When a girl says "It's okay", "I'm fine" etc etc

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  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    How about we lump all women together and assume they all mean exactly the same thing when they say stuff like that, and that they're all passive agressive. 'Cause that's pretty accurate, right? I mean it's ridiculous to think that a woman would actually tell you if something was wrong, or that if she says she's fine she means it. That would be crazy, right?
  • beernpizza2
    beernpizza2 Posts: 553 Member
    When I say I'm fine or I'm okay, it usually means I'm fine and just don't feel like talking a lot. If I'm mad, I'll let you know.
  • lucille_heather
    lucille_heather Posts: 650 Member
    when a girl says either of those things be prepared to run....
    things aren't fine at all.
    or surprise chocolates and flowers with a sincere apology work a treat.
    us girls are easily pleased. haha.
  • DamePiglet
    DamePiglet Posts: 3,730 Member
    It means that she's banging someone else and he does a much better job of taking care of business.

    At least that's what it means when it's said to you. :flowerforyou:
  • obrientp
    obrientp Posts: 546 Member
    It could mean she is upset about something, and doesn't want to talk about it right now. But, rest assured, you will be having a conversation about it later!
  • cuinboston2014
    cuinboston2014 Posts: 848 Member
    When I say it I'm usually fine or I know I'm over reacting about something myself and don't need to freak out on my husband over it. It's USUALLY over something so dumb that I don't even want to mention it.

    Every once in a while I say "I'm fine" to divert a topic I don't wan tto talk about. I don't like talking. And when he pushes adn I'm not really fine, the beast unleashes and fire comes out of my mouth...
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  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Going to go to her job today and bring her her favorite meal, and flowers.

    How sweet! Your mother obviously raised you right. :smile:
  • ComradeTovarich
    ComradeTovarich Posts: 495 Member
    Why are women so difficult?

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  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Why are women so difficult?

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    You could see better if you stopped pretending to live inside the Matrix with dem shades y'know
  • It means exactly the opposite!
  • ComradeTovarich
    ComradeTovarich Posts: 495 Member
    Why are women so difficult?

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    You could see better if you stopped pretending to live inside the Matrix with dem shades y'know

    Can't help it. I took the red pill, baby. Now I know kung fu.
  • NatiaGonitellie
    NatiaGonitellie Posts: 355 Member
    It means back off for what ever amount of time I need.
    Do not push me for an answer to what ever is wrong, I do not want to say something that can't be taken back.

    If I don't take the time to cool off, and just light into some one. I don't care anymore. I don't care about the damage an all out brawl will do to our relationship.

    For me.
    Its giving me time to express exactly what has pissed me off with out destroying my BF. (he is much more fun in one piece)
  • IIIIISerenityNowIIIII
    IIIIISerenityNowIIIII Posts: 425 Member
    Going to go to her job today and bring her her favorite meal, and flowers.

    Good! Hope it goes well.
  • lj5109
    lj5109 Posts: 81 Member
    Is this the same girl you were going to dump over text a few days ago?

    Well I thought I did, but she said no.. & now we are "working" things out idk anymore.

    Did you actually oversleep or is that the excuse you gave because you aren't ready to meet her parents?

    Also, who decides to take that kind of step when you almost broke up and are still "working things out"?
  • lj5109
    lj5109 Posts: 81 Member
    Going to go to her job today and bring her her favorite meal, and flowers.

    That's really cute. Did you do it because you felt bad or because she means something to you and you really want to work things out?
  • ComradeTovarich
    ComradeTovarich Posts: 495 Member
    Going to go to her job today and bring her her favorite meal, and flowers.

    That's really cute. Did you do it because you felt bad or because she means something to you and you really want to work things out?
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  • Go_Mizzou99
    Go_Mizzou99 Posts: 2,628 Member
    Huh? What? Were you talking to me? Was I supposed to be listening?

    ^^^This^^^ leads to "Never mind" and 3 days of silence lol.