Not seeing results - this close to giving up
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You're at a healthy BMI, so losing more weight is going to be a struggle. Plus, you're 18 and still growing.
If you would be okay at your current weight but would like to change your body composition (more muscle, less fat), what you want to do is called a body recomp. Do some searches on MFP for recomp threads -- there's a TON of great information here! It's a slow process, but over time you can gain a little muscle and lose some fat, so you'll become smaller and tighter overall without seeing the number on the scale change significantly.
Please listen to this!!! You are at a healthy weight and your caloric needs are higher due to age. Stop fighting this please. If you're dissatisfied with the distribution of fat on your body or have too much body fat, then it's time to focus on your muscles.
Everyone asking about thyroid or telling OP to eat less, do you see she is at a normal weight already?0 -
Maybe try eating a bit more. If you have been restrictive with your diet, which by looking at your log, you've been eating low cal for a while. Try aiming for around 1500 cals a day, and workout. This is what worked for me. I know we aren't the same, but try it for a week and see.0
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Op what are your goals?
My goals are to gain muscle but lose fat. Measurements, smaller size in clothing, etc. In the past two years I haven't changed my measurements even the slightest, which is what I'd like to do but can't seem to do this whole thing right.0 -
Though I am not sure what you are planning to give up on? It sounds like you have a regular routine with a good, healthy lifestyle. Why would you stop doing the things you are already doing? So you can add more fat onto your body? That sounds like cutting off your nose to spite your face?
To be honest, I don't know what I'd give up on. You're right, I do live a healthy lifestyle looking from the outside, but it's just my head that keeps messing with me since I don't see the results. It feels like I'm putting in way too much effort not to notice some change, but I really don't. Sometimes it feels like I want to just be like most people I know, eating whatever they like and working out when they feel like it, but then I remember that my body will thank me when I'm older and theirs will probably not. Sometimes it just feels like a duty rather than something I enjoy, although I love living this lifestyle, but when I don't notice any difference I just get discouraged. It'd be a lot easier if I saw only the smallest change, that'd keep me going in no time. But to just go on and on and on without results .. It gets though sometimes, especially since I don't even know if I'm doing it right. Thanks for your response, though.0 -
Don't give up! I understand completely how you feel, but it will be worth it. Just try to stick to one thing maybe, so aim for a calorie intake eg 1200 and exercise, like you're already doing, I'm and sure you'll see results, if you're a healthy weight, your body can plateau (stop reacting to diet), so up the anti would be my advice! But make sure you're still feeling healthy and fit!
I wish you all the best!0 -
Op what are your goals?
My goals are to gain muscle but lose fat. Measurements, smaller size in clothing, etc. In the past two years I haven't changed my measurements even the slightest, which is what I'd like to do but can't seem to do this whole thing right.
How long have you stick with a lifting and eating plan before you changed it? Muscle takes time to build which you have put in but it also takes being consistent with a lifting strategy and fueling your body to build muscle. This means to eat consistently at or slightly above maintaince.
I have just started my first bulk cycle and am excited to see the changes just like you are. I will be lifting 3x a week the first month and then up it to 4x. I am eating for a slight gain at 100-250 above my TDEE. I hope to add 10-15of muscle and no more than 5# of fat. This will up my weight by up to 20# but drop my bf% by an entire %.0 -
Log accurately and stick with it. your logging is all over the place and looks pretty inaccurate. Instead of chopping and changing do one thing correctly and consistently.0
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No advice I'm afraid but interesting reading as I'm just the same- within my healthy weight range but unhappy with the fat on my torso. Like you- I'm constantly changing things but I do it as I feel what's the point in continuing with something that doesn't work. Also like you I become obsessed but I think the obsession is more with trying to fathom this out because let's face it- are our lives going to be really transformed by getting rid of this fat. We both need to chill a bit, aim for a deficit if a few hundred calories and give it time.0
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Op what are your goals?
