Good men need a round of applause!

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  • 120by30
    120by30 Posts: 217 Member
    You must have read the same blanket statement I read earlier about American men being horrible.....
  • _KitKat_
    _KitKat_ Posts: 1,066 Member
    You must have read the same blanket statement I read earlier about American men being horrible.....

    Nope but that is the stuff I am talking about.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    You must have read the same blanket statement I read earlier about American men being horrible.....

    Pffft. I am American and I am delightful.
  • SweetJoanne
    SweetJoanne Posts: 106 Member
    i have a really good guy, he still opens car doors for me, sometimes shows up with flowers, and just treats me nice. Never tells me I am fat, tells me to dress comfortable even though I like to dress up for him. He tells me not to wear make up he loves me just the way I am. Was married to a man who never gave complements in our 17 years of marriage and 4 years dating he never told me he loved me once said he didn't know what it was, never bought me anything, told me when I dressed up with garter belt and stockings (and was very slim) that I looked like a strung up chicken. Alcohol was # 1 in his life, which is why I divorced him
  • _KitKat_
    _KitKat_ Posts: 1,066 Member
    You must have read the same blanket statement I read earlier about American men being horrible.....

    Pffft. I am American and I am delightful.

    Not sure that smirk looks like trouble :huh:
  • Brandolin11
    Brandolin11 Posts: 492 Member
    Some of us are just very shy and hard to meet!

    And cute! Wouldn't you agree, bethany0504? :wink:
  • Isakizza
    Isakizza Posts: 754 Member
    I'm adding my husband to this awesome men list!!!!!
    Been together for 18+ years, he's a wonderful man.

    :heart: :drinker: :heart:

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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    You must have read the same blanket statement I read earlier about American men being horrible.....

    Pffft. I am American and I am delightful.

    Not sure that smirk looks like trouble :huh:

    I am amused by my own smartass nature.
  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
    Yea, well, they must all be TAKEN!!! :grumble: As you post points out...

    I'm not taken!
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    This a nice, positive thread that some people are reading into just a bit too much. No need to overanalyze it or turn it into something negative. Love the good men! :drinker:
  • SGM_Adonis
    SGM_Adonis Posts: 1,565 Member
    Some men have learned how to be good men by being raised by a good man or a good woman. Others, have learned how to be a good man by knowing who they DON'T want to be like.

    It's a good thread, too bad some have to come and stink it up.
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    Some of us are just very shy and hard to meet!

    And cute! Wouldn't you agree, bethany0504? :wink:

    perhaps... :drinker:
  • _KitKat_
    _KitKat_ Posts: 1,066 Member
    Some of us are just very shy and hard to meet!

    And cute! Wouldn't you agree, bethany0504? :wink:

    perhaps... :drinker:

    I saw a thread the other day about MFPer's meeting their SO here. There were many happy stories :love: Hint.Hint
  • Fullsterkur_woman
    Fullsterkur_woman Posts: 2,712 Member
    Some men have learned how to be good men by being raised by a good man or a good woman. Others, have learned how to be a good man by knowing who they DON'T want to be like.

    It's a good thread, too bad some have to come and stink it up.
    I'm sorry about that... I bathe regularly, but my doctor just hasn't figured out the problem yet.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Some of us are just very shy and hard to meet!

    And cute! Wouldn't you agree, bethany0504? :wink:

    perhaps... :drinker:

    Quickly, ask his credit score, the summary of his portfolio, if he owns or rents, how many vehicles and recreationals vehicles he has, and if his pool is above or below ground!
  • Brandolin11
    Brandolin11 Posts: 492 Member
    Some of us are just very shy and hard to meet!

    And cute! Wouldn't you agree, bethany0504? :wink:

    perhaps... :drinker:

    Quickly, ask his credit score, the summary of his portfolio, if he owns or rents, how many vehicles and recreationals vehicles he has, and if his pool is above or below ground!

    Haha! First things first...is he breathing?
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Some of us are just very shy and hard to meet!

    And cute! Wouldn't you agree, bethany0504? :wink:

    perhaps... :drinker:

    Quickly, ask his credit score, the summary of his portfolio, if he owns or rents, how many vehicles and recreationals vehicles he has, and if his pool is above or below ground!

    Haha! First things first...is he breathing?

    You need to work on your priorities! :angry:
  • _KitKat_
    _KitKat_ Posts: 1,066 Member
    Some of us are just very shy and hard to meet!

    And cute! Wouldn't you agree, bethany0504? :wink:

    perhaps... :drinker:

    Quickly, ask his credit score, the summary of his portfolio, if he owns or rents, how many vehicles and recreationals vehicles he has, and if his pool is above or below ground!

    Haha! First things first...is he breathing?

    You need to work on your priorities! :angry:

    Right not breathing means not disagreeing.
  • ThinLizzie0802
    ThinLizzie0802 Posts: 863 Member
    Good men need a round of apple sauce
  • Blacklance36
    Blacklance36 Posts: 755 Member
    i have a really good guy, he still opens car doors for me, sometimes shows up with flowers, and just treats me nice. Never tells me I am fat, tells me to dress comfortable even though I like to dress up for him. He tells me not to wear make up he loves me just the way I am. Was married to a man who never gave complements in our 17 years of marriage and 4 years dating he never told me he loved me once said he didn't know what it was, never bought me anything, told me when I dressed up with garter belt and stockings (and was very slim) that I looked like a strung up chicken. Alcohol was # 1 in his life, which is why I divorced him

    Luck lady!
    Its not easy to find someone that loves you just the way you are and always says complimentary things..

