I want thinner, more toned thighs?

I am perfectly happy with my upper body. I have a nice looking stomach, arms, shoulders, and I have a nice collarbone.

My only problem is my thighs. They arent fat by any means. But I would love for a more toned look, maybe a thigh gap.

Anyone have any good exercise routines for making them smaller and more toned?
Or diet solutions?

THANKS!
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  • wonderwoman234
    wonderwoman234 Posts: 551 Member
    Heavy weight training will get them as compact as they can get. To some degree, the way your body is built will determine how slender your thighs can become. We can't spot reduce, unfortunately.
  • Heavy weight training?

    I'm not an idiot, but what exactly is that? I usually just work out from home on the treadmill, and I do yoga in my basement.
  • wonderwoman234
    wonderwoman234 Posts: 551 Member
    I also just noticed that you are recovering from Anorexia. This can often be a lifelong disease to battle. You probably have body dysmorphia, which is common with eating disorders, so I think it is a RED FLAG for you to be focused on making one body part more perfect.

    Are you in therapy? I would highly recommend working with an eating disorder therapist who can help you move away from perfectionist thinking and more toward self acceptance. The way you look is far less important than the way you choose to think about yourself.

    Take good care!
  • tcunbeliever
    tcunbeliever Posts: 8,219 Member
    I have only had 2 things that seemed to slim my thighs significantly. Brazil Butt Lift and the stationary bike. I am doing my second round of BBL and it still seems to be slimming things. Last year when I was doing a more weight based routine I would do the stationary bike while I was watching TV, just to get some cardio in, saw a visible slimming with that too.

    I know spot reducing is not possible, however I also know my body responds differently to different workout routines. It may just be a matter of trying different things until you find one that gets you the results you are seeking.
  • archaichoney
    archaichoney Posts: 132 Member
    Heavy weight training?

    I'm not an idiot, but what exactly is that? I usually just work out from home on the treadmill, and I do yoga in my basement.

    Training, with weights, ie. barbell, dumb bells, etc. By heavy, she means with lots of weight. Deadlifting, squatting, hip thrusts, lunges with weights will give you great legs. If you want a "toned" and muscular body, that means lifting heavy and eating to build muscle.

    Good place to start: http://www.simplyshredded.com/the-ultimate-female-training-guide.htm

    ETA: Oh and Strong Curves, duh. That's a great book.
  • It's been 6 years since I was full-blown anorexic. To give you a picture... my lowest weight was 115lbs and I am 5"9. That is considered underweight. Right now I am about 135lbs and I know I am at a healthy weight. I dont feel like i need to lose pounds. It's been a good 6 years since I was anorexic but I say I am still recovering simply because I am trying to normalize my eating and exercising habits.

    I've been through all the the therapy, I have no desire to be a skeleton anymore. I am truly happy with life. I just want to have a normal eating and exercise routine.

    I just want nice thighs! lol
  • chantels1
    chantels1 Posts: 391 Member
    You are most likely a pear shape, and may never be happy with that shape. I am a pear as well, I have practically zero breasts, but my abs rock, but I am also cursed with bigger thighs. I just attribute it to a runners build. I am built to run! ;-) Heavy lifting may help, but I do not have a gym membership nor a set of weights, so I am stuck with the way I am. I don't want to develop unhealthy diet habits to create the slimmer thighs I desire. Besides, the rest of me would look sickly! So I am just going to have to be happy where I am.

    Good luck!
  • Ah you're probably right, haha. I am very pear shaped.

    I dont have huge thighs, I just wish they were smaller.

    Maybe that's just a wish that may never be granted!
  • dannatona
    dannatona Posts: 101 Member
    An easy exercise program is Jillian Micheal's 30 day slim. You're doing lunges and squats all throughout the video, AND cardio. So you're building muscle while burning fat. I did this workout every other day for 2 months and I've never seen my thighs so slim. I was thinking about doing it again I loved it so much!
  • in_the_stars
    in_the_stars Posts: 1,395 Member
    I have slim thighs and am trying to add more curve there, the grass is always greener... :)
  • Springfield1970
    Springfield1970 Posts: 1,945 Member
    I also just noticed that you are recovering from Anorexia. This can often be a lifelong disease to battle. You probably have body dysmorphia, which is common with eating disorders, so I think it is a RED FLAG for you to be focused on making one body part more perfect.

    Are you in therapy? I would highly recommend working with an eating disorder therapist who can help you move away from perfectionist thinking and more toward self acceptance. The way you look is far less important than the way you choose to think about yourself.

    Take good care!

    Hey!

    That's not right going through someone's stuff and bringing it out like that. She didn't even mention this, how impolite of you.
    She's talking about something very close to my heart, thighs and their annoying habit of not slimming down. It is perfectly feasible to want to talk about how to improve them.

    Very odd thing to do. Sorry OP, hope you get some feedback here.

    For me, it is to do with being about 20% body fat then they slim down to 20" which I can live with. I'm 5'7" and currently 130lb after a cut bulk cut cycle. (Google n search) it's all here.