My goals are to gain muscle but lose fat. Measurements, smaller size in clothing, etc. In the past two years I haven't changed my measurements even the slightest, which is what I'd like to do but can't seem to do this whole thing right.
How long have you stick with a lifting and eating plan before you changed it? Muscle takes time to build which you have put in but it also takes being consistent with a lifting strategy and fueling your body to build muscle. This means to eat consistently at or slightly above maintaince.
I have just started my first bulk cycle and am excited to see the changes just like you are. I will be lifting 3x a week the first month and then up it to 4x. I am eating for a slight gain at 100-250 above my TDEE. I hope to add 10-15of muscle and no more than 5# of fat. This will up my weight by up to 20# but drop my bf% by an entire %.
Last year I did stronglifts 5x5 for about four months along with clean eating. This year I switched to the cardio-strength program I described earlier but I'm not sure that it's the best way to actually build strength .. Maybe I should focus on two muscle groups a day, three days a week like so many else do? And then combine with HIIT (as much as my knees can handle ..) How do you do?0 -
No advice I'm afraid but interesting reading as I'm just the same- within my healthy weight range but unhappy with the fat on my torso. Like you- I'm constantly changing things but I do it as I feel what's the point in continuing with something that doesn't work. Also like you I become obsessed but I think the obsession is more with trying to fathom this out because let's face it- are our lives going to be really transformed by getting rid of this fat. We both need to chill a bit, aim for a deficit if a few hundred calories and give it time.
This is exactly what I wonder: is my whole life going to revolve around trying to lose fat and not succeeding? That'd be terrible! But yeah, I hear you. Let's do as you say, try to stay with it and be patient and all that .. Maybe our results will come later rather than sooner! Wish you the best!0 -
Thank you all so much for taking the time to reply! About the logging in my food diary - a year or so ago I first started measuring my food, I ate around 1500 cals back then. When nothing happened for a couple of months I stopped and just eyed everything, which I know can easily lead to one getting too much food. Then, about four months ago, I started counting calories again - this time I aimed for 1350 cals a day. Too little, maybe? I don't know, I just wanted to try to eat less food I guess. But that didn't give me noticable results either, so I talked to a PT who told me not to count calories - just eat small meals 5-6 times a day. She also gave me this workout program which consists of a one hour session with both strength and a bit of cardio. It has six "groups", each group has two exercises, and I do the program x3 each time. It includes burpees, bench press, wide squats, regular squats etc. So that's what I'm doing right now besides the tabata and riding. I also sometimes go to classes like bodycombat or bodypump, and I absolutely love them both.
Like some of you said - yes, maybe my body thinks this weight is the ideal weight for me. I wouldn't mind if it was, I'm okay with that! It's just the way my body looks that isn't satisfying me. I'm around 98 cm where my stomach is the biggest - how could I make my measurements shorter? My body fat % is also high (I think, everything except for my arms is jiggly), so that's also what I want to change. Should I still count calories or is that just for losing the actual weight?
Any thoughts on this one?
I would figure out what your maintenance calories are and eat at maintenance so you don't lose any lean body mass. Then try Strong Lifts 5x5 or New Rules of Lifting for Women. Life Steph said be consistent with logging also and get plenty of protein. You may need to adjust your macros over time but first you need to just eat consistently for several months and lift consistently for several months and see what happens. Take pictures and measurements every two weeks and start watching for results. The scale may not change but you should see your clothes fit differently and your riding get stronger.
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Don't give up! I understand completely how you feel, but it will be worth it. Just try to stick to one thing maybe, so aim for a calorie intake eg 1200 and exercise, like you're already doing, I'm and sure you'll see results, if you're a healthy weight, your body can plateau (stop reacting to diet), so up the anti would be my advice! But make sure you're still feeling healthy and fit!
I wish you all the best!
The OP's goals are to gain muscle and lose fat so she needs to eat at least maintenance not at a deficit and 1200 is not enough for an 18 yr old girl who is probably still growing and has already expressed ED behaviors.0 -
With the 5x5 did you get stronger?Op what are your goals?
