How do you handle it when...

Chieflrg
Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
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someone says "I love you" in a newer relationship that you clearly are not on that level yet?
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  • tlcarolinagirl
    tlcarolinagirl Posts: 1,700 Member
    Just smile and say "uh huh"....or act like you didn't hear it?? Eeeeek!
  • iwannabinnarnia
    iwannabinnarnia Posts: 179 Member
    say thank you
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    say thank you
  • cheekym7
    cheekym7 Posts: 570 Member
    fukkin run... :) or pretend you didn't hear it.
  • walleyclan1
    walleyclan1 Posts: 2,784 Member
    Say "I love cake"
  • Lilly_the_Hillbilly
    Lilly_the_Hillbilly Posts: 914 Member
    Just tell them that you enjoy being with them but have not reached that emotional realm yet... or something to that effect.
  • Derp_Diggler
    Derp_Diggler Posts: 1,456 Member
    LOL! I didn't say "I love you". I said "I'd love you to give me a reach around." No wonder things got so awkward.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Tell him to bend over.
  • darkguardian419
    darkguardian419 Posts: 1,302 Member
    I've always said "That's nice".
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Just tell them that you enjoy being with them but have not reached that emotional realm yet... or something to that effect.

    Yup.
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    I said "thanks", then changed the subject.
  • JamericanBoy
    JamericanBoy Posts: 484 Member
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  • drgmac
    drgmac Posts: 716 Member
    Turn your head and cough.
  • Iceberg_Simpson
    Iceberg_Simpson Posts: 737 Member
    I throat punch them to keep them in check.
  • Derpes
    Derpes Posts: 2,033 Member
    Just explain the science of infatuation and hope that they take it well.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Wait... Was their alcohol involved?


    Not that that would change my answer, but still. Important.
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    I run away.
  • LC458
    LC458 Posts: 300 Member
    Just tell them that you enjoy being with them but have not reached that emotional realm yet... or something to that effect.

    This^^ keep it simple
  • IPAkiller
    IPAkiller Posts: 711 Member
    Smile, gently push her head back down and continue watching the game.
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  • skippygirlsmom
    skippygirlsmom Posts: 4,433 Member
    Ask if they know your last name, if not way too soon and just shake your head.
  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
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    WINNER :love:
  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
    date them for 6 yrs. no, wait--that's what NOT to do... :embarassed:
  • Saucy_lil_Minx
    Saucy_lil_Minx Posts: 3,302 Member
    * Pat them gentle on the thigh, and say I really like you too!

    * or tell them that's nice. I love me too!

    If that can't handle it.... or if all else fails.....

    RUN AWAY!!!
  • skrlec70
    skrlec70 Posts: 302 Member
    RUN
  • Candi_land
    Candi_land Posts: 1,311 Member
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  • fayefayee5
    fayefayee5 Posts: 87 Member
    It is most certainly always awkward.

    My ex said it whilst we were laid in bed... so I just smiled ... said "awwh" and hugged/kissed him. It was 100% awkward but I wasnt going to fake my feelings.... I think we'd been dating about 2 months at that point.
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    Wait... Was their alcohol involved?


    Not that that would change my answer, but still. Important.
    No, but just aboutevery time its happened its was right after a vigorous pickle tickle was involved.
  • bd0027
    bd0027 Posts: 1,053 Member
    I replied with, "okay" one time. I panicked under pressure.
  • skippygirlsmom
    skippygirlsmom Posts: 4,433 Member
    Wait... Was their alcohol involved?


    Not that that would change my answer, but still. Important.
    No, but just aboutevery time its happened its was right after a vigorous pickle tickle was involved.

    Maybe she was talking to your "pickle"
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I usually just say "Really? Well that's so sweet!." I don't say I love you to many people.

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