What should I wear to look fit?

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  • tiptoethruthetulips
    tiptoethruthetulips Posts: 3,373 Member
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    And I could wear perfume and do a nice makeup look to distract him from looking at my body.
    You're kidding right? No, I'm totally serious on my question. I know that comment is a joke, right?

    I imagine she is quite serious if I am correct I my assumption of her previous identities....maya daya, catlady, bright crystal...

    Won't we long before we hear about her dog that isn't her dog and the wine taster she recently attended wearing said perfume...oh and her fashion blog.
  • Transatlantic20145
    Transatlantic20145 Posts: 94
    You're 18 lbs over the lowest healthy weight for your height. So, if you're 5'4", that means you weigh about 128 lbs. And you're worried that your personal trainer is going to think, "wow, she sure is overweight." If you're only 18 lbs over the lowest healthy weight for your height, you're considered in the healthy weight range. I don't think the issue is that you have a "thick middle" - I think the issue is that you have some serious body image issues. You'd need a therapist to work that out, not slimming workout clothes. I'm 95% sure you're lying about getting comments from customers about your body.

    Wow. I didn't put this all together. Thank you for breaking this down.

    OP - she's right. You are a healthy weight. I'm confused as to why you would be so self conscious that you can't meet your 50 year old trainer for coffee without so much stress. I'm sure a lot of it is in your head...

    Also, I'm 5'4 and 136 pounds. No one has ever come up to me to comment on my body, except for men at bars who feel a need to comment on my butt. And even that doesn't happen to often. Are you pulling these comments out of people? Where do you live? It just doesn't make any sense.

    In my culture it's much more acceptable to comment on people's weight/appearance and thin = beautiful. I don't necessarily subscribe to this viewpoint, but many do, and so the fact that my stomach is quite flabby often gets comments.

    Tiptoe - not sure what point you're trying to make, but that was personal training at a gym. Now I'm looking for a personal trainer to work with in the long term.

    Thanks Caesar! :)

    British - Good point!

    ValGogo - not joking...I really do feel quite self conscious...
  • brianpperkins
    brianpperkins Posts: 6,124 Member
    You're 18 lbs over the lowest healthy weight for your height. So, if you're 5'4", that means you weigh about 128 lbs. And you're worried that your personal trainer is going to think, "wow, she sure is overweight." If you're only 18 lbs over the lowest healthy weight for your height, you're considered in the healthy weight range. I don't think the issue is that you have a "thick middle" - I think the issue is that you have some serious body image issues. You'd need a therapist to work that out, not slimming workout clothes. I'm 95% sure you're lying about getting comments from customers about your body.

    Wow. I didn't put this all together. Thank you for breaking this down.

    OP - she's right. You are a healthy weight. I'm confused as to why you would be so self conscious that you can't meet your 50 year old trainer for coffee without so much stress. I'm sure a lot of it is in your head...

    Also, I'm 5'4 and 136 pounds. No one has ever come up to me to comment on my body, except for men at bars who feel a need to comment on my butt. And even that doesn't happen to often. Are you pulling these comments out of people? Where do you live? It just doesn't make any sense.

    In my culture it's much more acceptable to comment on people's weight/appearance and thin = beautiful. I don't necessarily subscribe to this viewpoint, but many do, and so the fact that my stomach is quite flabby often gets comments.

    Tiptoe - not sure what point you're trying to make, but that was personal training at a gym. Now I'm looking for a personal trainer to work with in the long term.

    Thanks Caesar! :)

    British - Good point!

    ValGogo - not joking...I really do feel quite self conscious...

    What culture is that?
  • Transatlantic20145
    Transatlantic20145 Posts: 94
    Asian culture.
  • mereditheve
    mereditheve Posts: 142 Member
    HAHAHA, Love this!

    The best way to LOOK fit is to BE fit. And if you're honest about your body today, you'll appreciate your transformation that much more tomorrow. I realize you're self conscious, but you just have to get over that. Wear comfortable clothes that you can actually work out in! Not something too tight you can hardly move or something so heavy that you're sweating buckets.
    This:
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  • brianpperkins
    brianpperkins Posts: 6,124 Member
    Asian culture.

    Asia is a big place with multiple cultures. The cultural norms of Siberia differ from those in Cambodia.
  • tiptoethruthetulips
    tiptoethruthetulips Posts: 3,373 Member
    Asian culture.

    In Taiwan?
  • Transatlantic20145
    Transatlantic20145 Posts: 94
    HAHAHA, Love this!

    The best way to LOOK fit is to BE fit. And if you're honest about your body today, you'll appreciate your transformation that much more tomorrow. I realize you're self conscious, but you just have to get over that. Wear comfortable clothes that you can actually work out in! Not something too tight you can hardly move or something so heavy that you're sweating buckets.
    This:
    suns_out_guns_out_sleeveless_shirt-r8ab3a46217864a899db97227e324aa63_8naxu_512.jpg

    Thanks. Difficult to change my hangups overnight. We're not working out the first time. I want to talk to him first and see if I'm convinced to pay a premium ;) He charges quite a bit haha.

