When a girl says "It's okay", "I'm fine" etc etc

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  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
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    Sleeping in and not making it to meet the parents means you are up poop creek without a paddle.

    It makes you look immature, irresponsible, and uncaring. Pretty much the epitome of the opposite of what most parents want their daughter to be with. Good luck. I would suggest a grand gesture to make it up to the parents and show them that you are responsible, mature, and caring, otherwise there really is no point in continuing the relationship BC it will be over.


    You're being a little dramatic

    So she tries to explain the situation and you call her dramatic but you can't work out why girls shrug things off instead of explaining them to you?

    Exactly, so who's the issue? Women
    Not really. The one you're "with".
    You say that you broke up with her, yet here you are, allowing her to "work things out" with you, after you "thought" you broke up with her.
    You either do or you don't. Simple.

    Give me a space to breath??
  • MyRummyHens
    MyRummyHens Posts: 141 Member
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    I swapped out "It's fine" or "I'm fine" for "I don't want to talk about this right now" many years ago. If she's angry then perhaps she wants to calm down and/or gain perspective before she deals with the situation.
  • kdeaux1959
    kdeaux1959 Posts: 2,675 Member
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    depends; cannot generalize really about this.
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
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    it means trolly mctroll has stuck again.
  • aarondnguyen
    aarondnguyen Posts: 270 Member
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    why bother trying to understand women anyway

    women understand women and they hate each other
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
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    why bother trying to understand women anyway

    women understand women and they hate each other
    Psh, I love me some women and I'm a female.
    -snugs all dem girls-
    B/c yeah.
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
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    why bother trying to understand women anyway

    women understand women and they hate each other
    Psh, I love me some women and I'm a female.
    -snugs all dem girls-
    B/c yeah.
    *smooches*
  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
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    why bother trying to understand women anyway

    women understand women and they hate each other
    Psh, I love me some women and I'm a female.
    -snugs all dem girls-
    B/c yeah.

    LMAO!! :flowerforyou: :drinker:
  • lookinggoodkel
    lookinggoodkel Posts: 1,235 Member
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    love this

    sooo true means we are not fine and your in soooooooooooooo much trouble that running would be a very good idea lol
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
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    love this

    sooo true means we are not fine and your in soooooooooooooo much trouble that running would be a very good idea lol
    Goes to show that everyone's different, and that's totally fine :flowerforyou:
    But when you find someone that's like you.. You hang onto that person and you do not let go.
  • avemaryama
    avemaryama Posts: 277 Member
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    why bother trying to understand women anyway

    women understand women and they hate each other
    Psh, I love me some women and I'm a female.
    -snugs all dem girls-
    B/c yeah.

    Big girlie hugs
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
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    love this

    sooo true means we are not fine and your in soooooooooooooo much trouble that running would be a very good idea lol
    Goes to show that everyone's different, and that's totally fine :flowerforyou:
    But when you find someone that's like you.. You hang onto that person and you do not let go.
    mmhm. :heart:
  • Rachelc1992
    Rachelc1992 Posts: 246 Member
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    It means it's okay and I'm fine!
    I had an ex who could not read between the lines, so why make the lines? If I was angry, I'd tell him and we'd sort it!
    There may have been the occasion when I wasn't fine but upset or something that I'd say it and want comfort. But never in anger! Or he'd think nothing was wrong and then where does that get us?

    Pft!
  • Dewymorning
    Dewymorning Posts: 762 Member
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    For me personally "I'm fine" usually means "I am trying to convince myself that I am fine because I don't like getting angry"

    Or at least in the context you presented.

    In the context of someone in the office asking "How are you?" "I'm fine" or "I'm ok" either means "I'm fine" or "I don't feel like talking right now".
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
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    Why not just be honest and say you don't want to talk about it lol.
    That does not compute in my head XD
    Having a hard time getting that, not going to lie!!!
  • Dewymorning
    Dewymorning Posts: 762 Member
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    Why not just be honest and say you don't want to talk about it lol.
    That does not compute in my head XD
    Having a hard time getting that, not going to lie!!!

    If that is directed at me, do you tell your work colleagues "I don't want to talk about how I am" when they ask you how you are in the kitchen, or do you just say "I am fine" or "I am tired" and move on with your life?

    Seriously, too many people in this world asking me questions I don't want to give them the answer to.

    /Introvert.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
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    Why not just be honest and say you don't want to talk about it lol.
    That does not compute in my head XD
    Having a hard time getting that, not going to lie!!!

    If that is directed at me, do you tell your work colleagues "I don't want to talk about how I am" when they ask you how you are in the kitchen, or do you just say "I am fine" or "I am tired" and move on with your life?

    Seriously, too many people in this world asking me questions I don't want to give them the answer to.

    /Introvert.
    Sounds like those people need to learn to keep their noses attached to their heads, if they don't respect your choice to not discuss what's bothering you. That's your own choice, not theirs o.o
    That's when I tell them if they want to talk later, to not forget I'm there. I'm not going to pry.
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
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    depends on the situation.
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
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    why bother trying to understand women anyway

    women understand women and they hate each other

    Not true... at least in my case.

    I don't understand a lot of women. And I only hate women who play BS passive aggressive games. Or talk trash about you for little or no reason.
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
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    Is this the same girl you were going to dump over text a few days ago?

    Well I thought I did, but she said no.. & now we are "working" things out idk anymore.

    No she wouldn't let you break up with her? Laughing over here.

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