Pushy Spelling/Grammar People
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Don't be a sad banana, OP!0
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I am an editor. I'm trained to notice errors.
I think there is a difference between a typo and a true error. (One comes from being sloppy. The other comes from a lack of knowledge.)
But when I'm off the clock, I would never consider correcting someone. Even on the clock, I'm considerate about how I offer feedback. I find the aggressive attempts at humiliation I see online to be far more offensive than typos or errors.
For the record, I can't deal with the abbreviations in texts, even when they're clever. To me, if someone is so busy that he or she has to abbreviate to the point of cavespeak, maybe it would be best to tell me about it later.0 -
Seeing as how the only image you have with which to present yourself online is through a bunch of words, it behooves you to display the education you got in third grade, by spelling and arranging those words in an intelligent and proper manner. It is my knee jerk reaction to assume someone who cannot spell "lose" or "loose" correctly is a dumb@ss. I can overlook a typo or two, but when it's consistent, I lose all patience with you entirely, and yes, I will set you straight if it's bad enough. If I have to suffer through your trainwreck of a post, you must suffer my corrections.
edited for an ironic typo, lol
The guide description for a tv show I was watching the other day used "loose" when it should have used "lose." It irritated me to the nth degree.0 -
If you are with a smelly person, do you tell them that they smell? On one hand you may hurt their feelings and that's not ideal. On the other hand, they may not even know they smell and so by telling them you will actually improve their life because they will take not and remedy the problem. That odorous stench may have been hindering their romantic life and possibly even professional life, since everyone avoids the smelly individual. Do you choose to be passive and polite or risk being rude with the chance of being helpful?
I once told a very nice lady that she smelled because she kept getting fired from her jobs because her bosses told her she had BO. She didn't believe she actually smelled because she bathed daily and she said she thought she was being bullied.
I told her the truth which was she didn't smell like BO, she smelled like cat pee. She used to leave her clean clothes lying around and her cat would pee on them when she wasn't looking. She didn't notice when she was dressing because her whole apartment smelled like cat pee anyway because the cat just peed all over the place with wild abandon. All she had to do was hang her clothes in the closet so her cat couldn't get to them but she never did. Then she lost another job. I wish I hadn't said anything since it didn't do any good anyway.
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I hate punctuation with a passion....far too many rules!!!!!0
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Funny thing is most self confessed grammar freaks are really just freaks about a few basic rules.
I rarely see people correcting split infinitives or hanging prepositions, or other more advanced/controversial rules. I rarely see someone point out an incorrectly used semicolon.
I conclude that they are not grammar freaks. Merely people who want to discredit an argument by criticizing grammar and/or get off on feeling superior to others.
I like to always split infinitives and hang my prepositions up.
I also don't consider these to be incorrect.0 -
yup I hate that
it's very hard0 -
My grandfather was a Typesetter for a newspaper back in th 40's, 50's and 60's. The Daily Breeze. He was the one that set the standard for me.
I can overlook it when a person makes a grammatical error or a mispelling, but, when it is Newsprint or an Advertisement, I think it's ridiculous. Someone is not doing their job.
I agree completely.
A text from a friend with errors like "much better then..." or "I need to stop at Aldi's" is annoying and seems careless.
A professionally printed sign at the supermarket "Tomato's 1.69/lb" or "chipolte peppers" makes me feel disgusted. More than one person clearly did not do their job.0 -
Funny thing is most self confessed grammar freaks are really just freaks about a few basic rules.
I rarely see people correcting split infinitives or hanging prepositions, or other more advanced/controversial rules. I rarely see someone point out an incorrectly used semicolon.
I conclude that they are not grammar freaks. Merely people who want to discredit an argument by criticizing grammar and/or get off on feeling superior to others.
I like to always split infinitives and hang my prepositions up.
I also don't consider these to be incorrect.
And that's why I added 'controversial' - I knew someone would say this. :laugh:
"This is the sort of nonsense up with which I shall not put" - in the words of (probably someone other than) Sir. Winston Churchill.
Even so, with all these alleged grammar enthusiasts on the internet, you'd expect at least some of them to fall into the anti- split infinitives and hanging preposition camps. Or at least have an opinion on the matter.0 -
It doesn't bother me. Correct me when I'm wrong - I like to know, and it's better than looking like an illiterate knob.0
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"This is the sort of nonsense up with which I shall not put" - in the words of (probably someone other than) Sir. Winston Churchill.
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: this is THE most entertaining sentence I've read all day!!!!0 -
Some are probably chafed over subjunctive mood, I'd wager.Funny thing is most self confessed grammar freaks are really just freaks about a few basic rules.
I rarely see people correcting split infinitives or hanging prepositions, or other more advanced/controversial rules. I rarely see someone point out an incorrectly used semicolon.
I conclude that they are not grammar freaks. Merely people who want to discredit an argument by criticizing grammar and/or get off on feeling superior to others.