    I'm in Korea :)
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I suggest finding a therapist to work on your body image issues with.
  • Transatlantic20145
    Transatlantic20145 Posts: 94
    I suggest finding a therapist to work on your body image issues with.

    I don't think I need that much...just want to lose some weight and look fit :)
  • daynerz
    daynerz Posts: 227 Member
    Wear all black
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    Sometimes I go to a restaurant and bring my own food. B/C I don't want to bother the waiter.
  • IPAkiller
    IPAkiller Posts: 711 Member
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  • caesar164
    caesar164 Posts: 312 Member
    You're 18 lbs over the lowest healthy weight for your height. So, if you're 5'4", that means you weigh about 128 lbs. And you're worried that your personal trainer is going to think, "wow, she sure is overweight." If you're only 18 lbs over the lowest healthy weight for your height, you're considered in the healthy weight range. I don't think the issue is that you have a "thick middle" - I think the issue is that you have some serious body image issues. You'd need a therapist to work that out, not slimming workout clothes. I'm 95% sure you're lying about getting comments from customers about your body.

    Wow. I didn't put this all together. Thank you for breaking this down.

    OP - she's right. You are a healthy weight. I'm confused as to why you would be so self conscious that you can't meet your 50 year old trainer for coffee without so much stress. I'm sure a lot of it is in your head...

    Also, I'm 5'4 and 136 pounds. No one has ever come up to me to comment on my body, except for men at bars who feel a need to comment on my butt. And even that doesn't happen to often. Are you pulling these comments out of people? Where do you live? It just doesn't make any sense.

    In my culture it's much more acceptable to comment on people's weight/appearance and thin = beautiful. I don't necessarily subscribe to this viewpoint, but many do, and so the fact that my stomach is quite flabby often gets comments.

    Tiptoe - not sure what point you're trying to make, but that was personal training at a gym. Now I'm looking for a personal trainer to work with in the long term.

    Thanks Caesar! :)

    British - Good point!

    ValGogo - not joking...I really do feel quite self conscious...
    I had a feeling you weren't from the US; just because of those type of comments. Here in the US, people don't take that shi... You'll get a quick F U, and maybe a swift kick to the balls! Just kidding lol, you know us, we like violence! Again, just kidding! Were a fun loving people, just keep your negative thoughts and comments to yourself, and well be fine lol.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I suggest finding a therapist to work on your body image issues with.

    I don't think I need that much...just want to lose some weight and look fit :)

    Sweetie, you are looking for ways to trick a personal trainer into thinking you are fitter than you actually are. It is like going to a doctor with a cold and trying to convince him that you arent sick but still want treatment.

    It is silly and more than a little crazy. Seek help.
  • caesar164
    caesar164 Posts: 312 Member
    I suggest finding a therapist to work on your body image issues with.

    Hey, I'm sorry, but I think your *kitten* is sticking out? Just thought you should know...,:tongue:
  • notamoment
    notamoment Posts: 190 Member
    I was more worried about the giant *kitten* imprint of sweat i kept having to wipe up rather then what i was wearing hahah, wear what your comfortable in if he is a good PT he will make you work VERY hard! You might wanna be comfortable ;)
  • AllonsYtotheTardis
    AllonsYtotheTardis Posts: 16,947 Member
    Trainers, like doctors and massage therapists, have seen the crazy variety the human form can take. Don't let it bother you - it certainly won't bother him.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I suggest finding a therapist to work on your body image issues with.

    Hey, I'm sorry, but I think your *kitten* is sticking out? Just thought you should know...,:tongue:

    Feel free to stare.
  • WilmaDennis91
    WilmaDennis91 Posts: 433 Member
    Wear something comfortable, the trainer is not going to judge you because you came to see your trainer to help yourself get better.
  • Transatlantic20145
    Transatlantic20145 Posts: 94
    You're 18 lbs over the lowest healthy weight for your height. So, if you're 5'4", that means you weigh about 128 lbs. And you're worried that your personal trainer is going to think, "wow, she sure is overweight." If you're only 18 lbs over the lowest healthy weight for your height, you're considered in the healthy weight range. I don't think the issue is that you have a "thick middle" - I think the issue is that you have some serious body image issues. You'd need a therapist to work that out, not slimming workout clothes. I'm 95% sure you're lying about getting comments from customers about your body.

    Wow. I didn't put this all together. Thank you for breaking this down.

    OP - she's right. You are a healthy weight. I'm confused as to why you would be so self conscious that you can't meet your 50 year old trainer for coffee without so much stress. I'm sure a lot of it is in your head...

    Also, I'm 5'4 and 136 pounds. No one has ever come up to me to comment on my body, except for men at bars who feel a need to comment on my butt. And even that doesn't happen to often. Are you pulling these comments out of people? Where do you live? It just doesn't make any sense.

    In my culture it's much more acceptable to comment on people's weight/appearance and thin = beautiful. I don't necessarily subscribe to this viewpoint, but many do, and so the fact that my stomach is quite flabby often gets comments.

