The best things about being single

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  • littlebutlean
    littlebutlean Posts: 2,159 Member
    How about never having sex? How's that working out for all the single people?

    Who said you can't have sex when single?!!

    Let's not be silly and take things to the extreme by literal definition. By "never having sex" I'm talking about comparing the number of times you're having sex when single vs. in a relationship.
  • stuart160
    stuart160 Posts: 1,628 Member
    The ability to pretty much do whatever I want and go wherever I want whoever I want : )

    This pretty much sums it up.
    That includes having sex, for the earlier poster, this is 2014. Most single people have another single friend on speed dial.
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    How about never having sex? How's that working out for all the single people?

    Who said you can't have sex when single?!!

    Let's not be silly and take things to the extreme by literal definition. By "never having sex" I'm talking about comparing the number of times you're having sex when single vs. in a relationship.

    Exactly to the older post and most girls don't want to keep on having random sex with guys. Guys single, yeah, girls, we will have a few one night stands or maybe have a short lived fling, but when single, we want to find a guy who thinks we are worth waiting.
  • littlebutlean
    littlebutlean Posts: 2,159 Member
    The ability to pretty much do whatever I want and go wherever I want whoever I want : )

    This pretty much sums it up.
    That includes having sex, for the earlier poster, this is 2014. Most single people have another single friend on speed dial.

    So most single people have f buddies on their phone in which they can pretty much rely on at most times? I'm being genuinely honest/curious here.
  • swalberg0625
    swalberg0625 Posts: 98 Member
    Well I could go on about all the great freedoms of being single....but I am a young single mom. That's true commitment haha. But I am perfectly okay with all the time we spend together. One day he won't want to hang out with mom so I'll take the time I can get with him now! :)
  • swalberg0625
    swalberg0625 Posts: 98 Member
    Going out with your guy friends and not coming home to "Did you sleep with them?

    Hahahaha! This is great!
  • serendipitys1003
    serendipitys1003 Posts: 88 Member
    Dancing around the house while you clean with out an "audience"
  • wolfie640
    wolfie640 Posts: 49 Member
    How about never having sex? How's that working out for all the single people?

    Who said you can't have sex when single?!!

    Let's not be silly and take things to the extreme by literal definition. By "never having sex" I'm talking about comparing the number of times you're having sex when single vs. in a relationship.

    Fair enough but I'd still rather have the 'single life ' sex a bit less often than the (what can become , eventually) boring sex of a long term relationship....
  • islander_2013
    islander_2013 Posts: 13,378 Member
    Dancing around the house while you clean with out an "audience"

    can i hire to clean my house
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    Going out with your guy friends and not coming home to "Did you sleep with them?

    Hahahaha! This is great!

    Issue is that some of my guy friends are just that close but would never do it. One bf was so jealous that even five minutes alone with them, he thought I was giving bjs
  • serendipitys1003
    serendipitys1003 Posts: 88 Member
    The ability to pretty much do whatever I want and go wherever I want whoever I want : )

    This pretty much sums it up.
    That includes having sex, for the earlier poster, this is 2014. Most single people have another single friend on speed dial.

    I need a single friend :drinker:
  • stuart160
    stuart160 Posts: 1,628 Member
    :
    Going out with your guy friends and not coming home to "Did you sleep with them?

    Hahahaha! This is great!:noway:

    Issue is that some of my guy friends are just that close but would never do it. One bf was so jealous that even five minutes alone with them, he thought I was giving bjs
    you must be good if he thought it was all over in 5 minutes :noway:
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Dancing around the house while you clean with out an "audience"

    That sounds sad.
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    :
    Going out with your guy friends and not coming home to "Did you sleep with them?

    Hahahaha! This is great!:noway:

    Issue is that some of my guy friends are just that close but would never do it. One bf was so jealous that even five minutes alone with them, he thought I was giving bjs
    you must be good if he thought it was all over in 5 minutes :noway:

    Wouldn't you like to know. LOL

    No one using all the hot water
  • serendipitys1003
    serendipitys1003 Posts: 88 Member
    Dancing around the house while you clean with out an "audience"

    That sounds sad.

    sad for him :laugh:
  • stuart160
    stuart160 Posts: 1,628 Member
    :
    Going out with your guy friends and not coming home to "Did you sleep with them?

