a question for the men....

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  • tonytoo
    tonytoo Posts: 307
    As long as you're healthy, I only care about what's between your ears.
  • haroon_awan
    haroon_awan Posts: 1,208 Member
    Implants. If you want them, then get them. Implants are a bit like make-up, or nice clothes. Make-up just to impress guys is sort of missing the point. Make-up should be about what it does for you and how it makes you feel. (Think about: "I'm putting this on because my boyfriend likes it" vs "I'm putting this on because I like it and I look great").

    Stretch marks are nothing to be worried about. Some people have them, some people don't. I have a few stretch marks that have almost faded away on the side of my stomach. If any decent man wants to be in a family with you then he'll understand that you will get stretch marks during pregnancy, and that's fine because you have no control over the changes to your body.

    The important thing is not to worry about what other people will think. Doing so will effect your mental health, your self-esteem and your confidence when going to the beach or the swimming pool. Having the confidence to get into a swimsuit or bikini when you have stretch marks is impressive, regardless of your age.
  • silversociety
    silversociety Posts: 222 Member
    Don't care much about stretch marks. Indifferent towards implants.
  • _db_
    _db_ Posts: 179 Member
    Stretch marks happen; I've never lost interest in someone over them. Breast implants usually look worse than the woman's natural breasts...but then I am an *kitten*/leg man.
  • fitandskinnygal
    fitandskinnygal Posts: 487
    Implants. If you want them, then get them. Implants are a bit like make-up, or nice clothes. Make-up just to impress guys is sort of missing the point. Make-up should be about what it does for you and how it makes you feel. (Think about: "I'm putting this on because my boyfriend likes it" vs "I'm putting this on because I like it and I look great").

    Stretch marks are nothing to be worried about. Some people have them, some people don't. I have a few stretch marks that have almost faded away on the side of my stomach. If any decent man wants to be in a family with you then he'll understand that you will get stretch marks during pregnancy, and that's fine because you have no control over the changes to your body.

    The important thing is not to worry about what other people will think. Doing so will effect your mental health, your self-esteem and your confidence when going to the beach or the swimming pool. Having the confidence to get into a swimsuit or bikini when you have stretch marks is impressive, regardless of your age.


    ^^^ Wow, that was perfectly said and so true.
  • Phenylethylamine_Phreak
    Phenylethylamine_Phreak Posts: 2,211 Member
    my ex had A-cups and it affected her self esteem. you have to do what is right for your self confidence. Some A-cup older women love the fact that at 50, their breasts are in the same place as they were when the were 20.

    Personally,confidence is what is attractive to me, not the size of the breast, the shape of the *kitten* or how tall or short they are.

    Woman are gifts to be cherished.

    Stretch marks, part of the beauty of a life lived
  • fitandskinnygal
    fitandskinnygal Posts: 487
    im all for people getting surgeries to make themselves feel comfortable - if a woman wants implants then she should get them, especially if they make her feel more comfortable and its something she is self conscious about

    stretch marks are a very genetic thing - mine went away when I lost weight some people get them bad some dont. Nothing wrong with some stretch marks


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  • rayfu75
    rayfu75 Posts: 209 Member
    To put it simply about what men think about stretch marks

    " I say we ain't got time to worry bout no **** like stretch marks. We know they either came from one of two things: either you was big and got small, or you was small and got big. Either way, we f&$*in! " - Kat Williams

    Breast implants make no difference to me. I prefer all naturale. My wife has had 4 kids and she's just as hot as she was when I first met her to me.
  • 3rdwoozie5
    3rdwoozie5 Posts: 46 Member
    I look to the beauty of a woman by what's on the inside, not the outside. I think the man that likes someone for the size of her boobs would be pretty shallow. Over time we grow old, things fade, and all we have left is what we started with, our hearts to share.
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    When I look at stretch marks. I see change. Life is always changing for me. I have many huge scars that are part of my body, I accept them for being part of me and just as I would for a young lady, If they are from babies, I embrace them even more. Call me crazy but I find some stretch marks sexy as hell.