My goals are to gain muscle but lose fat. Measurements, smaller size in clothing, etc. In the past two years I haven't changed my measurements even the slightest, which is what I'd like to do but can't seem to do this whole thing right.
How long have you stick with a lifting and eating plan before you changed it? Muscle takes time to build which you have put in but it also takes being consistent with a lifting strategy and fueling your body to build muscle. This means to eat consistently at or slightly above maintaince.
I have just started my first bulk cycle and am excited to see the changes just like you are. I will be lifting 3x a week the first month and then up it to 4x. I am eating for a slight gain at 100-250 above my TDEE. I hope to add 10-15of muscle and no more than 5# of fat. This will up my weight by up to 20# but drop my bf% by an entire %.
Last year I did stronglifts 5x5 for about four months along with clean eating. This year I switched to the cardio-strength program I described earlier but I'm not sure that it's the best way to actually build strength .. Maybe I should focus on two muscle groups a day, three days a week like so many else do? And then combine with HIIT (as much as my knees can handle ..) How do you do?
To add muscle you need to eat more than your TDEE so your body has the building material to spend.0 -
THIS. I would say stick with something for a FULL month CONSISTENTLY. Then reassess.How long have you stuck with any one thing?
Calories in < calories out = weight loss
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Small calorie deficit is best for fat loss. Sounds like your exercise is good. And as others have said, your consistency is lacking. Changing to different methods constantly isn't going to help - it can take 4-6 weeks or longer for the body to adjust and show progress (or lack of it).Op what are your goals?
My goals are to gain muscle but lose fat. Measurements, smaller size in clothing, etc. In the past two years I haven't changed my measurements even the slightest, which is what I'd like to do but can't seem to do this whole thing right.
"Eating clean" doesn't guarantee weight loss, a calorie deficit does. Great post here on this very subject: http://www.healthylivingheavylifting.com/how-clean-eating-made-me-fat-but-ice-cream-and-subway-got-me-lean/I am an active person, and I eat clean, what is it that I'm missing?
You've gotten some great advice in this topic - take it. Stick with a consistent plan for a couple of months. Take photos and measurements, and then reassess and make changes as/if needed. Patience!0 -
I'm having the same problem. I've been working out (gym and classes) for 6 months, watching my calories, drinking water, cutting back on the things that actually taste good, etc. I haven't lost a single pound. All my measurements are exactly the same. I have lost 1/4 inch in my arm though. I refuse to do the "fad" diets or take any pill that isn't prescribed by my doctor. I have a heart condition as it is and I will not risk killing myself with all these "natural" pills. ~Yes, Ace and Plexis are both stimulants that cause the heart to speed up. This can/will cause damage in the future~ I finally gave up and went to see my doctor. I had reached a point of giving up. My doctor ran several test and found that a hormone imbalance was the problem. Since it was only two weeks ago that this was discovered I haven't had another weigh in yet but I can feel my clothes fitting differently, finally! So maybe, you aren't doing anything wrong. There could be several other underlying conditions.0
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Okay this might help since it helped me. For most people the laws of fat loss/muscle gain are simple but for people who are pure ectomorphic/endomorphic body types the rules can shift a little.
I am a pure endomorph myself. This means that refined carbs have to leave the menu on any occasion other than directly after a workout. And even then with restraint. My body is inefficient at burning these carbs and most of them end up on my waistline. This makes fat loss very hard. On the other hand muscle gain is relatively easy. Even when losing weight. And it is difficult to overtrain. At least this is my experience with it.
From what I Understand an ectomorph is an energy furnace. And you simply must keep feeding it because it goes catabolic very easily. And in the absence of fat muscle is quickly catabolised. Making lean muscle growth extremely difficult. However keeping body fat down is almost never a problem for the pure ectomorph. Ectomorphs should eat alot of carbs. Regularly as possible. Preferably slow burners but fast burners aren't much of an issue. While of course maintaining a good protein intake. If they wish to grow. Training has to be kept relatively low as well as their fast burning bodies quickly deplete themselves.