I like to always split infinitives and hang my prepositions up.
I also don't consider these to be incorrect.
And that's why I added 'controversial' - I knew someone would say this. :laugh:
"This is the sort of nonsense up with which I shall not put" - in the words of (probably someone other than) Sir. Winston Churchill.
Even so, with all these alleged grammar enthusiasts on the internet, you'd expect at least some of them to fall into the anti- split infinitives and hanging preposition camps. Or at least have an opinion on the matter.0 -
Many of these responses are spectacular, and a bit unexpected! They demonstrate that how one writes is in direct correlation to how seriously they are taken.
I will say that I accept a lot of slang, clichés and abbreviation in my internet chat. It lends a lot of personality to something that can be very flat. It only comes across as base if the writer actually is.0 -
"We don't need no education"0
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^ThisI don't correct stuff usually. I do, however, judge people based upon the way they write.
I'm not going to take the time to correct someone else's abominable (mis)use of the English language but I will mentally judge you for not knowing, for example, the correct usage of to (a preposition indicating "toward"), too (meaning "also") and two (a natural whole number between 1 and 3). You should also probably understand that "there" is a place whereas "their" denotes possession and "they're" is short for "they are".0 -
"This is the sort of nonsense up with which I shall not put" - in the words of (probably someone other than) Sir. Winston Churchill.
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: this is THE most entertaining sentence I've read all day!!!!
Darnit! And here I was hoping it was my translation that humored you the most. :laugh:
My response really depends on the context. I used to read a lot of Louis L'Amour when I was growing up, and he often wrote in such a way that the character 'read' like they probably sounded. Words like gonna and shoulda. They aren't grammatically correct, but within the context they add to the experience. However, when I get a text from someone saying "how r u 2day?" I refuse to respond to it - if you want to talk to me, speak (and text) in English. Otherwise, don't waste my time.0 -
I don't mind. I rather be told than continue to make the same stupid mistake.0
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It happened to me one time. An English teacher told me I spelled something wrong. I was glad. I don't want to continue spelling the same word wrong over and over again.
Other than that, nobody has ever done that to me.0 -
Some people just don't understand pedantry.
To those of us that do, we say: one posts at his own risk.0 -
I don't mind. I rather be told than continue to make the same stupid mistake.
I *would* rather ...
Sometimes I correct people if it's a glaringly obvious error, but I usually don't. I'm an ESL (English as a Second Language) teacher so correcting people on the internet too often begins to feel like work for me!0 -
Does it tick you off when someone corrects your spelling and or structure in an online forum? Or, do you EVER see it as helpful? What do you think motivates a "grammar Nazi"?
I don't even get the urge when the entire post is barely English. But, occasionally, an otherwise intelligent and well-stated post makes me wonder if the writer would like to have the error pointed out. I know I would.
I would much rather know than continue to make a mistake that has the potential to make me look stupid. So yes, I see it as helpful when done with good intentions.
When it's done in a way to try to make me feel inferior because I made a stupid mistake in the middle of a debate/argument, it's totally douchey. It's one form of passive aggression that makes me twitchy.
I'm guilty of internally judging people (and their intelligence) who make repeated mistakes (basic) errors (unless English isn't their first language). I know it's a terrible habit, it's knee jerk. I'm trying to stop doing it, but in my head I'm like YOU + ARE = YOU'RE. I'm a work in progress
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I don't mind. I rather be told than continue to make the same stupid mistake.
I *would* rather ...
Sometimes I correct people if it's a glaringly obvious error, but I usually don't. I'm an ESL (English as a Second Language) teacher so correcting people on the internet too often begins to feel like work for me! Ding ding ding we have a winner!!!! 0 -
I don't correct stuff usually. I do, however, judge people based upon the way they write.
SAME.
I think it just depends. Generally I get annoyed with spelling/grammar corrections because I don't think it's done to educate, it's done to piss people off. In arguments, for example. Correcting spelling or grammar mistake as means of a come back in an online debate is super childish. Obviously, bad spelling/grammar automatically diminishes anything someone says [at least to me], so you don't have to call them on it. EVERYONE ALREADY KNOWS.
I'm a total grammar-nazi in my own head and am, I think, fairly adept at basic writing, but I also make stupid mistakes once in awhile. Sometimes I'll be typing too fast and not really thinking and will use the wrong there/they're/their or your/you're or to/too and totally judge myself for it. But it happens, we're all human.
ETA that I think I judge people a lot more on sites where they can edit their posts and fix their mistakes than I do elsewhere, because then it's REALLY obvious that it wasn't just a typo and they really don't know how to spell.
