Is it worth it to go to my sister-in-law wedding

Starlight_Shine

So my Man brother getting married!! But the problem is I dont want to go cause of her!!!
I know sounds selfish but if you knew what she did in the past you'd understand! For a story short she tried to split me and my man up and we were together for 7 years at that time and sister-in-law just met my man brother. It was terrible how she treated us and all. So she not even welcome in my house. For her to make things better she's gotta work for it which she hasnt she just been hiding.
Any who her wedding is a 3hr flight and it cost $1,100.00 for my man and I to go then we gotta rent a a car and find a pace to stay so the cost is going to be crazy!! is it worth it just for a wedding?

ComradeTovarich

Why do you keep calling him your man-brother?

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Achrya

Why do you keep calling him your man-brother?

I think she means her man's brother?

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EddieHaskell97

$1100 for airfare? For a little over half of that, you can buy:



Go now, do what must be done!

branflakes1980

Why do you keep calling him your man-brother?

I was wondering the same thing. LOL! It distracted me so much that I couldn't even focus on the question she was asking!

WeepingAngel81

I think I need a translation dictionary before I can decipher the code in the OP.

pawnstarNate

tell them you can't go but, they should Skype the wedding. That way you can put your mic on mute and talk about how ugly her dress is while you are smiling.

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eric_sg61

I think I need a translation dictionary before I can decipher the code in the OP.

Nah man it just 420code

3dogsrunning

I think I need a translation dictionary before I can decipher the code in the OP.

Seriously. The answer depends on who it is.

Is it your brother? How close are you? I'd say go for your own brother.

Is it your boyfriend's brother? Does he want to go? How close are they?

WeepingAngel81

I think I need a translation dictionary before I can decipher the code in the OP.

Nah man it just 420code

Ah! Of course! I knew I was missing something. I'm only hours from Colorado...be back soon! :smokin:

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

um, its your man's brother. I think he gets to decide if he wants to go or not.

_lyndseybrooke_

At first I thought the OP wasn't a native English-speaker, until I saw that she's from Canada. They speak English there...why don't you?

3dogsrunning

At first I thought the OP wasn't a native English-speaker, until I saw that she's from Canada. They speak English there...why don't you?

Technically we are a bilingual country with two offficial languages.

devil_in_a_blue_dress

I lol'd

patrickblo13

At first I thought the OP wasn't a native English-speaker, until I saw that she's from Canada. They speak English there...why don't you?

Well they sort of speak English

DebbieLyn63

I think I need a translation dictionary before I can decipher the code in the OP.

Nah man it just 420code

Ah, that explains it. Should have seen that in the user name. That stuff kills brain cells, and apparently in the region of her brain that composes sentences.:laugh:

Lisa1971

I wouldn't go!!!! Or go and get insanely drunk! LOL!

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

I wouldn't go!!!! Or go and get insanely drunk! LOL!

or high, maybe??

ComradeTovarich

$1100 for airfare? For a little over half of that, you can buy:



Go now, do what must be done!

Mirin dat Italian craftsmanship

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3dogsrunning

At first I thought the OP wasn't a native English-speaker, until I saw that she's from Canada. They speak English there...why don't you?

Well they sort of speak English

:laugh:

MinnieInMaine

Does your man want to go and is it important to him for you to go with him? If so, suck it up and do it for him. Be the bigger person and show that whatever wrong she did to you and you two as a couple, in the past didn't break you up, you survived.

I speak Canadian and 420.

madhatter2013

Ok so you've been with your boyfriend for over 7 years and his brother is getting married to a woman he hasn't known long that you despise due to her issues trying to break up you and your boyfriend. Sound about right? If that's the case, don't waste your money unless your boyfriend really wants to go and you can promise to not make a scene. It's not your place to tell his brother who he can and can't marry. Bite your tongue and try to get along. If she starts something, leave. Simple as that. Don't ruin his big day and more importantly, don't piss off or insult your man just because you don't get along with her.

skullshank

well, man....since it your man brother getting married and your man iz your man, i think you best ask your man what your man wants to do. if your man wants to go to your man brother wedding, then your man gonna go to your man brother wedding. if you dont wanna go to your man brother wedding and your man thinks that ok, then your man is ok with you not going to your man brother wedding. its so easy, man.

No_Finish_Line

i'm sure a group of strangers will give you the most thoughtfull advice

RockWarrior84

well, man....since it your man brother getting married and your man iz your man, i think you best ask your man what your man wants to do. if your man wants to go to your man brother wedding, then your man gonna go to your man brother wedding. if you dont wanna go to your man brother wedding and your man thinks that ok, then your man is ok with you not going to your man brother wedding. its so easy, man.

^^this....i think :huh: :huh:

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

well, man....since it your man brother getting married and your man iz your man, i think you best ask your man what your man wants to do. if your man wants to go to your man brother wedding, then your man gonna go to your man brother wedding. if you dont wanna go to your man brother wedding and your man thinks that ok, then your man is ok with you not going to your man brother wedding. its so easy, man.

to be fair, her man could leave her at home while he goes to man brothers wedding. It would save them $1100 in airfare and she could stop posting threads about not wanting to go.

tomomatic

Forgiveness is something you do for yourself. You've already won by proving her wrong.

If you intend on attending, I recommend talking things out beforehand. If not, consider doing it after the wedding. She's going to be a ball of nerves already with wedding stress.

Who needs the drama? Life has enough drama without someone manufacturing more.