It should be noted that the vast majority of people are not pure ectomorphs or pure endomorphs. These are the people that genuinely balloon after looking at a doughnut. Or simply will not gain weight no matter what they do. Some people have tendencies but a pure endo or ecto body is rather rare.
That is my understanding of it anyway.0 -
I'm having the same problem. I've been working out (gym and classes) for 6 months, watching my calories, drinking water, cutting back on the things that actually taste good, etc. I haven't lost a single pound. All my measurements are exactly the same. I have lost 1/4 inch in my arm though. I refuse to do the "fad" diets or take any pill that isn't prescribed by my doctor. I have a heart condition as it is and I will not risk killing myself with all these "natural" pills. ~Yes, Ace and Plexis are both stimulants that cause the heart to speed up. This can/will cause damage in the future~ I finally gave up and went to see my doctor. I had reached a point of giving up. My doctor ran several test and found that a hormone imbalance was the problem. Since it was only two weeks ago that this was discovered I haven't had another weigh in yet but I can feel my clothes fitting differently, finally! So maybe, you aren't doing anything wrong. There could be several other underlying conditions.
Do you mind sharing what was the hormonal imbalance? Thyroid, cortisol, etc.?0 -
Just to save you the grief............................somatotyping isn't a science. It was developed by a psychiatrist.Okay this might help since it helped me. For most people the laws of fat loss/muscle gain are simple but for people who are pure ectomorphic/endomorphic body types the rules can shift a little.
I am a pure endomorph myself. This means that refined carbs have to leave the menu on any occasion other than directly after a workout. And even then with restraint. My body is inefficient at burning these carbs and most of them end up on my waistline. This makes fat loss very hard. On the other hand muscle gain is relatively easy. Even when losing weight. And it is difficult to overtrain. At least this is my experience with it.
From what I Understand an ectomorph is an energy furnace. And you simply must keep feeding it because it goes catabolic very easily. And in the absence of fat muscle is quickly catabolised. Making lean muscle growth extremely difficult. However keeping body fat down is almost never a problem for the pure ectomorph. Ectomorphs should eat alot of carbs. Regularly as possible. Preferably slow burners but fast burners aren't much of an issue. While of course maintaining a good protein intake. If they wish to grow. Training has to be kept relatively low as well as their fast burning bodies quickly deplete themselves.
It should be noted that the vast majority of people are not pure ectomorphs or pure endomorphs. These are the people that genuinely balloon after looking at a doughnut. Or simply will not gain weight no matter what they do. Some people have tendencies but a pure endo or ecto body is rather rare.
That is my understanding of it anyway.
While genetics will somewhat dictate metabolic rate at the smallest measuring level, people who are are any "morph" are that way due to how they eat and how they are with their physical activity.
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There are several things that affect hormones. In my case, it was problems with ovarian cysts and uterine fibroids.0
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^^This. You're getting some good advice in here and some really strange advice. If I understand correctly, you don't have any kind of medical issue and it's not that you have a ton of weight to lose and can't get started, right? Based on the information you've given us, there's no reason for anyone to be talking to you about unusual medical conditions -- you're at a healthy weight, so you want to start a plan that will let you gain some muscle and lose a little bit of fat.I would figure out what your maintenance calories are and eat at maintenance so you don't lose any lean body mass. Then try Strong Lifts 5x5 or New Rules of Lifting for Women. Life Steph said be consistent with logging also and get plenty of protein. You may need to adjust your macros over time but first you need to just eat consistently for several months and lift consistently for several months and see what happens. Take pictures and measurements every two weeks and start watching for results. The scale may not change but you should see your clothes fit differently and your riding get stronger.
Good luck.
If you are trying to get stronger/gain muscle, eating at more of a deficit isn't going to help you at all. No more 1100ish calorie days!