    Implants. I've never been a fan of. Although I wouldn't be a deal breaker as my attractions to a lady also comes from the soul. If she is beautiful inside, and she is content with who she is inside and out, I will grab her hand and walk with her following the falling sunset every time.
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    :angry:
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    Boob stretch marks?!
    I have them
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    Women can't help stretch marks and implants are up to her. I'm not really a breast guy myself but don't repeat that around here . . .
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Boob stretch marks?!
    I have them

    Kill it!!!
  • susanmc31
    susanmc31 Posts: 287 Member
    I love the answers on here <3
  • Spaghetti_Bender
    Spaghetti_Bender Posts: 509 Member
    I could care less about both actually.
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    Boob stretch marks?!

    I'd say MOST boobs have stretched marks. However, I'm sure you aren't the only man who hasn't noticed. Usually y'all aren't looking for flaws contrary to what women think.
  • RonJr88
    RonJr88 Posts: 56 Member
    as far as stretch marks they are part of life I am pretty sure almost everyone has them
    as far as implants...that is a personal choice...I say no on them,was never a deal breaker but I have never been bothered by whether a woman has big or small breasts..just my opinion.
  • tosullivan
    tosullivan Posts: 245 Member
    Stretch marks have never bothered me
    Cant comment on the boobs as I have no experience of impants...
  • mrdexter1
    mrdexter1 Posts: 356 Member
    The young lass bent down for my shoe fitting, and all I had thrust in my face was a builders crack with 2 inch red vertical welts all along her back and side wings that were stretch marks -

    it was horrific and I' ll never forget the shock and never want to see anything like it ever again I was so traumatised.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Boob stretch marks?!

    I'd say MOST boobs have stretched marks. However, I'm sure you aren't the only man who hasn't noticed. Usually y'all aren't looking for flaws contrary to what women think.

    No, I'm aware. Just responding stupidly to a stupid question.
  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    I'm all nattie.. my preference is for my girl to also be nattie... na'mean?
  • Mother_Superior
    Mother_Superior Posts: 1,624 Member
    As long as she's comfortable in her own skin, it doesn't matter to me if she has stretch marks, gets breast implants, tattoos, whatever. I prefer a woman who is happy...whatever that looks like.
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    Boob stretch marks?!

    I'd say MOST boobs have stretched marks. However, I'm sure you aren't the only man who hasn't noticed. Usually y'all aren't looking for flaws contrary to what women think.

    No, I'm aware. Just responding stupidly to a stupid question.

    So y'all are noticing what is wrong with them while they are hanging there in your face! I knew it.

    *That's a joke.
  • Justintyme328
    Justintyme328 Posts: 54 Member
    Are the stretch marks caused by the breast implants?
  • howcanthatbetakenalready
    howcanthatbetakenalready Posts: 107 Member
    Ok guys, not to butt in, but I've been reading your responses and I have to say I'm really surprised! Are you all serious and being totally honest when you say you don't care for implants? No, I don't have them, but after breastfeeding two kids, mine aren't looking too perky anymore...lol So you're saying you'd rather have natural, saggy boobs than perky implants?



    I'm going to be completely honest at the risk of sounding like an *kitten*.

    Stretch marks=NO big deal. AT ALL. Especially a mom. If a mom without them exists she is a momicorn.

    Implants.....If they are flat and saggy as a pancake I guess implants would be better. But "saggy" is simply hanging down a bit yes natural is absolutely better.
    In 99% of cases a woman looks better natural IMO.
  • howcanthatbetakenalready
    howcanthatbetakenalready Posts: 107 Member
    nope
  • elprincipito
    elprincipito Posts: 1,200 Member
    i dont care about stretchmarks unless its like those things on the belly. I have tons on my chest and *kitten*. Breast implants if they are symmetrical and not big.to the point you can tell its fine.
  • Trechechus
    Trechechus Posts: 2,819 Member
    Every human on Earth has stretch marks. It's part of having skin.
  • ronrstaats
    ronrstaats Posts: 294 Member
    How do you guys feel about stretch marks on a woman. Also, what is your opinion on breast implants??

    My wife has both... doesn't bother me

    She did the implants for herself. I told her I didn't care either way.

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