There is No Such Thing as Willpower (or Lack Thereof)

kdblev

Thanks, I needed that!

MsPitt

If only I could get my husband to think this way about spending money! lol!

SouthernBell86

This is very good, and I mostly agree with you. I mean, personally once I realized that I was using my weight as a reason not to have good relationships, it was a logical next step to realize that each small food transgression was still a judgement against having people in my life. I realized that for me it really came down to what was more important: food or people. Thankfully I chose people and since then I have been able to lose weight, exercise, and enjoy eating healthy!

The only thing is, I really do believe in will power, or something like it with a different name. I was reading some clinical studies of brain scans done, that showed that using will power on ANYTHING (saying no chocolate, or saying yes to cleaning) used up stores of glucose in the brain, and made it significantly harder, sometimes impossible to make more consecutive "will power" decisions. Basically it is hard work for your brain when you override it's instincts and try to do something you don't want to do. It requires more energy, is exhausting, and you need to be replenished.

I don't think that this is out of line with what you are saying though. Because really, for me now I don't have to tap into my "will power" glucose stores in order to follow my diet plan. Diets I tried doing before my revelation about food vs. people were a torture of continuous hard decisions, but now I really am happy and excited to do those things. Perhaps because of that I am also not letting other areas of my life suffer because of my diet like I had done during those previous torture diet spells.

The literature I read about the will power glucose stores suggested that students should be sure to eat small healthy snacks while studying to ensure they continued studying and also had the will power to make good meal decisions later in the day. I think that for dieters like us who have tapped into a reason that dieting is not a chore, this knowledge is mostly useful in times of diet trial like Thanksgiving, or a plateau.

It's also useful to me to know that if I have a long day of chores ahead of me, I should make sure to bring small healthy snacks along for the ride :P

lehuagirl

Hi. Just wanted this to be in my topics so I could follow it and be inspired. I agree, so how do I change the "I can't" to "I can." Is it willpower? He he

lehuagirl

I love your half mile by Christmas goal! Last year I did "Couch Potato to 5K" (You can google it) and it was sooooooo helpful. I did not make my 5K goal, but went from not being able to run 60 seconds without sucking wind to running 2.3 miles and 25 minutes steady!!! I was so surprised at how short a distance I could go in those LOOOOONG 60 seconds at first LOL

gurlondrums

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SouthernBell86

@lehuagirl - Yes, I am using C25K, but kind of modified. I listed to the Ullrey podcasts in order to direct the intervals, which is very helpful. I am really happy to hear that you found so much success with it. It isn't necessarily my goal to run in 5k's I just really want to be able to run. It is something that I didn't believe was possible for me to do my whole life, but I recently realized that the only thing holding me back was the belief I couldn't. Anyway, I can run about a quarter mile right now, which is huge progress since I could barely run a few feet before I started losing weight and exercising. My attitude towards running has also changed and I'm slowly beginning to actually enjoy it!

lehuagirl

You go girl, for that Christmas goal. I have heard that you get addicted to that "runner's high." Wish I could say I got there, but the pride in my accomplishment was huge! I live in MN, so I am re-starting my exercise on a cross trainer. You can bug me on that front anyone!