When a girl says "It's okay", "I'm fine" etc etc
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Hubby: "What's wrong"
Me: "It's ok, I'm Fine" really means, ' I pissed off, don't ask me again as then I'm going to be so pissed off you're going to cope a mouth full".0 -
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She invited me to brunch to meet her parents, and I overslept lol.
You're screwed. I hope you like being on your knees...You're going to spend a lot of time there begging for forgiveness....
And not asking for forgiveness....
Hope you have good jaw muscles! 0 -
Probably means your tiny...
Never happened to me but yes probably is so right.0 -
because its not feminine to express your true feelings of anger, disappointment , rage or anything beyond peppy perky happy
because if you do you are obvi on your period which automatically invalidates anything you feel because periods are crazz
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I dont understand why you girls just dont say what you really mean? Is it that hard?
Well that's no fun0 -
I say what I mean. If I'm not fine, I'm probably TOO blunt. :laugh:0
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Is this the same girl you were posting about a month or so ago? The one that you are crazy in love with? You overslept, you disrespected her and her parents. You don't oversleep if something is really important to you.
This relationship is new and she probably doesn't want to rock the boat by telling you how much you have hurt her. Also, as women we are taught to behave and to not assert our feelings or demand respect. "Fine" usually means, "you have hurt me, but give me some time and I will try to get over it."
You should admit you screwed up and empower her to talk to you and discuss how you have hurt her. Don't get defensive or try to argue. Just listen and apologize.0 -
because its not feminine to express your true feelings of anger, disappointment , rage or anything beyond peppy perky happy
because if you do you are obvi on your period which automatically invalidates anything you feel because periods are crazz
Strong man-hate
not really0 -
I've seen it on either side, and have been guilty of it myself. I don't think it's a "woman" thing or a "man" thing to not express one's actual feelings, but a reluctance to face potentially confrontational situations.0
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because its not feminine to express your true feelings of anger, disappointment , rage or anything beyond peppy perky happy
because if you do you are obvi on your period which automatically invalidates anything you feel because periods are crazz
Strong man-hate
not really
Except yes, really. It is a ridiculous generalization based on observations of the lowest denominator of a gender. Just as ridiculous as assuming every angry woman is on her period.0 -
Is that before or after you socked her?0
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I dont understand why you girls just dont say what you really mean? Is it that hard?
I don't get why you couldn't get up in time??0 -
I dont understand why you girls just dont say what you really mean? Is it that hard?
To tell you all the words in our minds..You will be shocked to death,higher chance you will get hurtful words.
Thats why we say 'Its okay, I am fine'etc
Actually we are not okay and we are not fine, we just dont want to tell you the truth0 -
Today i learned that being inside a woman's mind is worse than being inside Jerry Sandusky's.I dont understand why you girls just dont say what you really mean? Is it that hard?
To tell you all the words in our minds..You will be shocked to death,higher chance you will get hurtful words.
Thats why we say 'Its okay, I am fine'etc
Actually we are not okay and we are not fine, we just dont want to tell you the truth0 -
you tell meI dont understand why you girls just dont say what you really mean? Is it that hard?
is it hard/?0 -
Today i learned that being inside a woman's mind is worse than being inside Jerry Sandusky's.I dont understand why you girls just dont say what you really mean? Is it that hard?
To tell you all the words in our minds..You will be shocked to death,higher chance you will get hurtful words.
Thats why we say 'Its okay, I am fine'etc
Actually we are not okay and we are not fine, we just dont want to tell you the truth
Huh?
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If she's an honest, non game-playing girl, she really means it's OK or she's fine.
If she lies, or plays games, she is upset with you.
Choose to date the former, not the latter.0 -
Today i learned that being inside a woman's mind is worse than being inside Jerry Sandusky's.I dont understand why you girls just dont say what you really mean? Is it that hard?
To tell you all the words in our minds..You will be shocked to death,higher chance you will get hurtful words.
Thats why we say 'Its okay, I am fine'etc
Actually we are not okay and we are not fine, we just dont want to tell you the truth
Yes..
Finally a man starting to understand women's minds are a MAZE.
Every words,decisions,actions that you have taken lead to different outcomes..
It's either you find yourself the sweetest angel or a horrifying Medusa..by the end of paths.
It's all up to you
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That it could be just that. She's okay, she's fine, etc. etc.0
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We'd probably tell you what as wrong more often if we weren't mocked for being too emotional and hormonal when we did.0
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Sleeping in and not making it to meet the parents means you are up poop creek without a paddle.
It makes you look immature, irresponsible, and uncaring. Pretty much the epitome of the opposite of what most parents want their daughter to be with. Good luck. I would suggest a grand gesture to make it up to the parents and show them that you are responsible, mature, and caring, otherwise there really is no point in continuing the relationship BC it will be over.0 -
Look into her eyes, listen carefully to her response..That will tell you a lot, either she's upset,pissed off or etc..
Either you comfort her, explain situation, just being there or you totally Back Off..All up to you.0 -
It means that this will not be the last you hear of this conversation0
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It mean 5, 4, 3, 2,
:sad: 0 -
This one guys should know:
1. It's NOT fine
2. Resolve this TODAY, or it will ruin tonight.0 -
That means GTFO!
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When a girl says she's okay, she's totally okay. We don't play childish mind games like that. :bigsmile:0
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If she's an honest, non game-playing girl, she really means it's OK or she's fine.
If she lies, or plays games, she is upset with you.
Choose to date the former, not the latter.
Exactly. And always assume women are the former. Take her words at face value unless you know she is someone who often says things she doesn't mean. That is true for men too, so it's actually more about learning an individual's communication style. And even if she isn't fine she clearly doesn't want to talk to you about it, so at the very least respect that.
Bottom line: never, ever assume a woman means the opposite of what she has said -- that approach will horribly backfire and could see you one day facing rape charges.
ETA: I see there is a specific conflict that has led to this. Have you apologised to her? Have you done what you can to remedy the situation? Have you arranged to meet her parents some time in future? Have you apologised to her family? If you have done this stuff then she probably really is fine. Just move on. If she can't do the same then perhaps she isn't a good person to stay in a relationship with.0
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