It's dirty in here, don't come in...
SmexAppeal
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My boyfriend put a mirror at the end of our bed...
I noticed him admiring my, errrr... assets in the mirror the other day.
A very evil grin covered my face as I turned back to him.
I made a very slow path and let him drink it all in.
It felt empowering to know I was making him putty in my hands.
As I crawled to him on the bed, watching him look at me in the mirror... I felt it... I felt sexy.
Other stuff happened that will surely get this thread banned. But this is a triumph for me, so I hope it is taken seriously and not just as smut. It felt really good to see myself naked in a mirror and not cringe. Not only that, I looked and I liked it. Granted, my boyfriend really makes me feel sexy and powerful, so that helps my confidence... but my hard work is what got rid of the jibbly bits I hated to see. So go ahead and get a mirror installed at the end of your bed! You may never be the same person again....
I noticed him admiring my, errrr... assets in the mirror the other day.
A very evil grin covered my face as I turned back to him.
I made a very slow path and let him drink it all in.
It felt empowering to know I was making him putty in my hands.
As I crawled to him on the bed, watching him look at me in the mirror... I felt it... I felt sexy.
Other stuff happened that will surely get this thread banned. But this is a triumph for me, so I hope it is taken seriously and not just as smut. It felt really good to see myself naked in a mirror and not cringe. Not only that, I looked and I liked it. Granted, my boyfriend really makes me feel sexy and powerful, so that helps my confidence... but my hard work is what got rid of the jibbly bits I hated to see. So go ahead and get a mirror installed at the end of your bed! You may never be the same person again....
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In for the smut.0
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I can easily acquire the mirror.
The partner is a more difficult task.
Congrats to you! :drinker:0 -
I can easily acquire the mirror.
The partner is a more difficult task.
Congrats to you! :drinker:
How you doin'? :bigsmile:0 -
I wonder if that works in reverse!!??? Good for you! I am also starting to not hate what I see in the mirror sans clothes.0
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Congrats!
Lucky guy!0 -
This is why motels have mirrors and use white sheets...you're how old and just now figuring this out?0
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Mirror check...
Man.... ....... ....... ....... ...... ...... .......0 -
This is why motels have mirrors and use white sheets...you're how old and just now figuring this out?
When you spend your life avoiding mirrors as much as possible.... you tend to not notice them at the hotel. Or desperately try to avoid eye contact with yourself so you don't become disgusted. I have known how to have sex for long time now... just now learning to find my body to be attractive, sexy if you will. So no poking fun at me... I'm not a 40 year old virgin :blushing: :laugh: :glasses: :devil:0 -
another thing I did that will give you an even deeper impact. Film yourself doing it then watch it later together...
you'll tell me what you think then0 -
This is why motels have mirrors and use white sheets...you're how old and just now figuring this out?
When you spend your life avoiding mirrors as much as possible.... you tend to not notice them at the hotel. Or desperately try to avoid eye contact with yourself so you don't become disgusted. I have known how to have sex for long time now... just now learning to find my body to be attractive, sexy if you will. So no poking fun at me... I'm not a 40 year old virgin :blushing: :laugh: :glasses: :devil:0 -
Congrats!0 -
You are a beautiful woman, you have no reason to fear mirrors and avoid them0
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another thing I did that will give you an even deeper impact. Film yourself doing it then watch it later together...
you'll tell me what you think then
We actually had this conversation after we finished last night lol.
We have decided to perhaps venture that path.
But I'm sorry... those will be kept under lock and key!0 -
Mirror check...
Man.... ....... ....... ....... ...... ...... .......
Imma run out of, "How you doin'?"'s :laugh:0 -
You are a beautiful woman, you have no reason to fear mirrors and avoid them
Well thank you. But being overweight took a lot of that confidence away. When you love to learn your body, confidence just starts to seep back into it. It surely doesn't help having people say wonderful things about you either... so again, thank you!0 -
Boyfriend? You shouldn't be talking about this or even doing things like this until he is "husband"0
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Congrats!0 -
another thing I did that will give you an even deeper impact. Film yourself doing it then watch it later together...
you'll tell me what you think then
We actually had this conversation after we finished last night lol.
We have decided to perhaps venture that path.
But I'm sorry... those will be kept under lock and key!0 -
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Congrats!
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Boyfriend? You shouldn't be talking about this or even doing things like this until he is "husband"
I almost got pissed...then I saw who said it...
:drinker:
@OP....Good for you! Not being disgusted when I look in the mirror is my main motivating factor on this journey!!0 -
Congrats!
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Boyfriend? You shouldn't be talking about this or even doing things like this until he is "husband"
Says the virgin0 -
Boyfriend? You shouldn't be talking about this or even doing things like this until he is "husband"
No offense, but this is 2014... not 1950. Unless you're abstaining for religious reasons, there's not really any reason to abstain from a normal healthy sexual relationship with your spouse/partner.0 -
Boyfriend? You shouldn't be talking about this or even doing things like this until he is "husband"
This is an adult conversation honey... Go back to the kiddy table dear...0 -
Congrats!
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Congrats!
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This had me giggling at my desk. :laugh:
Congratulations, OP! I remember not wanting to look in the mirror during sexy time, cuz it took all the sexy out of it. Damn I miss sexy time.0 -
Congrats!
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Me either. I thought it was from that Jim Carrey movie that I can't remember the name of.0 -
Lol my closet has mirror panels and it's right across from the bed. It's a bit freaky at night though, when you're in the dark and you can see your reflection... You think it's a ghost before assuming it's just your reflection.0
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