Also wanted to ask: Does anyone else regularly look up words before using them just to make sure you're using it correctly or have it spelled right? Because I do this ALL the time. In this post alone, I looked up 'argument' to make sure it was spelled without an 'e', and I looked up 'adept' to make sure it meant what I thought it did. It's kind of like punching 2+2 into a calculator - you KNOW the answer but you have to double check just to be 100% sure!0 -
Also wanted to ask: Does anyone else regularly look up words before using them just to make sure you're using it correctly or have it spelled right? Because I do this ALL the time. In this post alone, I looked up 'argument' to make sure it was spelled without an 'e', and I looked up 'adept' to make sure it meant what I thought it did. It's kind of like punching 2+2 into a calculator - you KNOW the answer but you have to double check just to be 100% sure!
i double check a lot and don't think there's anything wrong with it! Much better to be sure you're spelling the word right than just wing it, IMHO.
I used to correct people all the time back when I was young and ignorant. I'm pretty sure it wasn't because I wanted to feel superior, but rather because I love the English language and hate when people abuse it. At some point, I realized I was being obnoxious because it's not polite to correct other people like I'd been doing. This was long before the Internet.
I usually don't bother trying to correct people online because I don't think people care. If they did, they'd take the initiative to work on their spelling/punctuation. Also, it never fails that if I try to correct someone, that'll be the time for my brain to totally forget how to spell every word I use. There are probably 10 misspellings in this post and I'm not seeing them.
(FWIW, I have a reason to be anal about grammar; I'm a writer.)0 -
I realize that when 'texting' people will use short cuts, make spelling errors due to closeness of keys, use text speak, etc., and that is well and fine and understood as trying to be quick about communication. When I read online posts with spelling mistakes, and/or grammar errors, I judge the writer's credibility. What is being said (written) is less credible to me with spelling errors. I find that I start correcting the grammar and spelling rather than caring to understand their viewpoint.
I think that is something you need to work on then.
I don't think discrediting people's point of view because of spelling errors is something to be proud of ( or of which to be proud, if you prefer
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Chris gets up to give a presentation in a new, tailored suit, hair done well, obviously well-groomed, and speaks in a clear, confident voice while maintaining eye contact with the audience.I realize that when 'texting' people will use short cuts, make spelling errors due to closeness of keys, use text speak, etc., and that is well and fine and understood as trying to be quick about communication. When I read online posts with spelling mistakes, and/or grammar errors, I judge the writer's credibility. What is being said (written) is less credible to me with spelling errors. I find that I start correcting the grammar and spelling rather than caring to understand their viewpoint.
I think that is something you need to work on then.
I don't think discrediting people's point of view because of spelling errors is something to be proud of ( or of which to be proud, if you prefer )
Pat gets up to give a presentation in disheveled, dirty clothes, hair uncombed and obviously not well-groomed, and speaks in a quiet mumble, all the while staring down at the notes.
Is it your contention that you'd judge both presentations equally, or solely on content rather than including delivery in your evaluation?0 -
I got a new Boss a few years back. We hadn't met him yet. He called a staff meeting in a nearby Training Room. Staff showed up on time.
15 Minutes past the designated meeting time and the new Boss has not arrived. I got out of my seat and walked up to the front of the room.
I wrote on the white board "Word for the Day: Punctuality"
New Boss arrives a few minutes later. Looks at the Board. He then turned to us and introduced himself. Gave a short little presentation, then, as we were ready to leave, he points to the White Board and says, "I would have responded to that if it had been spelled correctly.
I went back to my office and looked up Punctuality on a Web Dictionary. I cut and pasted to an email that I sent to everyone that was in the room, including my new Boss.
Under the cut and pasted spelling and definition I wrote: "It's not important that I'm right. It's important that you know I'm right."0 -
Im purffekt don need no won kerekting ma grammer or speling0
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There are grammar and/or spelling errors in well over half of the responses in this thread. I would encourage all of you to reread your posts and discover them.
I rarely point out others' grammar and spelling errors, but irony is awesome.0 -
I got a new Boss a few years back. We hadn't met him yet. He called a staff meeting in a nearby Training Room. Staff showed up on time.
15 Minutes past the designated meeting time and the new Boss has not arrived. I got out of my seat and walked up to the front of the room.
I wrote on the white board "Word for the Day: Punctuality"
New Boss arrives a few minutes later. Looks at the Board. He then turned to us and introduced himself. Gave a short little presentation, then, as we were ready to leave, he points to the White Board and says, "I would have responded to that if it had been spelled correctly.
I went back to my office and looked up Punctuality on a Web Dictionary. I cut and pasted to an email that I sent to everyone that was in the room, including my new Boss.
Under the cut and pasted spelling and definition I wrote: "It's not important that I'm right. It's important that you know I'm right."
I'm sure the grace you afforded your new boss, was returned to you tenfold. I mean really, without having known his situation, you judged him and called him out in front of the entire office, and then proceeded to continue the pissing match by email for all to see. . He must have thought you were a hero.
What if one of his family members had just died, or a child was sick, or he had been in a car accident? without knowing anything about him, you judged him.
Sorry, but not cool.0
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