    Hahahaha! This is great!:noway:

    Issue is that some of my guy friends are just that close but would never do it. One bf was so jealous that even five minutes alone with them, he thought I was giving bjs
    you must be good if he thought it was all over in 5 minutes :noway:

    Wouldn't you like to know. LOL

    No one using all the hot water
    why are you not on my speed dial lol
  • CaffeinatedConfectionist
    CaffeinatedConfectionist Posts: 1,046 Member
    Tom Waits pretty much sums it up in "better off without a wife" (and/or husband, in this case). I'm kinda selfish about my privacy...
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    :
    Going out with your guy friends and not coming home to "Did you sleep with them?

    Hahahaha! This is great!:noway:

    Issue is that some of my guy friends are just that close but would never do it. One bf was so jealous that even five minutes alone with them, he thought I was giving bjs
    you must be good if he thought it was all over in 5 minutes :noway:

    Wouldn't you like to know. LOL

    No one using all the hot water
    why are you not on my speed dial lol

    Because you didn't save my number.
    Come on, I said I wanted to enhance the morale of the troops.

    Best thing is not having to worry about someone kissing you right after you wake up with the bad morning breath
  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,961 Member
    Nope.
    I had reasons until I found the one for me. He lets me not shave, fart, read, everything hahah.

    But seriously - you will never feel guilty checking someone out as a single person.
  • 1911JR
    1911JR Posts: 276
    Everything

    EXACTLY
  • kbmnurse
    kbmnurse Posts: 2,484 Member
    Stay single your pockets will jingle.
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    True.
  • Pixi_Rex
    Pixi_Rex Posts: 1,676 Member

    Pros:
    Not having to tell anyone where I'm going or what I'm doing.
    Can sit in front of tv for long spurts (e.g. tv marathon) and not give a damn.
    I can wizz with the door open!
    Pass wind...and not care! I like not having to hold it in at home. (Yes, us women do pass wind)

    I have done and do all of these things in past relationships and if my current SO wasn't LD I would be doing it now.
  • T1DCarnivoreRunner
    T1DCarnivoreRunner Posts: 11,502 Member
    The ability to pretty much do whatever I want and go wherever I want whoever I want : )

    This pretty much sums it up.
    That includes having sex, for the earlier poster, this is 2014. Most single people have another single friend on speed dial.

    I need a single friend :drinker:

    Me too! It wasn't until just now that I realized the value of friendship.
  • deevah62
    deevah62 Posts: 32 Member
    Knowing what you're coming home to - peace and quiet, tidiness, healthy food in the kitchen...
  • missy5290
    missy5290 Posts: 68 Member
    You can look.....and touch.
  • whitebalance
    whitebalance Posts: 1,654 Member
    I can't believe nobody's mentioned closet space yet.
    ALL TEH SHELVZ IZ AAAAAALL MINE!!! :drinker:
  • Ilikelamps
    Ilikelamps Posts: 482 Member
    Not feeling guilty after some kik conversations
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    The ability to pretty much do whatever I want and go wherever I want whoever I want : )

    This pretty much sums it up.
    That includes having sex, for the earlier poster, this is 2014. Most single people have another single friend on speed dial.

    So most single people have f buddies on their phone in which they can pretty much rely on at most times? I'm being genuinely honest/curious here.
    Me too, I'm curious.
    This sounds like some bull ish :laugh:
  • MildredBarhopper
    MildredBarhopper Posts: 99 Member
    Maybe I will be excited about all of these pros one day...but my 8-year relationship just ended. Apparently, he has been feeling different for months but didn't let on. I thought everything was great, we talked about our future together, etc. Now it's just over all of a sudden. Still doesn't feel real.....One day I will enjoy being single, but I can't at this moment :(. I should keep reading this threat to psych myself up, haha...