you change the minute you get home it's like you're not even trying to look nice for him. You might as well start farting around him and peeing with the door open because it just kills the mood.

    So if he says he likes something don't you want to do it to make him happy?

    OMG, I'm not supposed to fart or pee with the door open either????



    I'm sooooo screwed!
  • Posts: 915 Member
    Sweat pants/girls skirt made for homewear and a t-shirt!
  • Posts: 870 Member
    For the most part my work clothes aren't too fancy so I just leave them on. Today i'm wearing a sweater and corduroy pants.
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  • Posts: 711 Member

    I wear business clothes daily. Today is a dress w/ tall black boots w/ heels. I will go home and immediately...
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  • Posts: 1,053 Member
    I lounge in just a t-shirt with my door locked.
  • Posts: 5,263 Member
    My family knows that the first thing I do when I come home is put on comfy clothes. Usually yoga/sweatpants and a tee and hoodie. Slippers in winter, flip flops in summer.

    I just put a coat on and boots over my pants when I go outside to shovel.
  • Posts: 10,477 Member
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    BTW, the driveway will be done before you get up here with my Mexican food... so that you can park in it... because I care.
  • Posts: 1,801 Member

    OMG, I'm not supposed to fart or pee with the door open either????

    I'm sooooo screwed!
    That's fine.....if you want him to treat you like one of his bro's
  • Posts: 10,477 Member
    That's fine.....if you want him to treat you like one of his bro's

    Of course I do!

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  • Posts: 1,414 Member
    My husband loves me in yoga pants. Always rubs my booty like he's petting a soft kitty.

    i have a girlfriend who will not wear ANYTHING other than sweat pants. even if you go to dinner... I'm trying to help her convert to yoga pants on her husband's behalf.

    i don't really wear dresses, so i think that my work pants aren't as sexy. not trying to be sexy at work. but when I put on the yoga pants at home, there is a level of sexiness that not everyone gets to see.


    like a librarian. don't guys fantasize about librarians? (until they find out she has like 6 cats or something).
  • Posts: 1,801 Member

    Of course I do!

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    Oh I give up, if you don't want any magic or romance in your relationship that's fine with me.
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