is it possible to get a girl friend even tho im fat ?

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  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    With enough money, anything is possible :)

    good answer!
    :laugh:
    This is what I was thinking about people that mentioned admiring celebs.

    Yeah, no. Not for me. :laugh: :indifferent:
  • midas1022
    midas1022 Posts: 151
    I think you can have a girlfriend if your heavy but I think its important that you take really good care of yourself. I mean get your hair cut the correct way. Have clear skin and wash your face and brush your teeth as much as possible. Dress the correct way. Learn how to dance like a pro. Learn how to eat with manners. I find all different sizes of women who are extremely attractive because they take care of themselves, are intelligent and well spoken. Your size won't matter if you work on yourself as a person. Even a lump of coal turns into a beautiful diamond if its squeezed hard enough to make the transformation.

    While hygiene is important and dancing classes would be cool, I think the "dress the correct way" is a bit much. He should be comfortable in what he is wearing and not try to present an image of himself that doesnt represent who he truly is.

    Dressing the proper way could mean anything. It depends on what your looking for and where. That also brings me to another point. You don't wear a suit at a gun show and you don't wear work clothes to church. It just depends on the situation.
  • SkimFlatWhite68
    SkimFlatWhite68 Posts: 1,254 Member
    What has fat got to do with it?

    My partner is a bit on the chubby side (but he's tall too), he could certainly do with some vegetables in his diet and a good smashing in the weights room 3 times a week, but you know what, he's not into it. However, he is the most wonderful man I've ever met - so *shrugs* I just love him anyway...
  • Sarah_SweetPea
    Sarah_SweetPea Posts: 19
    all im looking for in a girl is that she is happy and fun to be around ( this is a legit post please no hate )

    Yes, yes, YES!!! I've had a crush on a big guy for years. Also, my last boyfriend is overweight and I think he's really good looking. As someone mentioned before, the girl doesn't want to hear you complain about your weight. Just keep that in mind. If they like you, they like you for who you are. If you're losing weight, that's just extra. Just be confident. Confidence is all you need. Good luck!! I know you'll get a girlfriend in no time. :)
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    Yes.

    But don't be like Herkmeoff and ignore a girls text messages because it usually pisses them off. :wink:

    :laugh:
  • KatieKat1979
    KatieKat1979 Posts: 470 Member
    Here's the deal...It don't matter if your large or thin. If your a good person, respectful, act like a gentleman, honest, and be yourself - than you will find a girlfriend and keep her. You are young, make your life what you want of it because you get one chance and the rest will fall into place. Be patient, she will come. Good luck! =)
  • EricJonrosh
    EricJonrosh Posts: 823 Member
    I'm 265 in my profile pic and that is my gf with me.

    Teach me.
  • 115s
    115s Posts: 344 Member
    I'm 265 in my profile pic and that is my gf with me.

    Teach me.
    Be yourself is all you need to know. Soon as you start being someone you're not, it all goes downhill.
  • dpwellman
    dpwellman Posts: 3,271 Member
    Pretty much had girlfriends from 224 all the way up to 284 (well one was a wife at that point), so yeah.
  • joy_mcdougal
    joy_mcdougal Posts: 28
    When I was bigger, I didn't have a boyfriend. ...
    Lost about 20lbs and still no bf! So its not about weight, for me its an awesome sense of humor and height..:love:
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    :laugh:
  • xDawnsgrace
    xDawnsgrace Posts: 436
    my opinion:
    if you brush your teeth, shower, aren't an *kitten*, have manners, and be yourself(as long as "yourself" isn't a complete d-bag), then i think you're set. You'll find someone.
  • V0lver
    V0lver Posts: 915 Member
    I'm 265 in my profile pic and that is my gf with me.