    Only an idiot would say that to a lady who was all dressed up in garters.

    Bet you are also doing the right things for him....LOL

    FR sent!
  • hopper602
    hopper602 Posts: 204 Member
    great way to start the weekend knowing these amazing ladies appreciate me!!!!
  • SweetJoanne
    SweetJoanne Posts: 106 Member
    Yes Blacklance I treat him good to we have a fantastic sex life he never has to go without, also I do nice things for him. I am going to see him next week and while he is at work I will clean his house, take his dog for a walk, cook him a nice supper, send him off to work in a happy satisfied way, then look after his needs again that night. It is give and take and nice to have a good man
  • SweetJoanne
    SweetJoanne Posts: 106 Member
    Yes Blacklance I treat him good to we have a fantastic sex life he never has to go without, also I do nice things for him. I am going to see him next week and while he is at work I will clean his house, take his dog for a walk, cook him a nice supper, send him off to work in a happy satisfied way, then look after his needs again that night. It is give and take and nice to have a good man
  • SweetJoanne
    SweetJoanne Posts: 106 Member
    April 25, 2014 3:17 PMYes Blacklance I treat him good to we have a fantastic sex life he never has to go without, also I do nice things for him. I am going to see him next week and while he is at work I will clean his house, take his dog for a walk, cook him a nice supper, send him off to work in a happy satisfied way, then look after his needs again that night. It is give and take and nice to have a good man
  • Blacklance36
    Blacklance36 Posts: 755 Member
    April 25, 2014 3:17 PMYes Blacklance I treat him good to we have a fantastic sex life he never has to go without, also I do nice things for him. I am going to see him next week and while he is at work I will clean his house, take his dog for a walk, cook him a nice supper, send him off to work in a happy satisfied way, then look after his needs again that night. It is give and take and nice to have a good man

    Wow, 3 responses. I'm going to call you Triple J...ha ha

    Seriously though, its no wonder he does the things you say he does.
    So, sex, sandwiches, and house cleaning?
    Maybe you two could teach a marriage course.
    Lucky lady, lucky guy.

    You are clearly good people.
    I'm giving both of you a round of applause.
  • Fullsterkur_woman
    Fullsterkur_woman Posts: 2,712 Member
    April 25, 2014 3:17 PMYes Blacklance I treat him good to we have a fantastic sex life he never has to go without, also I do nice things for him. I am going to see him next week and while he is at work I will clean his house, take his dog for a walk, cook him a nice supper, send him off to work in a happy satisfied way, then look after his needs again that night. It is give and take and nice to have a good man

    Wow, 3 responses. I'm going to call you Triple J...ha ha

    Seriously though, its no wonder he does the things you say he does.
    So, sex, sandwiches, and house cleaning?
    Maybe you two could teach a marriage course.
    Lucky lady, lucky guy.

    You are clearly good people.
    I'm giving both of you a round of applause.
    Yeah, I especially like the part where it's his house, his dog, his needs.

    Every marriage is a law unto itself, but that skeeves me right the eff out.
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    Some of us are just very shy and hard to meet!

    And cute! Wouldn't you agree, bethany0504? :wink:

    perhaps... :drinker:

    Quickly, ask his credit score, the summary of his portfolio, if he owns or rents, how many vehicles and recreationals vehicles he has, and if his pool is above or below ground!

    LOL!!!

    You got it dude!!! No one is EVER gonna Smooch/leach/live/take what little money I have/whatever off me AGAIN!!!! EVER!!!! can you tell I've had a VERY BAD experience??? LOL!!! :flowerforyou:
  • mjbowman821
    mjbowman821 Posts: 66 Member
    The best thing I heard on the topic was the speaker said "Men, you are NOT God's gift to women but you are God's gift to your wife." I cherish the cards that my wife wrote to me that were very heartfelt and I still like to read them from time to time.
    I can honestly say that I honored all my marriage vows.
    "For better for worse
    For richer or poorer
    In sickness and in health
    Till death do us part. 7/24/99-1/10/14
    I miss you sweetie
  • EricJonrosh
    EricJonrosh Posts: 823 Member
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    Posted another thread, and it was so great to see all the women with awesome SO's, I just had to post this. On the forum much too often all we hear is about the "bad" guys. People need to know and appreciate that there are many good men out there!

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  • onefortyone
    onefortyone Posts: 531 Member
    The best thing I heard on the topic was the speaker said "Men, you are NOT God's gift to women but you are God's gift to your wife." I cherish the cards that my wife wrote to me that were very heartfelt and I still like to read them from time to time.
    I can honestly say that I honored all my marriage vows.
    "For better for worse
    For richer or poorer
    In sickness and in health
    Till death do us part. 7/24/99-1/10/14
    I miss you sweetie

    This brought tears to my eyes and it is very sweet. You deserve a round of applause, or apple sauce, whichever :)