    Good luck
  • seattle_hd
    seattle_hd Posts: 23 Member
    I just read the thigh gap has more to do with your structure and how wide your hips are built anyway, so even if you slim down there is a good chance you still won't get that gap unless you are too skinny. It's an unrealistic picture of what the media says we need to be. Don't fall for it.
  • smelius22
    smelius22 Posts: 334 Member
    I have seen amazing results in my legs since I started doing dumbbell exercises. I use 12 pounds weights and do 3 sets of 10 reps in these exercises:

    Squats
    Lunges (can be static, pendulum, whatever you prefer)
    Side lunges
    Calf Raises
    Calf Raises on a step
    Dumbbell swing-through
    Stiff-legged dead lift

    I find that dumbbells are less intimidating to me than barbell weight sets and are usually located a little out of everyone else's way at the gym, so I can get my workout done quicker without having to share space or equipment usually.

    this is a pretty good website I reference to find dumbbell exercises for all parts of my body:
    http://www.dumbbell-exercises.com/exercises/legs/index.html
  • wonderwoman234
    wonderwoman234 Posts: 551 Member
    I just want to say that you look beautiful and healthy and there are way worse things in the world than not having "thigh gap". Congratulations on trying to get healthy and normalize your eating.

    I was slender my entire life up until about 5 years ago and to be honest, I NEVER appreciated the body I had, even at my very thinnest when my knee bones and elbows were sticking out. I was always thinking I could be thinner, smaller, etc. I now realize I had body dysmorphia for most of my life.

    Just watch out for the perfectionist thinking! Try to appreciate what you have right now. :)
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    I also just noticed that you are recovering from Anorexia. This can often be a lifelong disease to battle. You probably have body dysmorphia, which is common with eating disorders, so I think it is a RED FLAG for you to be focused on making one body part more perfect.

    Are you in therapy? I would highly recommend working with an eating disorder therapist who can help you move away from perfectionist thinking and more toward self acceptance. The way you look is far less important than the way you choose to think about yourself.

    Take good care!

    Hey!

    That's not right going through someone's stuff and bringing it out like that. She didn't even mention this, how impolite of you.
    She's talking about something very close to my heart, thighs and their annoying habit of not slimming down. It is perfectly feasible to want to talk about how to improve them.

    Very odd thing to do. Sorry OP, hope you get some feedback here.

    For me, it is to do with being about 20% body fat then they slim down to 20" which I can live with. I'm 5'7" and currently 130lb after a cut bulk cut cycle. (Google n search) it's all here.

    Good luck

    meeehhh I can see- but if it's on the internet- I also believe it's fair game and worth while to make a note- that sometimes things are the way they are and fussing about them won't help or maybe be coming from a negative place.


    OP- get thee some education about strength training/heavy lifting and compound lifts.

    Learn to squat and DL with a bar bell. LIFT all the things.
  • Teecy
    Teecy Posts: 5
    Hi there!

    Diet won't change your thighs, except to reduce some fat pockets. You can't pick where the body reduces, though! More importantly, work the thighs. Every day - squats, burpees, donkey kicks (that's on all 4s kicking behind or bending your knee and lifting up your thigh? Great for the glutes, too. the more defined your glutes are, the thinner your thighs should look. Also, look up "abductor and adductor" exercises for the inner thighs. Do you have a stretchy band you can use?

    Good luck!

    teecy
  • I also just noticed that you are recovering from Anorexia. This can often be a lifelong disease to battle. You probably have body dysmorphia, which is common with eating disorders, so I think it is a RED FLAG for you to be focused on making one body part more perfect.

    Are you in therapy? I would highly recommend working with an eating disorder therapist who can help you move away from perfectionist thinking and more toward self acceptance. The way you look is far less important than the way you choose to think about yourself.

    Take good care!

    Hey!

    That's not right going through someone's stuff and bringing it out like that. She didn't even mention this, how impolite of you.
    She's talking about something very close to my heart, thighs and their annoying habit of not slimming down. It is perfectly feasible to want to talk about how to improve them.

    Very odd thing to do. Sorry OP, hope you get some feedback here.

    For me, it is to do with being about 20% body fat then they slim down to 20" which I can live with. I'm 5'7" and currently 130lb after a cut bulk cut cycle. (Google n search) it's all here.

    Good luck

    meeehhh I can see- but if it's on the internet- I also believe it's fair game and worth while to make a note- that sometimes things are the way they are and fussing about them won't help or maybe be coming from a negative place.


    OP- get thee some education about strength training/heavy lifting and compound lifts.

    Learn to squat and DL with a bar bell. LIFT all the things.



    Jesus. Lol thanks guys. Probably shouldnt have even mentioned I was a former anorexic if thats all we are gonna talk about haha.

    I JUST WANT NICE THIGHS hahaha but thanks for the concern.
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member
    An easy exercise program is Jillian Micheal's 30 day slim. You're doing lunges and squats all throughout the video, AND cardio. So you're building muscle while burning fat. I did this workout every other day for 2 months and I've never seen my thighs so slim. I was thinking about doing it again I loved it so much!

