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    How do you keep your cool?

    Posts: 905 Member
    edited February 15 in Chit-Chat
    Cause sometimes I have trouble keeping calm when I need to be calm.

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    • Posts: 14
      Women are emotional creatures. That's why we will always hold the transitions of power.
    • Posts: 7,963 Member
      Cause sometimes I have trouble keeping calm when I need to be calm.

      Have you tried weed or drinking heavily?
    • Posts: 2,474 Member
      Vodka.
    • Posts: 142 Member
      Women are emotional creatures. That's why we will always hold the transitions of power.

      ABANDON THREAD
    • Posts: 257 Member
      The best way is to have goals and forget others that try to sway you from your goals. Also sometimes people have thier own problems and try to pass it on to you or claim thier problems are your fault. Also don't keep any fake friends around ,they are the worst. The more you accomplish the more people might tell you what your doing is wrong , especially when you lose fat and look sexier than them.
    • Posts: 815 Member
      I'm a bit hot-headed soooooooooo.....

      :explode:



      Yah, vodka is a good idea.
    • Posts: 104 Member
      If the situation can stand it, the 24 hour (come back to it/them) rule.
    • Posts: 460 Member
      Punch people.
    • Posts: 1,053 Member
      Women are emotional creatures. That's why we will always hold the transitions of power.

      What does that even mean?
    • Posts: 9
      I strongly agree with Vodka, also talking about it with a friend helps calm me down.
    • Posts: 905 Member
      Women are emotional creatures. That's why we will always hold the transitions of power.

      Not as long as we have vaginas you want to get into.
    • Posts: 29 Member
      Women are emotional creatures. That's why we will always hold the transitions of power.

      You sound like just roses and peaches to be around.
    • Posts: 905 Member
      Drinking would be a lovely solution but sadly I must keep my wits about me. :ohwell:
    • Posts: 29 Member
      Cause sometimes I have trouble keeping calm when I need to be calm.

      For a serious answer to your thread without getting derailed by the troll, I'd recommend slow deep breaths and counting to ten. Anything you can do to bring your heart rate down will help.

      Usually, when thought about with a calm and clear mind, most things won't seem as big a deal as they first do when you're angry.
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      Women are emotional creatures. That's why we will always hold the transitions of power.

      "Transitions of power"? You, Sir, cannot even put together a decent sentence. Perhaps you the phrase you are looking for is "positions of power" .

      I encourage everyone to be emotional creatures, because power without compassion is despotism.
    • Posts: 905 Member
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      For a serious answer to your thread without getting derailed by the troll, I'd recommend slow deep breaths and counting to ten. Anything you can do to bring your heart rate down will help.

      Usually, when thought about with a calm and clear mind, most things won't seem as big a deal as they first do when you're angry.

      Yes... this is what I keep trying to do but I don't get to count very high before the next illogical insane thing happens.
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      I drink a lot of teas. It's become a hobby kind of to get different loose leaf teas and try them. For some reason it keeps me pretty chill most of the time.

      Play a game that takes your mind off of stress.

      Even smiling is supposed to help oddly.

      Yoga is nice as well. Meditation, anything that helps you just sort of 'zen out' as they say.
    • Posts: 257 Member
      The best way is to have goals and forget others that try to sway you from your goals. Also sometimes people have thier own problems and try to pass it on to you or claim thier problems are your fault. Also don't keep any fake friends around ,they are the worst. The more you accomplish the more people might tell you what your doing is wrong , especially when you lose fat and look sexier than them.

      Concentrate on yourself and understand that people around you , if they see they can mess with you and it effects you , they will keep doing it. No matter how hard it is don't let what others do effect you. Also don't focus on trolls but the real advice your given.
    • Posts: 905 Member
      I drink a lot of teas. It's become a hobby kind of to get different loose leaf teas and try them. For some reason it keeps me pretty chill most of the time.

      Play a game that takes your mind off of stress.

      Even smiling is supposed to help oddly.

      Yoga is nice as well. Meditation, anything that helps you just sort of 'zen out' as they say.

      YOU- You have given me good answers.
      Ta. :flowerforyou:
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      Concentrate on yourself and understand that people around you , if they see they can mess with you and it effects you , they will keep doing it. No matter how hard it is don't let what others do effect you. Also don't focus on trolls but the real advice your given.

      Hehe I'm sorry I didn't give enough information. The people who are messing with me are 2yrs and 1 yr old. I'm one of those SAHM.
    • Posts: 784 Member
      Smoke

      Listen to music

      Go to sleep lol
    • Posts: 27,732 Member
      Women are emotional creatures. That's why we will always hold the transitions of power.

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      Also your grammar. "Transitions of power?" Not a thing.
    • Posts: 42 Member
      Women are emotional creatures. That's why we will always hold the transitions of power.

      I thought it was due to our upper body strength advantage. Which is not much of an advantage any more. Hence women are on equal ground.
    • Posts: 27,732 Member
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      Hehe I'm sorry I didn't give enough information. The people who are messing with me are 2yrs and 1 yr old. I'm one of those SAHM.

      Idk about the one year old but that's definitely still true of 2-year-olds. :laugh:
    • Posts: 9,026 Member
      start every day in the gym. lift heavy weights. it's really hard for someone to get under my skin when i can say to myself "yeah, i hit a PR this morning."
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      YOU- You have given me good answers.
      Ta. :flowerforyou:

      I forgot to mention completely disregarding morons also helps Lol! Good luck to you.
    • Posts: 27,732 Member
      start every day in the gym. lift heavy weights. it's really hard for someone to get under my skin when i can say to myself "yeah, i hit a PR this morning."

      Deadlifting definitely helps any anger I might be experiencing.
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      Hehe I'm sorry I didn't give enough information. The people who are messing with me are 2yrs and 1 yr old. I'm one of those SAHM.

      that is pretty important information to not give out in the beginning.
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      that is pretty important information to not give out in the beginning.

      Well I didn't think the advice I'd be getting would be so alcohol oriented :wink:
      Given how it was all going I thought I should clarify a little.
    • Posts: 2,504 Member
      I take bubble baths. Lots and lots of bubble baths.
      Deep breaths
      Music
      Paint my nails
      Shoot something
      Dance
      Write
      Help someone else with a problem so the focus isn't so much on me. This also is a good way to put things into perspective sometimes. :)

      ....one or any combo of the above changes my mood instantly.
      Good luck! :flowerforyou:
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