Eat at maintenence and find a lifting program you can stick with for 4-6 months to start with. "Progressive" is a word you're going to hear a lot (as in, a progressive lifting program). That just means that you keep adding weight over time, and it's one of the keys to building muscle. Doing a body recomp is a slow process, so you need to be patient and celebrate the small victories.
Why did you stop SL5x5 after four months? I mean, I'm assuming that you didn't see results, but did you dislike the program? I found it to be incredibly dull, personally. You might like New Rules of Lifting for Women better. Whatever you choose, stay with it for months before deciding you'd like to change it up.
My biggest piece of advice is to rely on pictures and measurements instead of the scale. With a body recomp, you get tighter and more compact but the scale doesn't make major changes. Since you're at a healthy weight already, the number on the scale doesn't matter as long as your clothes still fit.0 -
Just to save you the grief............................somatotyping isn't a science. It was developed by a psychiatrist.Okay this might help since it helped me. For most people the laws of fat loss/muscle gain are simple but for people who are pure ectomorphic/endomorphic body types the rules can shift a little.
I am a pure endomorph myself. This means that refined carbs have to leave the menu on any occasion other than directly after a workout. And even then with restraint. My body is inefficient at burning these carbs and most of them end up on my waistline. This makes fat loss very hard. On the other hand muscle gain is relatively easy. Even when losing weight. And it is difficult to overtrain. At least this is my experience with it.
From what I Understand an ectomorph is an energy furnace. And you simply must keep feeding it because it goes catabolic very easily. And in the absence of fat muscle is quickly catabolised. Making lean muscle growth extremely difficult. However keeping body fat down is almost never a problem for the pure ectomorph. Ectomorphs should eat alot of carbs. Regularly as possible. Preferably slow burners but fast burners aren't much of an issue. While of course maintaining a good protein intake. If they wish to grow. Training has to be kept relatively low as well as their fast burning bodies quickly deplete themselves.
It should be noted that the vast majority of people are not pure ectomorphs or pure endomorphs. These are the people that genuinely balloon after looking at a doughnut. Or simply will not gain weight no matter what they do. Some people have tendencies but a pure endo or ecto body is rather rare.
That is my understanding of it anyway.
While genetics will somewhat dictate metabolic rate at the smallest measuring level, people who are are any "morph" are that way due to how they eat and how they are with their physical activity.
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Perhaps so .. I have had enough grief with false leads on weight loss before. However even though it is not perhaps genetic those types do seem to exist. And I found the advice on macro ratio's and diet to be very true and applicable to me. Wether those "types" are created by habits that change your metabolism or by genes I still believe that the information I provided above would be of use to some people. It was certainly of use to me. For a long time I struggled to lose more than 10 - 12 lb's without bounceback. Since tailoring my diet to my body type I have lost weight slowly but consistently and am now 44lb down after nearly 3 months. That's not bad results
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Honestly, that sounds ridiculous.
"I'm not seeing results, so therefore I'm going to quit."
Why not do it for your health most of all?
Why not be consistent and form habits to GET the results you want?
If you dropped your phone and cracked it, would you just give up on the phone and stomp on it? No, you wouldn't. So just because you're not seeing the results you want YET, doesn't mean you should just throw in the towel because you think you're not getting anywhere. The biggest changes start on the inside.
I may have expressed myself a bit wrong - I won't quit, I'm just getting frustrated of trying and trying for two years without seeming to find what works for me.. I'm not even sure what I'd quit on, so yeah, you're right, it really does sound ridiculous. Thanks for putting it that way, though, I know now I will definitely not give up, but yeah, like I said, it's just so frustrating! Don't know what I'd do though, except for keep eating healthy and working out .. It's not like I want to go back to not caring about what I put in my body etc. So I'll keep up with my healthy lifestyle, just thinking that some results would be nice! Thanks again. Really, I mean it.
Anytime! Keep up the good work, we know you can do it!0
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