    Teach me.

    this^
  • alliathurman
    alliathurman Posts: 9
    umm.. well depends!
  • rideontechnology
    rideontechnology Posts: 54 Member
    Of course! It makes me sad you even felt you had to ask this. Be nice, never feel entitled to anything of hers, and shine your personality through (well, unfortunately some people's personalities are rude and jerkish, so don't be that). The right one won't care about fat or anything else, really.
  • arainiday1
    arainiday1 Posts: 1,763 Member
    all im looking for in a girl is that she is happy and fun to be around ( this is a legit post please no hate )

    NOT hating but your page says you are 18 and want to lose 14 lbs in 30 days.... that's a little crazy

    but to answer your question, yes, it has nothing to do with that.


    i agree with this ---

    " myopinion:
    if you brush your teeth, shower, aren't an *kitten*, have manners, and be yourself(as long as "yourself" isn't a complete d-bag), then i think you're set. You'll find someone. "
  • dakotababy
    dakotababy Posts: 2,407 Member
    Of course it is possible. Even while I was thinner, I was still always attracted to bigger guys. LOVE Big Hairy Bellies!! haha
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    Teddy Bears, yes
  • psykins
    psykins Posts: 76
    My husband was obese when we started dating, and I was a healthy weight. Just don't pull her in to your bad habits! (Now I'm struggling to get back to that healthy weight....)
  • dakotababy
    dakotababy Posts: 2,407 Member
    Just wasn't sure..

    Not real sure what a 320lb male's face is supposed to look like.

    Not his from my perspective. He doesn't even look overweight and unless he's 10'4" he holds it really well so I wasn't sure if he was being serious or not.

    Wow really, like who are you to judge that his face doesn't look like he weighs 320 pounds? Like why does it matter? My face deff doesn't look like the weight that I weigh either... Like we don't have anything better to do with our time than judge people by what they post?

    Wtf? Haha .. wow.. what?!

    Oooooh no...I think its that time of the month where there will be a ton of "TOM" Threads pop up on an hourly basis.
  • fr053n
    fr053n Posts: 2,793 Member
    This is a stupid question. Of course!

    *Edited for spelling
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    My uncle always had a girlfriend and he was always fat. He had skinny girlfriends too.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    I got a hot BF when I was fat...he even married me...so yah it's possible to find a great partner at any weight...

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    note hottie in my profile pic...
  • endermako
    endermako Posts: 785 Member
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    320lbs, has hot gf.

    It can be done! *glitter shower*

    Darn I've been creeping on you I was hoping you didnt have a gf. Sadface
  • nilbogger
    nilbogger Posts: 870 Member
    Yup. My boyfriend's a fat dude and we've been together almost 6 years.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    320lbs, has hot gf.

    It can be done! *glitter shower*

    Darn I've been creeping on you I was hoping you didnt have a gf. Sadface

    Dont worry, there was a kilt shaming incident a few weeks back so who knows of she and I can move past that
  • DBoone85
    DBoone85 Posts: 916 Member
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    320lbs, has hot gf.

    It can be done! *glitter shower*

    Darn I've been creeping on you I was hoping you didnt have a gf. Sadface

    Yeah, me too. But hes too small for me, I was going for a quarter tonner....
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
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    320lbs, has hot gf.

    It can be done! *glitter shower*

    Darn I've been creeping on you I was hoping you didnt have a gf. Sadface

    Dont worry, there was a kilt shaming incident a few weeks back so who knows of she and I can move past that

    the kilt shaming is secondary to you hitting on my sister. we are supposed to be prioritizing our issues. :angry:
  • silver_arrow3
    silver_arrow3 Posts: 1,373 Member
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    320lbs, has hot gf.

    It can be done! *glitter shower*

    Darn I've been creeping on you I was hoping you didnt have a gf. Sadface

    Dont worry, there was a kilt shaming incident a few weeks back so who knows of she and I can move past that

    the kilt shaming is secondary to you hitting on my sister. we are supposed to be prioritizing our issues. :angry:

    I call dibs if the kilt shaming and sister flirting sends your relationship into hellfire! :drinker:
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
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    320lbs, has hot gf.

    It can be done! *glitter shower*

    Darn I've been creeping on you I was hoping you didnt have a gf. Sadface

    Dont worry, there was a kilt shaming incident a few weeks back so who knows of she and I can move past that

    the kilt shaming is secondary to you hitting on my sister. we are supposed to be prioritizing our issues. :angry:

    I call dibs if the kilt shaming and sister flirting sends your relationship into hellfire! :drinker:

    which one of us are you calling dibs on? (pls let it be me)

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