    It's pretty much impossible to build muscle and burn fat at the same time. (Extreme outliers outstanding...of course)
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,992 Member
    I am perfectly happy with my upper body. I have a nice looking stomach, arms, shoulders, and I have a nice collarbone.

    My only problem is my thighs. They arent fat by any means. But I would love for a more toned look, maybe a thigh gap.

    Anyone have any good exercise routines for making them smaller and more toned?
    Or diet solutions?

    THANKS!
    No exercise will target them to make them smaller. If you want to condition the muscle underneath so the look a little "harder" squats, deadlifts, and leg curls are the top 3 IMO.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal/Group FitnessTrainer
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    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • **** I hate workout videos. and weightlifting.

    But this is all great feedback thank you.
  • SpecialSundae
    SpecialSundae Posts: 795 Member
    **** I hate workout videos. and weightlifting.

    But this is all great feedback thank you.

    If you hate working out or lifting weights... what do you want to do?
  • SarahBeth0625
    SarahBeth0625 Posts: 685 Member
    Weighted squats and lunges are what I do. I love them, even though they are hard work! :smile: Leg day is Saturday for me....
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    Since you are a "pear shape" any fat you do have is stored on your thighs. Unfortunately you might have to drop to an unhealthy body fat percentage (and weight) to remove that fat. And yeah, a "thigh gap" is very genetic and has more to do with bone structure than actual fat.

    But yes, weight lifting will tone and strengthen your thighs. I know for me, fat thighs with muscle underneath look a lot better than plan ol' fat thighs.

    I really enjoy Stronglifts 5x5. I've also heard good things about Strong Curves.
  • qtgonewild
    qtgonewild Posts: 1,930 Member
    my thighs and legs are the only thing on my body that look good at this point. im an apple. hoping to change that.
  • michable
    michable Posts: 312 Member
    I guess you would call me a pear shape as well. I am very lean up top, and carry more weight/fat in my thighs. I have been running for 4 months, doing bodyweight strength training, playing squash and watching cals, and I am very happy with how my thighs are looking now. They carried me for 14 km this morning on my long run, so I really can't complain about their function. I am probably down to about 20% body fat now, and my quads have some great definition. Still want to improve on my hammies, though. I have lost 3 inches from each thigh since I started (from 23 to 20 inches). Maybe some strength training would be beneficial for you? Like I said, I am only doing bodyweight exercises at home, not going to the gym.
  • polarsjewel
    polarsjewel Posts: 1,725 Member
    my thighs and legs are the only thing on my body that look good at this point. im an apple. hoping to change that.

    Apples are my favourite fruit!
  • ModernNerd
    ModernNerd Posts: 336 Member
    Step 1: Drop the thigh gap thing, they are silly. I've got one, but shucks that was the "luck" of the draw with having wide hips. Understand what you can and cannot change about your natural build, and move forward accordingly.

    Step 2: do squats

    Step 3: do moar squats

    I'm sure there are a boatload of compound exercises that will help that area, but in my own experience I've found squats to be glorious and effective. Best of luck OP
  • bachampion04
    bachampion04 Posts: 137 Member
    Just as @ModernNerd said...definitely do them squats...that is a must and really only solution lol I would add for lean cuts and physiques you are going to want to look into the formula of high reps low weights. So try to get your reps within the range of 15-20. Start with no weights to get comfortable with the exercise work on form, then transition to the bar with no weights and as it gets easier increase the weight per side by 5.

    Whoops forgot to add one more factoid you can also look for a gym that has the hid adductor and abductor machine. That's REALLY good for strength your outer and inner thighs as well as your hips. Use the same philosophy as stated above.

    - James
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    For the most bang for your buck, you'd be looking at heavy lifting with barbells (or dumbbells if you don't have access to barbells).

    I highly suggest reading Starting Strength, Stronglifts, AllPros and NROL. Pick one of the routines and stick with it for a few months.

    Other forms of strength/resistance training you could also look into are TRX Supsension and Sandbags.

    If you don't have access to equipment, look into bodyweight routines from Convict Conditioning, NerdFitness, or/and You Are Your Own Gym.

    Links to the above programs and some additional info:

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/850719-strength-training-the-basics

    Stronglifts: http://stronglifts.com/stronglifts-5x5-beginner-strength-training-program/
    (For Stronglifts, please be sure to get the Free PDF on this and read through it, not just the summary)

    NerdFitness: http://www.nerdfitness.com/resources/#resources-apps

    AllPros: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=4195843

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/902569-barbell-routines-when-you-only-have-dumbbells
  • Thigh gap...
    If you have wide hips, you'll have a thigh gap.
    If you have narrow hips, you can be very underweight and still have legs that touch.
    It's your skeleton. Your pelvis/hips. Not your body fat.

    I'm a recovered (?) anorexic myself going wayyy back. I remember when those two words "thigh gap" hit the internet and I wish they'd go away. It's nonsense. I've seen heavy girls with thigh gaps and very skinny girls with thighs that touch.

    Personally, I can "give myself" a thigh gap depending on how I stand, with my pelvis tilted forward or back. One looks like I'm rockin a big gap even with feet and knees together, the other looks like two legs smooshed together.