    Tiptoe - not sure what point you're trying to make, but that was personal training at a gym. Now I'm looking for a personal trainer to work with in the long term.

    Thanks Caesar! :)

    British - Good point!

    ValGogo - not joking...I really do feel quite self conscious...
    I had a feeling you weren't from the US; just because of those type of comments. Here in the US, people don't take that shi... You'll get a quick F U, and maybe a swift kick to the balls! Just kidding lol, you know us, we like violence! Again, just kidding! Were a fun loving people, just keep your negative thoughts and comments to yourself, and well be fine lol.

    Hahaha :) Yes, I guess that's why people here were surprised that people easily make those comments here!

    Wheird, yes, I see your point. I am more self-conscious than I ought to be...for me it's embarrassing to even admit to gym stuff/PTs that I'm trying to lose weight. It's as if, I know I need to lose weight, but I'm denying it too...don't want to admit it's true...

    LOL Not a moment :)

    Thanks Allons-y! :)

    Thank you Wilma - I'll try!
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    I do have a pair of yoga pants but they got mixed in the wash and now they're pink hehe.

    I usually alternate between the same 3 blouses...I guess I'll wear the one that I like the best....

    And I could wear perfume and do a nice makeup look to distract him from looking at my body.

    To each her own, but I must warn you that the PT will most likely think you are being ridiculous.
  • kindel2
    kindel2 Posts: 67 Member
    I think pretty much has hit the nail about being comfortable. Think about whats important. Are the clothes you wear rubbing in a bad spot?. No then good, are they breathable? Then good, can you move freely in them? Then good. In reality and I am not saying this in a mean way but I think of you might want to work on loving who you are as a person. Who care if the PT thinks you are big. If everyone was thin he would not be a PT because there wouldn't be a need for him. Be a but more positive you are doing something about your current situation and trying to lose weight that's great. You don't need makeup to make yourself feel better about that accomplishment! Take it one day at a time and keep logging in.
  • I_Will_End_You
    I_Will_End_You Posts: 4,397 Member
    Something like this would be appropriate:

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  • Galatea_Stone
    Galatea_Stone Posts: 2,037 Member
    Go to your closet and get that polka dot sleeveless D&G shirt that cost you 7 bills. It's easy to find because your beagle has been rolling around on it. Wear that. It's boxy so it will hide your middle. Don't worry about the wine stain from that tasting you went to.

    Take a selfie and send it to your non-boyfriend boyfriend friend, presuming he isn't in jail. He probably won't respond because he's blocked you.

    And yes, definitely choke the entire gym in perfume. Smear on all sorts of cosmetickery, and strut your stuff. Pay your trainer double from the allowance your dad sends you for necessities like more perfume and make-up. He will probably continue working with you if you pay him double.

    Don't wear white yoga pants. They're tacky.

    On second thought, stick to the DVDs you've been reporting to us.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    I suggest finding a therapist to work on your body image issues with.

    I don't think I need that much...just want to lose some weight and look fit :)

    Sweetie, you are looking for ways to trick a personal trainer into thinking you are fitter than you actually are. It is like going to a doctor with a cold and trying to convince him that you arent sick but still want treatment.

    It is silly and more than a little crazy. Seek help.

    I'm cleaning my house before my maid shows up, and then while she's here I have youtube vids lined up for giving myself my own hair trim b/c tomorrow I have a haircut appointment.
  • Transatlantic20145
    Transatlantic20145 Posts: 94
    I think pretty much has hit the nail about being comfortable. Think about whats important. Are the clothes you wear rubbing in a bad spot?. No then good, are they breathable? Then good, can you move freely in them? Then good. In reality and I am not saying this in a mean way but I think of you might want to work on loving who you are as a person. Who care if the PT thinks you are big. If everyone was thin he would not be a PT because there wouldn't be a need for him. Be a but more positive you are doing something about your current situation and trying to lose weight that's great. You don't need makeup to make yourself feel better about that accomplishment! Take it one day at a time and keep logging in.

    That's really good advice "if everyone was thin he would not be a PT" thank you for the uplifting words!

    Galatea - ummmm okay?? lol
  • MyOwnSunshine
    MyOwnSunshine Posts: 1,312 Member
    What kind of people make comments like that to anyone? I find it equally disturbing that strangers or family/friends would say things like that to you.

    Wear compression shorts and a workout tank. You're there to work out, not to win a beauty pageant. Your trainer will have seen many different types of bodies -- yours will probably be neither the best nor the worst.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I suggest finding a therapist to work on your body image issues with.

    I don't think I need that much...just want to lose some weight and look fit :)

    Sweetie, you are looking for ways to trick a personal trainer into thinking you are fitter than you actually are. It is like going to a doctor with a cold and trying to convince him that you arent sick but still want treatment.

    It is silly and more than a little crazy. Seek help.

    I'm cleaning my house before my maid shows up, and then while she's here I have youtube vids lined up for giving myself my own hair trim b/c tomorrow I have a haircut appointment.

    Crazy.
  • notamoment
    notamoment Posts: 190 Member
    Something like this would be appropriate:

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    I want it :)

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